Older and more perv

[Ktownmale63]

I find as i get older I have become more perv, i read more " taboo-kinky stories, i long for more perverse vids. I have been a very sexual person my entire life havivg experimented in different things as far back as i can remember. Am i the only one or do you other men and women feel the same way?

 

[The Greek]

I agree totally. As I have gotten older, my desire to be more open and explore new kinks, etc. has dramatically increased.

 

[greystardust]

or is it simply that the older you get, the less you care about inhibbitions, and the more the inner nature expresses itself?

 

[Liplovinman]

I firmly believe that as time progresses, and that hint of mortality becomes apparent, many begin seeking out that which they have missed or yearned to experience.

 

[Itsahard1]

I don't know if it's more pervy, or wanting to return to my younger years when I was more free to indulge in anything that sounded good or interesting. It's more like years when desires took a back seat to more everyday needs, and it's time they came more front and center again.

 

[martinfs]

Now I'm 40 I have much better opportunities to explore my sexuality and my inhibitions have almost gone

 

[Ktownmale63]

Thanks for the replies, are most married, have children? Seems we are becoming " dirty ole men" lol

 

[DarkPleasures]

I find as i get older I have become more perv, i read more " taboo-kinky stories, i long for more perverse vids. I have been a very sexual person my entire life havivg experimented in different things as far back as i can remember. Am i the only one or do you other men and women feel the same way?

I was a "perv" in my teens and twenties. Now I'm jaded.

 

[beachbaby179]

I firmly believe that as time progresses, and that hint of mortality becomes apparent, many begin seeking out that which they have missed or yearned to experience.

Yes. This. Exactly.

 

[DarkPleasures]

I know back during the AOL days there were women who were "mad" at me because I was so young and sur of myself and my desires...while they were 30s, 40s, and older "finally discovering themselves".

 

[TouchAndGo]

Back during the AOL days...

Did the AOL days end? OMG...when did that happen? Why didn't anyone tell me?

 

[awired50]

Older

I think as we get older we learn more or have learned more. Our inhibitions go away and we are not scared to challenge our sexuality. Explore ! Desire ! Feel ! Share ! Enjoy ! Just sayin in my case....

 

[CrshNBurn]

I know that I as I get older I also enjoy more and more kinky stuff. I guess I am a dirty old man!

 

[Prince Albert]

I do bel?ieve in all that has been written above. Most people, continue to "grow" as they get older.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

I know that I as I get older I also enjoy more and more kinky stuff. I guess I am a dirty old man!

hi how are you?

 

[tjernst]

Same here

I agree that as we get older we shed our inhibitions and enjoy what we want to not what society thinks we should.

 

[debycha1968]

me too

I don't think i am necesarrily more perverted but i am more open to acknowledging these kinks and exploring them. I am certainly more open to trying them. For me it is an attitude of not denying myself new experiences. It is complicated. I on one hand don't care about what society thinks about sexuality and kinks but on the other, i still hide my interest and participation from most people.

 

[seller64]

You hit it right on the head!

I don't think i am necesarrily more perverted but i am more open to acknowledging these kinks and exploring them. I am certainly more open to trying them. For me it is an attitude of not denying myself new experiences. It is complicated. I on one hand don't care about what society thinks about sexuality and kinks but on the other, i still hide my interest and participation from most people.

There is a new and different freedom that comes with age

 

[WhenInDoubtFuck]

Age is still just a number...

I don't believe age has contributed to my level of perversion but rather my knowledge base and accessibility to experience more diverse things. Thinking back to the beginning, I was only engaging in a handful of activities because I only knew a handful and the level of my partner was the same. However, I was always very curious about all things sex and constantly sought out greater understanding and developed my interests and thus perversions as well. Still, I can recall some very wild ideas and thoughts that I had at an age when I wasn't really capable of understanding what they meant.

Now I have the means to experience them, but the origins for a number of things come from earlier in life. The rate of increase for my more deviant side was probably at it highest during my early twenties, when I was on active duty and transferring as well as traveling around the country and world on a regular basis. I was seeing more, learning more and therefore doing more at a fairly rapid rate. Doors were opened to even more possibilities that I'm continuing to seek the right opportunities and partners to experience them with.

To be honest, I'm not a big fan of the word "pervert", because it tends to imply some sort of negativity from the general population. I simply think of myself as open minded, and probably more open minded than average. Not because of my age (which many still consider young), but from having a better understanding of the many different activities, fetishes, etc. that exist out there and likewise knowing more about what works with me. Currently I am finding few things (if any) that can still shock me. I'm more concerned that with more age all this might eventually lose the feeling of wild, kinky or taboo that it gives today and end up having less appeal as a result.

But, looking back again at thoughts and fantasies I had as a child or young adult...I feel relief in knowing that I'm where I was meant to be all along. Like many other things though, people will reach that point at different times based on their own life experiences. I still look forward to discovering and experiencing new things, but I think I have a comfortable understanding of just how open minded I am capable of being.

Giving more thought to the original question about being "more perv"...that really is all in the eyes of the beholder. For myself, I find no fault with the lifestyle choices that I'm making. I'm not breaking any laws, and any implications of religious immorality are irrelevant if I myself am not subscribing to that religion. So I guess I'm not a perv at all, just living my life to it's fullest.

 

[Ktownmale63]

Very well written, i wish i had more chances to experiment, however my lifestyle and position require me to be extremely discrete, so i turn to lit or other internet sources to add in my "pervness" lol

 

[literalwife]

I am much less inhibited now that I am older. Feeling more secure in relationships and who you are open lots of kinky doors.

 

[wickedsmith]

Agreed with most here.. As I've gotten older I think i'm more secure in who i am and what I want and what i'm willing to try. Its not about getting old, its more about knowing who i am.

 

[wishywashy]

I find as i get older I have become more perv, i read more " taboo-kinky stories, i long for more perverse vids. I have been a very sexual person my entire life havivg experimented in different things as far back as i can remember. Am i the only one or do you other men and women feel the same way?

I feel the same way with my hands.lol

 

[dacoach44]

This happened to me. Wife died, vanilla porn, gay porn, and found myself with a sissy, and loved it. They can suck a golfball thru a garden hose, and love to ride my cock. What fun they are!

 

[jakelc]

I've always been a very kinky person but my wife while being open minded and enjoying experimenting has just gotten more and more kinky as she has gotten older.