If Wishes Came True

sassyta

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I am just one kinky crazy little submissive. But wouldn't it be nice if we could just twitch our nose and wiggle our ass and have the relationship we need or want? Nice thought huh?

But life doesn't work that way. Living in a small town makes things even tougher . There are no clubs. No activities. No I take that back. We do have senior citizens bingo on Saturday night.. and a local bar. As for Dominants. This town does not even know what one is much less how to be one.

Had a guy come on to me awhile back, and had been bugging me off and on for awhile at the local bar.

So finally I told him. I said "Ok tell me what can you offer me?" Can you be the guy I need and want if we were to have an affair?" Because there is only one kind of man I am looking to have a relationship with."

"Sure he said, What is that you need?" I said, "I am a submissive, and you?" He gives me this blank look and says, "Ok, so that means you need what?" he asked. Trying real hard here to keep a strait face here I say, "I need a strong Dominant. Are you one?" He said. "Sure, I can be that."

I am thinking omg. this is just to good. hehe!!

Strait face, I get up from the bar (This is in a local small town bar btw) wearing a short mini skirt and low cut blouse which is showing my cleavage and I kneel in front of him I look up at this poor guy, hands behind my back and say "Then yes Sir. How may I serve you?" I am looking for a Strong Dominant."

He looks all around the bar, face red and leans down and says, Sassy, what the hell are you doing?" I said, "I am ready to serve you Sir"

He looks at me then glances around the bar again and sees others grinning and watching and he says, For god sakes would you get up? His face is beat red. So I stand and say "Well, Are you a Dom or not?. His answer, "You can teach me"

I looked at him and said you are a sweet guy but it does not work that way, and unfortunately you are not what I need. I only wish you were. He never hit on me again. Imagine that,

Had another guy tell me later I scared the poor guy to death. Not to mention embarrass him. Then he asked me. "So, what the hell is a Dominant anyway? I just said, "You aren't one and, no I can't teach you to be one. Go look it up on the internet. Just look up BDSM."

He says, "Oh I know what that is." "Really, I reply, "Well yeah," he says that is where jerks get off being mean to women." I just shook my head and said "You don't have a clue and probably never will." and walked away.

So, See my dilemma here. LOL. Yep, there are Doms out there, but not in this town...So Internet here I am..lol

Fortunately, Just recently, I did find a Dom online who does know what a good Dom is, and does know what he is doing, and I am very pleased and proud to submit to him..
 
Congratulations? o_O;;

Have you thought about looking for surrounding cities? There are a few people in the area listed in your profile on Fetlife.

Also, I think it's kind of rude to tell someone what they are or aren't. You really don't know. Many people have no idea what is out there in terms of kink and BDSM and just may not have an understanding of the terms you're using.

And it can work that a submissive teaches a dominant. There are no 'rules' against it. We all started out new with no knowledge and came to learn one way or another.

Good luck with your online dom. I hope things go well.
 
Trust Me He Is Not

Congratulations? o_O;;
Also, I think it's kind of rude to tell someone what they are or aren't. You really don't know. Many people have no idea what is out there in terms of kink and BDSM and just may not have an understanding of the terms you're using.

That is true. But I happen to know the guy very well and he is anything but Dominant and a pest to boot. Like I said he had bugged me for awhile and I figured this is one way to get rid of him for good. The other guy is even worse. This is a town where everyone knows everyone and I know both of these guys really well, and both can be arrogant and rude

Thanks for the response
 
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