Family Dynamics

[lemonbread]

My mom has these new friends that she can't stop talking about. They come over all the time. They came from California because one of them was adopted and located her birth mother here. My mom's mini doxi is going to be the flower girl in their wedding. They're lesbians.

But of course, I was raised being told that if I were a lesbian, I wouldn't even be allowed in her house.

OK, I just needed to vent.

 

[pointless]

yeah, what a bitch she is for evolving.

the nerve!

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

My mom has these new friends that she can't stop talking about. They come over all the time. They came from California because one of them was adopted and located her birth mother here. My mom's mini doxi is going to be the flower girl in their wedding. They're lesbians.

But of course, I was raised being told that if I were a lesbian, I wouldn't even be allowed in her house.

OK, I just needed to vent.

so tell your mom you're a lesbian bro!

Stew

 

[lemonbread]

But if she did "evolve" you would think she would say "hey, I'm sorry for all the shit I put you through when you were 15. I was wrong."

Don't get me wrong, I love my mom. And I didn't say being upset about it was at all rational. But I'm still upset about it.

 

[lemonbread]

so tell your mom you're a lesbian bro!

Stew

I'm not a lesbian, really. But I went through a phase in my early teen years. I've been with a guy since I was 16.

 

[Que]

My mom has these new friends that she can't stop talking about. They come over all the time. They came from California because one of them was adopted and located her birth mother here. My mom's mini doxi is going to be the flower girl in their wedding. They're lesbians.

But of course, I was raised being told that if I were a lesbian, I wouldn't even be allowed in her house.

OK, I just needed to vent.

Those are hip lesbians from California, so it's different.

There's a girl up here that introduces herself as 'Hi, I'm Sandy the Resident Lesbian here,' despite the fact we have quite a thriving population of lesbians.

She is eager to show you the news clip of when she was interviewed at the courthouse the day it became legal in California for a bit. She was divorced two months later.

She sleeps with men more often than women, but it's chic to be "lesbian."

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

I'm not a lesbian, really. But I went through a phase in my early teen years. I've been with a guy since I was 16.

if you're not a lesbian, then your initial complaint seems dumb bro!

Stew

 

[IrezumiKiss]

I'm not a lesbian, really. But I went through a phase in my early teen years. I've been with a guy since I was 16.

*peels eyes away from your avatar with crowbar*

I'm sorry...what was that about phasers, again?

 

[Queersetti]

Those are hip lesbians from California, so it's different.

There's a girl up here that introduces herself as 'Hi, I'm Sandy the Resident Lesbian here,' despite the fact we have quite a thriving population of lesbians.

She is eager to show you the news clip of when she was interviewed at the courthouse the day it became legal in California for a bit. She was divorced two months later.

She sleeps with men more often than women, but it's chic to be "lesbian."

Maybe she just really wants you to think she's a lesbian.

 

[bronzeage]

My mom has these new friends that she can't stop talking about. They come over all the time. They came from California because one of them was adopted and located her birth mother here. My mom's mini doxi is going to be the flower girl in their wedding. They're lesbians.

But of course, I was raised being told that if I were a lesbian, I wouldn't even be allowed in her house.

OK, I just needed to vent.

Your mom is trying to tell you something, but she's not sure how you will take the news.

Also, does the doxy know she's adopted?

 

[Que]

Maybe she just really wants you to think she's a lesbian.

Maybe you just want me to think you are queer, daddy.

 

[pete]

My mom has these new friends that she can't stop talking about. They come over all the time. They came from California because one of them was adopted and located her birth mother here. My mom's mini doxi is going to be the flower girl in their wedding. They're lesbians.

But of course, I was raised being told that if I were a lesbian, I wouldn't even be allowed in her house.

OK, I just needed to vent.

fucking hypocrites, man life's chock full of them

at least now you're old enough and you're out of the house and you're free to date guys, women, whoever you want. it's sweet being an adult.

 

[DooleyDarter]

*peels eyes away from your avatar with crowbar*

I'm sorry...what was that about phasers, again?

Damned fine set of phasers if you ask me

 

[lemonbread]

*peels eyes away from your avatar with crowbar*

I'm sorry...what was that about phasers, again?

Oh, random internet stranger, you slay me.

 

[Queersetti]

Maybe you just want me to think you are queer, daddy.

I haven't got the energy to try to make you think.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

This too shall pass. In 1946 you couldnt find one former Nazi in Germany. People bend with the wind. People don't change the wind does.

 

[BornAgainVrgin]

But if she did "evolve" you would think she would say "hey, I'm sorry for all the shit I put you through when you were 15. I was wrong."

Don't get me wrong, I love my mom. And I didn't say being upset about it was at all rational. But I'm still upset about it.

It would be nice if she said that but since she didn't you can say "Hey mom why did you give me such a hard time growing up about my sexual choices? It really made me feel horrible."

 

[glynndah]

But if she did "evolve" you would think she would say "hey, I'm sorry for all the shit I put you through when you were 15. I was wrong."

Don't get me wrong, I love my mom. And I didn't say being upset about it was at all rational. But I'm still upset about it.

Fifteen and it still bothers you?

 

[Queersetti]

Fifteen and it still bothers you?

Can you imagine how much it would have bothered her if she was a lesbian?

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

Can you imagine how much it would have bothered her if she was a lesbian?

or a girl bro!

Stew

 

[CandiCame]

Idk, my parents do that sometimes but it's consistently horrible. Like I've always been concerned about the environment, and in coal country that's a hangable offense. But recently they've realized how much money they can save by going green; or that my electricity works when theirs goes out. And they act like this is some new thing that they've just discovered when I spent literally my entire childhood spelling this shit out. They still hate the queers tho.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

Fifteen and it still bothers you?

This.

Suck it up and get over it. This is some mild shit being whining about here. No you aren't going to get an apology. No you aren't going to get closure. Life doesn't work like the movies.

 

[Learnsmith]

But if she did "evolve" you would think she would say "hey, I'm sorry for all the shit I put you through when you were 15. I was wrong."

Don't get me wrong, I love my mom. And I didn't say being upset about it was at all rational. But I'm still upset about it.

Human nature doesn't work that way though. It's very rare for people to consciously and willingly examine their own past wrongdoings. If you were to push the issue, she would probably get defensive and shut down. I know that sucks, but if I've learned one thing in life, it's that we have to provide our own closure.

 

[lemonbread]

I labeled myself a lesbian when I was 9. I wrote love letters to girls when I was in kindergarten. It wasn't that I was never attracted to guys or never had crushes on boys when I was a child, I just didn't find them safe people to be around. I grew out of that. I still like girls. But I like guys too and realize they aren't all bad.

But an entire miserable childhood with me, her own daughter, trying to get her to understand, and constantly being told that it was wrong and animalistic, and that i was going to hell, and these two nobodies thst she has no famillial connection with whatsoever show up and all of the sudden she's pro-gay?

Yeah, i was young, but nobody can say nothing from their childhood bothers them anymore. I would assume emotional scars from continuously being told there's something wrong with you is something that can last a while.

 

[Lunarfaggot]

Thanks for sharing.