What do you want?

[pvt_addiction]

It's as simple as the thread title reads. Simply put, why Lit? What brings you here?

Is it friendship? Is it something more serious? Looking to meet someone in person? Maybe it's something as simple as flirting and getting off. Chatting, voice, cam.

Let us know, throw it out there.

 

[JudasIscariot]

I'm came on here to write stories.

I never wrote one. The rest is history.

 

[pvt_addiction]

As for me, I'm not exactly looking for a physical connection. I've come to Lit on and off for years now. What continues to bring me back? I'd have to say probably my desire to flirt and my high sex drive. I enjoy chatting and seeing where it goes. Voice is nice, and I've shown on cam a time or two. Want to know anything else, just ask.

And yes, I can't wait to see the guy:girl ratio of this thread. Like so many others on here I'm sure it will just turn into a bunch of horny guys throwing out their thoughts while the ladies sit back and be coy about letting others really know what they want.

 

[Lovely2222]

Teasing, flirting, some chatting, game playing and yes I do read the stories.

While it is nice to connect with people that have like minded interests, I am not here to meet or hook up. I like online play. There is mystery attached to it and you have to use your imagination.

 

[pvt_addiction]

I'm came on here to write stories.

I never wrote one. The rest is history.

Something distracted you, huh?

Teasing, flirting, some chatting, game playing and yes I do read the stories.

While it is nice to connect with people that have like minded interests, I am not here to meet or hook up. I like online play. There is mystery attached to it and you have to use your imagination.

Thanks for being the first female to step up.

What's your thoughts on girls sitting back and waiting for the guy to PM them? It seems that a lot of Litettes would rather have the guy initiate?

 

[Scrivener_]

I've been here on and off for years - originally came for the stories but quickly settled in, although I'm most active now. I'm here for good conversation and mental (and physical, let's be honest) stimulation. I like meeting new people and getting to know them, and the PG games are fun too. Sometimes it's intimidating to PM the "popular" or well established guys, so I'll try to post in their threads to get their attention first. Mostly, though, I don't have any qualms about messaging first - I think it might be a confidence thing for some, fear of seeming too forward for others, but I don't really think about those for myself.

 

[consar]

I want

To chat n share my shit with another couple or female.looks unimportant but deviant minds a must.

 

[UnknownPath]

My reasons...

It's as simple as the thread title reads. Simply put, why Lit? What brings you here?

Is it friendship? Is it something more serious? Looking to meet someone in person? Maybe it's something as simple as flirting and getting off. Chatting, voice, cam.

Let us know, throw it out there.

I first found Literotica for the most base reason, to find release. Then I came triculating back for reading and writing stories, and then eventually to chat with others or read other people's thoughts. I was shy about joining the forum area until I found out I was stuck in a sexless/non-intimate relationship. Once I got out of the relationship (for different reasons than mentioned) I felt like I was starving and took the jump.

So far I have found a few friends. I have chat and roleplayed. I would consider meeting my friends in person.

And I contact my first friend, answering their post and PMing them privately since. The other friend of mine found me, so I am good at searching and receiving offers of friendship. I only sit back and let the guys come to me if I am not even looking for them. Then I will find out if we even mesh friendship-wise or otherwise.

 

[Sunrain1985]

I've been on here on and off for a few years now but have just recently rejoined. I'm really nervous about posting too but i'm sure that will pass!

I originally found the site to read the stories and just randomly found the link for the forum. I just read through a few threads for a while and then eventually posted and started to get PM's and send them too. I don't mind sending PM's - if something catches your eye then why not go for it

I think at the moment i'm here just to chat online - i've met up with someone before and it was great but i'm not sure if that's something i'd do again, not at the moment anyway. Just happy to chat, maybe make a few new online friends and share experiences, fantasies etc.

 

[SassySheDevil]

It's as simple as the thread title reads. Simply put, why Lit? What brings you here?

Is it friendship? Is it something more serious? Looking to meet someone in person? Maybe it's something as simple as flirting and getting off. Chatting, voice, cam.

Let us know, throw it out there.

I Came for the stories, stayed for the interaction between people and an outlet to vent my flirty/perverted side, only to learn that as soon as you mention anything pervy, you get 100 PMs from guys asking to help you out with that. So while I came for a safe place to talk about those kind of things, I often don't anymore. I stay because of the friends I have made along the way. Several of them ones I talk to every day and have become a big part of my real life as well. Those I am closest to, my husband knows of them and in his own way gets to interact with them as well. I have met one in person and plan to meet two others some day.

And yes, I can't wait to see the guy:girl ratio of this thread. Like so many others on here I'm sure it will just turn into a bunch of horny guys throwing out their thoughts while the ladies sit back and be coy about letting others really know what they want.

I can answer this cause my PMs are turned off, so I don't have to worry about the backlash of what can come from this.

Also, For the PMs. I rarely ever PM a guy first, and for me, that is cause I feel like that says I want something more then I do. I pretty much just like to talk and flirt and have fun. If I let you in further then that, it's because I truly trusted you. The only time I sent a message first was because something really caught my eye.

 

[Arielsdream]

Came for the stories....

I have always gotten along with men better then women. I'm looking for fun, friendship, flirting, fantasies, mental stimulation....and maybe if I'm lucky an AZ fwb.

 

[L8tnIt]

Doesn't most everyone in the Forums start out for the literature? It is almost a gateway drug into unleashing the libido that has always been repressed.

