How to Find Older Women

[MikeD93]

Im 21 and I love older women, meeting them is becoming a little tough. I recently joined a zumba and my oh my it has been fun but I want to meet more older ladies.....help?

 

[tissue45]

Keep trying brother

I love older woman

Dont know how to approach them..!!

Waiting to meet someone soon.

Hope u meet one soon..ATB..!! )

 

[Privates1stClass]

First thing, if you want to catch mice, you go to where the mice are. Same for older women. Where do they hang out? Well, one place to look is in spas or beauty salons.

Older women usually have kids (unless you're looking for really older women who have grandchildren), and they watch their kids at soccer games, swimming pools, and so on. Older women shop (for groceries, shoes, and other things they want), so stores and malls could be a place to look. They may also be members of country clubs.

You might be most successful by finding a bored older, neglected woman at a country club. If her husband has neglected her, she might be willing to spend a little time with someone who can put a little zip in her life.

Good luck!

 

[Emerson40]

Im 21 and I love older women, meeting them is becoming a little tough. I recently joined a zumba and my oh my it has been fun but I want to meet more older ladies.....help?

Other than being born before 1975, what else are you looking for in an older woman?
And don't say big tits....

You want someone fit and active, perhaps a professional, career gal? Someone well-read, or a shallow nympho? An independent, strong woman? Maybe someone more nurturing, perhaps a mother figure?

Funny with an infectious laugh and wicked sense of humour, or a quiet church mouse?

Are you thinking relationship, or just some dating with a little fucky-sucky?


This kind of stuff will help determine not only where you could possibly meet an older woman, but what you should do once you you've met.

It is stuff you should think about, so you have more to talk about once you've verified her age and pointed out her laugh-lines.

 

[Eilan]

What do YOU bring to the table, Mike?

 

[NightL]

Here you go
Older women of New Jersey, complete with directions.

 

[bailadora]

What do YOU bring to the table, Mike?

Young and hung. That's all he needs, doncha know?


*exiting stage left before teh snark really gets going*

 

[Emerson40]

I have heard that sending unsolicited dick-fies via PM will have the middle-aged ladies of Lit shucking their dampy-panties and wanting some spoogy Skype time.

Anonymous peni pics, of the turgid, pre-pistoning variety, are like menopausal meth.

 

[Saucyminx]

^^^^^^
Lies, libel, and calumny.


Well, I wasn't aware we were lost. *shakes GPS*


Stupid tequila!

 

[MikeD93]

Other than being born before 1975, what else are you looking for in an older woman?
And don't say big tits....

You want someone fit and active, perhaps a professional, career gal? Someone well-read, or a shallow nympho? An independent, strong woman? Maybe someone more nurturing, perhaps a mother figure?

Funny with an infectious laugh and wicked sense of humour, or a quiet church mouse?

Are you thinking relationship, or just some dating with a little fucky-sucky?


This kind of stuff will help determine not only where you could possibly meet an older woman, but what you should do once you you've met.

It is stuff you should think about, so you have more to talk about once you've verified her age and pointed out her laugh-lines.

Well for one. I cook. I have cooked professionally at high end restaurants in NYC. So i offer that. I read a plethora of books so i am down for great conversations. But what i want in a woman is someone real who is down to earth and wants companionship. I want to spoil her and see that smile. I want her to wake up feeling lucky to be with me.

 

[MikeD93]

What do YOU bring to the table, Mike?

I bring my heart. My loving heart. Companionship. Excellent cooking skills. I want to spoil her. I love when women get her nails done so that has to get done. One lady i randomly sent gifts to her office. And of course my six pack abs and 8 inch penis

 

[MikeD93]

I have heard that sending unsolicited dick-fies via PM will have the middle-aged ladies of Lit shucking their dampy-panties and wanting some spoogy Skype time.

Anonymous peni pics, of the turgid, pre-pistoning variety, are like menopausal meth.

That is too funny LOL

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I have heard that sending unsolicited dick-fies via PM will have the middle-aged ladies of Lit shucking their dampy-panties and wanting some spoogy Skype time.

Anonymous peni pics, of the turgid, pre-pistoning variety, are like menopausal meth.

HT is a great place to pick up old women and menopausal old men such as you.

 

[NightL]

Dear THEONLYJIBBLYISWHENABEEISONTHEJOHNSON,

This indeed is one of your most lame retorts ever. Down a couple of raw eggs and come back when you are packing.

Seriously difficult to throw a pity insult your way.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Dear THEONLYJIBBLYISWHENABEEISONTHEJOHNSON,

This indeed is one of your most lame retorts ever. Down a couple of raw eggs and come back when you are packing.

Seriously difficult to throw a pity insult your way.

Speak of the Devil!

 

[SweetErika]

I don't know if this will help at all, but one of my husband's coworkers seemed to do quite well finding women in their thirties and forties when he was in his mid-twenties on Match.com, similar sites, and at places where older/professional women would often hang out (more upscale bars, gyms, etc.).

IIRC, he had a lot of casual sex, flings, and a few 3-18 month relationships that fizzled out when the ladies got bored due to the gaps in interests, goals and maturity levels. Eventually, he got tired of being dumped for those types of reasons, married a lovely woman close to his age several years ago, and they just had a second child together.

Hopefully you'll do better, but it might serve as a good cautionary tale if you're seeking longer-term relationships with older women.

 

[MikeD93]

I don't know if this will help at all, but one of my husband's coworkers seemed to do quite well finding women in their thirties and forties when he was in his mid-twenties on Match.com, similar sites, and at places where older/professional women would often hang out (more upscale bars, gyms, etc.).

