Dildos for virgins/beginners

[xtinelauren1]

sorry if there's already a similar thread, but I'm on mobile and the search function doesn't work for some reason.

Anyway, I've been looking into buying a dildo for some time now, but I'm at a loss figuring out where to start. I'm leaning towards something on the thicker side (like this maybe) mostly just to achieve that "full" feeling I crave when I masturbate. But I have very limited knowledge of this kind of thing which is why I'm asking you all for help!

 

[dutchrain]

sorry if there's already a similar thread, but I'm on mobile and the search function doesn't work for some reason.

Anyway, I've been looking into buying a dildo for some time now, but I'm at a loss figuring out where to start. I'm leaning towards something on the thicker side (like this maybe) mostly just to achieve that "full" feeling I crave when I masturbate. But I have very limited knowledge of this kind of thing which is why I'm asking you all for help!

If you think this is the one, buy it. Try it. If it feels too big or too small, buy another one. That is, I am afraid, the only way to find "your" dildo. If you don't want to spend too much money before you find your one, buy cheap ones, with the intention just to try them once or twice, and then start shopping again.

 

[fire_breeze]

sorry if there's already a similar thread, but I'm on mobile and the search function doesn't work for some reason.

Anyway, I've been looking into buying a dildo for some time now, but I'm at a loss figuring out where to start. I'm leaning towards something on the thicker side (like this maybe) mostly just to achieve that "full" feeling I crave when I masturbate. But I have very limited knowledge of this kind of thing which is why I'm asking you all for help!

To echo Dutchrain, it will take several tries to figure out what works for you. And you may decide that you don't like them all that much. There are several inexpensive toys that comes in variety packs.

I will tell you this, though: make sure that the material isn't too porous and you can clean it easily and thoroughly. If that toy is made out of jelly, you may wish to look for something out of silicon or another easier-to-clean and less-porous material or slip a condom over it in addition to proper cleaning.

This and this are good links that describes most materials, how to clean for them and other info.

 

[xtinelauren1]

To echo Dutchrain, it will take several tries to figure out what works for you. And you may decide that you don't like them all that much. There are several inexpensive toys that comes in variety packs.

I will tell you this, though: make sure that the material isn't too porous and you can clean it easily and thoroughly. If that toy is made out of jelly, you may wish to look for something out of silicon or another easier-to-clean and less-porous material or slip a condom over it in addition to proper cleaning.

This and this are good links that describes most materials, how to clean for them and other info.

I'll have to look into the variety packs. Thank you!

 

[bailadora]

Breezey makes a good point WRT to material. IRC, jelly products are notoriously difficult to clean!

I don't know if you are US based or not, but if you are, you might want to consider ordering from Adam and Eve. I will say that it's been awhile since I last looked at their site, so I have no clue as to the variety of selections, nor price levels. What I do remember is that they have a pretty awesome return policy, so if you're not happy with a product you can ask for a refund and not feel as if you've thrown $$ down the drain.

Good luck!

 

[flexi42]

for what its worth Ive been looking around as well, still have not made a decision but I am led to believe that the gels & so forth often have very strong, objectionable smell / flavour

I had a gel or some soft material pussy a few years ago, had to get rid of it, if I used it in the morning I would still be able to smell it on me in the evening

I have been looking at the silicone units, no smell, very hygenic ( you can boil them even)

Hope this is helpful

 

[Shelinamercy]

Hi,

I am from India. Where can I get one without getting attention from others? I am living in ladies hostel.

 

[dutchrain]

I am from India. Where can I get one without getting attention from others? I am living in ladies hostel.

Order online from a site that guarantees discrete shipping. Pay in advance and have it delivered to a postbox/postoffice, not your hostel.

 

[joelafayette]

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[Doog_kuron]

I know I'm off topic. But the thought of that cute pink dildo sliding into your virgin pussy.... wow. That would make for a hell of an erotic story just by itself. Buy the dildo, put down the textbooks, have another glass of wine, slip that thing in there, and tell us all about it.

Oh dear.

 

[Erochic]

Order online from a site that guarantees discrete shipping. Pay in advance and have it delivered to a postbox/postoffice, not your hostel.

Post boxes and post restante in India
http://www.indiapost.gov.in/Traditional_Services.aspx