And then, we find the Forums. We see that others have their own ideas of what is a turn-on, of what is erotic, of what is romantic, and more. Some people even find that there are other people who like some of the same things that we enjoy. And then the communication blossoms; between individuals, and between collections of like-minded people.

I am only speaking of my own personal observations, and I make this disclaimer to point this out.

This is how I started. Now, I enjoy the online company to keep me awake as I toil away at my mind-numbing boredom.

 

[pvt_addiction]

Thank you all for posting. It's interesting to see people's different reasons and point of views.

I agree with the fact that most people here probably started off with the stories. It truly is like a gateway drug into this addiction. I remember the first time I tried giving the threads a go, back in my college years. Things didn't necessarily go as planned, but years later I came back and here I am.

As far as the PMs go, I can't imagine what it's like to be a female on here when it comes to receiving random messages. I know I've been guilty of sending random messages. I never try to be vulgar or overly awkward when initiating a conversation. I guess that random message for me is my way of breaking the ice. Some people would rather start out by getting to know one another on the threads, but I find it harder to keep up and just not as personal.

Thanks again for posting. Who knows, maybe some new friendships/connections will be made here.

 

[Bitesback]

I bet the current gender profile of this thread is not what you expected, pvt.

I had read Lit stories for years. I had also been in an online relationship for a while, but we had not met through chat sites. As that relationship wound down, I found myself really missing the flirty banter more than anything. I thought I'd hit the personals option here and soon discovered it was a portal to another world.

The PG games looked fun so I thought I'd become a member and play. Upon getting a user name, I started receiving PMs before I had a chance to post. I had to ask one PMer how he found me because with no posts to my name I didn't know how anyone knew I was here. I know now the new member listing screams fresh meat... I met some very interesting and fun people. I've shared some satisfying times here and had some disappointments, too. But I have rarely received an objectionable PM. I have PMed very few people first, usually because they'd asked something and I thought I had something to share. I never did post on a single thread.

I left Lit for a while but I came back, feeling more confident with a new username, and politely replied to PMs but rejected chat offers for a while. I have posted freely in the PG (obviously, as I'm about to hit 6,000 posts!) and had fun. It was, after all, the original reason I became a member. Interestingly, I think I have received comparatively fewer random PMs since I came back. Maybe my new user name puts people off...or my posts!

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

Just fun chats

 

[citychick29]

Curiosity....

I spent my life always walking the "Good girls don't" road that my momma trained me to follow, and then one day I took a break from real life and bought my first romance novel. I think it was a Harlequin. My second was a bit edgier; it was a Lora Leigh. That novel shocked me, and I wanted to know if people really shared their women or if women really had sex with two men at the same time (Oh my innocence!) This led me to Lit.

I stayed when I found the boards and the very interesting people who stopped in to say hi.

What am I looking for now? I think I found it. (Although I didn't realize it when I started.) I was looking for a real friendship, and someone I could trust to share this online journey of discovery with me.

 

[mark_jacobs50]

well said

well said city!

 

[braingasmss]

friendship someone to have pm's with and yes maybe a little dirty talk

 

[Thebee123]

Came for the stories....

I have always gotten along with men better then women. I'm looking for fun, friendship, flirting, fantasies, mental stimulation....and maybe if I'm lucky an AZ fwb.

Want to go down on you

 

[Love2rp]

Hot, detailed role play with quality women that appreciate the art of story writing and story building. Sadly I've been quite disappointed so far overall

 

[Thebee123]

Oops

Want to go down on you

Oops os

 

[Arielsdream]

Thebee123.... Pmd you for clarification.

Oops os

 

[pvt_addiction]

I bet the current gender profile of this thread is not what you expected, pvt.

I had read Lit stories for years. I had also been in an online relationship for a while, but we had not met through chat sites. As that relationship wound down, I found myself really missing the flirty banter more than anything. I thought I'd hit the personals option here and soon discovered it was a portal to another world.

The PG games looked fun so I thought I'd become a member and play. Upon getting a user name, I started receiving PMs before I had a chance to post. I had to ask one PMer how he found me because with no posts to my name I didn't know how anyone knew I was here. I know now the new member listing screams fresh meat... I met some very interesting and fun people. I've shared some satisfying times here and had some disappointments, too. But I have rarely received an objectionable PM. I have PMed very few people first, usually because they'd asked something and I thought I had something to share. I never did post on a single thread.

I left Lit for a while but I came back, feeling more confident with a new username, and politely replied to PMs but rejected chat offers for a while. I have posted freely in the PG (obviously, as I'm about to hit 6,000 posts!) and had fun. It was, after all, the original reason I became a member. Interestingly, I think I have received comparatively fewer random PMs since I came back. Maybe my new user name puts people off...or my posts!

I must say it's very nice seeing you ladies take part in the conversation. Thank you.

 

[MortalKombatKitteh]

And yes, I can't wait to see the guy:girl ratio of this thread. Like so many others on here I'm sure it will just turn into a bunch of horny guys throwing out their thoughts while the ladies sit back and be coy about letting others really know what they want.

Pretty much...

 

[MaryanneB]

I'm a woman who was sick and tired of puppies and kittens and God stuff on Facebook. I was tired of not being able to talk about sex or anything that is part of the real me.
I enjoy the stories and enjoy the PMs but not so much the feeling of being a mouse being chased by a Rottweiler.