IIRC, he had a lot of casual sex, flings, and a few 3-18 month relationships that fizzled out when the ladies got bored due to the gaps in interests, goals and maturity levels. Eventually, he got tired of being dumped for those types of reasons, married a lovely woman close to his age several years ago, and they just had a second child together.

Hopefully you'll do better, but it might serve as a good cautionary tale if you're seeking longer-term relationships with older women.

Thank you! I will try that

 

[GiggLeGasm]

you want an older woman who likes to get her nails done.. and you want to be allowed to sleep over..

I'm going to disagree with the advice that tells you to pick up women where the children are playing. It might be argued that you are, yourself, a child (even though you read and cook) and an older woman might be concerned of the public opinion if your relationship isn't already established.

I'd say.. if you feel that you fit in better with people who are older, do what you already enjoy. Join book clubs, frequent cooking stores. These aren't age specific activities and you'll know that you have something in common. Even if you don't find a partner, you might find a friend who knows a friend..
and you'll already be in your element so you can shine a little brighter.

don't waste your time looking for an older woman. Part of what we learn by the time we're older is that we need men who have more to say to us than, "here honey, go get your nails done." Just be yourself.. grow yourself.. keep becoming. That's a pretty sexy thing in a man.

 

[MikeD93]

you want an older woman who likes to get her nails done.. and you want to be allowed to sleep over..

I'm going to disagree with the advice that tells you to pick up women where the children are playing. It might be argued that you are, yourself, a child (even though you read and cook) and an older woman might be concerned of the public opinion if your relationship isn't already established.

I'd say.. if you feel that you fit in better with people who are older, do what you already enjoy. Join book clubs, frequent cooking stores. These aren't age specific activities and you'll know that you have something in common. Even if you don't find a partner, you might find a friend who knows a friend..
and you'll already be in your element so you can shine a little brighter.

don't waste your time looking for an older woman. Part of what we learn by the time we're older is that we need men who have more to say to us than, "here honey, go get your nails done." Just be yourself.. grow yourself.. keep becoming. That's a pretty sexy thing in a man.

Thank you for the advice i mention the nails thing just as an example. Of course i would like to do many other different things. Like wine tastings, hitting up the city, and finding new restaurants

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Pish Posh

Americas schools are damning proof that older women have huge appetites for young males.

Its easy to connect with old gals be where they are and can safely connect with you. Forty years ago working for the phone company was perfect. Really any legitimate purpose that lets you in her home long enough to do it.

I refer you to James Taylors HANDYMAN.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

seriously?

we're not talking about The Graduate here..
we're talking about a guy wants to be contacted under his cartoon name.

 

[Aphro]

LOL, at 21, I wanna know what he considers "older women"...are we talking 30 year olds here? Maybe 35?

 

[bailadora]

But what i want in a woman is someone real who is down to earth and wants companionship. I want to spoil her and see that smile. I want her to wake up feeling lucky to be with me.

Of course i would like to do many other different things. Like wine tastings, hitting up the city, and finding new restaurants

And you can't do these things with women closer to your own age, why? That's a genuine question, no snark intended.

IIRC, he had a lot of casual sex, flings, and a few 3-18 month relationships that fizzled out when the ladies got bored due to the gaps in interests, goals and maturity levels. Eventually, he got tired of being dumped for those types of reasons, married a lovely woman close to his age several years ago, and they just had a second child together.

You don't indicate whether or not you're looking for something longer than a quick hook-up, but if a longer term relationship is something you're after, then the things Erika mentions above are things you should probably give serious thought to.

At 21, you're just getting started in life, in your career, etc. Your goals and desires for what you want will quite likely change quite a bit as you gain experience. There's a pretty good chance the goals you set won't be compatible with someone who is more established in life, and those are things that have the potential to put a huge strain on a relationship.

For example: do you want kids some day? If the answer is yes, then large age gaps are definitely a concern. Generally speaking, women in their 40's have already reared, or are already rearing their children and may not want more. At 44, I know I sure as hell don't. Don't get me wrong, I love kids but the three I have are more than enough.

don't waste your time looking for an older woman. <snip>.... grow yourself.. keep becoming. That's a pretty sexy thing in a man.

This is the best advice you've received. Don't be a typical young'un and let it go in one ear and out the other.

 

[MikeD93]

LOL, at 21, I wanna know what he considers "older women"...are we talking 30 year olds here? Maybe 35?

I love 40-50 range

 

[MikeD93]

And you can't do these things with women closer to your own age, why? That's a genuine question, no snark intended.



You don't indicate whether or not you're looking for something longer than a quick hook-up, but if a longer term relationship is something you're after, then the things Erika mentions above are things you should probably give serious thought to.

At 21, you're just getting started in life, in your career, etc. Your goals and desires for what you want will quite likely change quite a bit as you gain experience. There's a pretty good chance the goals you set won't be compatible with someone who is more established in life, and those are things that have the potential to put a huge strain on a relationship.

For example: do you want kids some day? If the answer is yes, then large age gaps are definitely a concern. Generally speaking, women in their 40's have already reared, or are already rearing their children and may not want more. At 44, I know I sure as hell don't. Don't get me wrong, I love kids but the three I have are more than enough.




This is the best advice you've received. Don't be a typical young'un and let it go in one ear and out the other.

I dont really want kids, and females my age dont know good wine, they dont read or carry an.intellectual conversation. They think Applebees is high end. Im looking for the better things.