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You overestimate your effect, on most things I imagine.
I save physical violence for people stupid enough to act in reality the way you do from behind a computer monitor. Normally, as soon as it appears that there may be some physical consequences their false bravado falls away and they're all simpering apologies. I imagine you're no different.
Oh I see. There are times in your life where physical violence is acceptable to you. That being when you are close enough to get your hands on them.
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Nope, no anger management issues there, no-sir!
I wouldn't know anything about anger management issues. That usually comes from people who tend to bottle things up and then erupt like St. Helens. But you seem to know quite a bit (or think you do) about that sort of thing. Experience I imagine, which explains the way you behave when you're "safe".
The first step in getting help will be to break through the denial. Just because (I assume) you have not been court-mandated to seek help doesn't mean that your issues are not self-evident.
Why would I not be "safe" in your direct presence? That sounds just like C-slings line of reasoning.
I don't know about New Jersey, but where I live the concept of "fighting words" is a pretty high bar to meet. Physical assault is frowned on. What about in New Jersey? Would the prospect of being incarcerated for assault and battery not restrain your actions if we were having this exact same conversation man to man as it were? (I'm being generous there, I don't actually consider "men" that feel the need to make threats, veiled or otherwise to be more "manly.")
"So Johnny, whatever do you mean?" -Doc Holiday