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[funluvinaj]

Thanks Sis OH! I have something for you... hang on
https://38.media.tumblr.com/87895aff6f97d5696db641d892e04391/tumblr_ndlxu5NzRQ1rx9ovro1_400.jpg Like it?

i love it!! i hope you know it's true as far as lit goes - if I get a whiff of someone messing with you I will bring such a hurt down on them.

 

[BradBigBrain]

i love it!! i hope you know it's true as far as lit goes - if I get a whiff of someone messing with you I will bring such a hurt down on them.

I do, too. I am so glad you are so protective of our little sister!

 

[warl0ck1]

i love it!! i hope you know it's true as far as lit goes - if I get a whiff of someone messing with you I will bring such a hurt down on them.

I would never think of messing with sticky unless she asks. But you are more then welcome to bring the hurt on me.

 

[stickygirl]

i love it!! i hope you know it's true as far as lit goes - if I get a whiff of someone messing with you I will bring such a hurt down on them.

Awww

I do, too. I am so glad you are so protective of our little sister!

You two are related?!

I would never think of messing with sticky unless she asks. But you are more then welcome to bring the hurt on me.

Oh look at you, ya great big lump. As if I'd hurt you - I'd only hug you to death

 

[haurni]

But even though I'm always very happy to share more information than you probably want to know, I actually came by to share this rather funny piece from Vice
http://m.vice.com/read/the-vice-guide-to-being-trans
My favourite line probably was this:
Rude like the way people ask trans people about our cocks and our cunts as though they were fitted kitchens, or conservatories. (“Sue, tell me, have you had yours done yet?”)

That was great. I thought of posting the link on my FB but most people wouldn't get it because "[a]s most people get most of their information about trans people from the media, and the media mostly knows jack shit about trans people, most people mostly know jack shit about trans people."

Most apposite quote for me was: "Most of what the public knows about us seems to come from porn, hence the plethora of rude names [...] we sometimes get called if we dare to walk down the street or something. But, anyway, we know what it means when you use those words—you have jerked off to us."

 

[stickygirl]

Most apposite quote for me was: "Most of what the public knows about us seems to come from porn, hence the plethora of rude names [...] we sometimes get called if we dare to walk down the street or something. But, anyway, we know what it means when you use those words—you have jerked off to us."

Mine was "Drag is a gateway drug, kids. So be careful when you’re planning your next hilarious shenanigans. One minute you’re having the time of your life, dancing around in a cheap party wig; the next you're snorting estrogen off the back of a toilet seat. "
I thought I recognised the opening pic - Paris Lees. She's awesome and it's a great article that made me laugh all the way through

 

[BradBigBrain]

If society was more accepting of trans* folks and it was OK for you to be a girl in a boy's body and people accepted you for who you are, do you think that you'd still have gone through the reassignment surgery?

 

[stickygirl]

If society was more accepting of trans* folks and it was OK for you to be a girl in a boy's body and people accepted you for who you are, do you think that you'd still have gone through the reassignment surgery?

Good question Brad

My answer is 'but we don't live in an If world, do we?' Maybe if I'd grown up in a world where gender was not the basis for the social framework ( families, law, religion, history, language.... ) then it wouldn't be possible to have a 'wrong body' because all bodies would be good. But that would be answering the wrong question. Society didn't make me have SRS, but it did make me transition, so that I could be perceived as a woman.

Our culture feeds us from before we are born and is often called nurture. It gives everyone an expectation of what is normal, what is good or bad, right or wrong. So a man wearing women's clothing is immediately noticed as significant, unusual, wrong: 'marked' out, as it has been described.

Nurture alone wouldn't remove the sense of my body being wrong, because for several years I was generally accepted as a women in the street, perhaps because I am blessed with the right bone structure. So the hypothetical society you refer to could remove the stigma and thus some of the pressure and need for me to be treated as a woman.

The reason why I had surgery was not because of society, but because of how I perceived myself and that is a Nature issue, because I was born this way - I didn't acquire it from society or my upbringing. No one understands the medical reason why a trans brain and body are out of step. It isn't a on/off - you do/you don't feeling either. Like everything else that confounds the statisticians, the sense of being transgender is a spectrum and each of us has to decide where we are and how compelling our sense of gender identity is to us. Gender fluid people will swing from one to another or simply feel they don't belong in either. I'd hate to be in that position: that to me, sounds weird.

I didn't have surgery to make it easier for me to be accepted by society, I did it because looking at a penis in the mirror used to make me really unhappy. Not just looking either: every time I masturbated, a part of me hated it and sometimes I'd abandoned it half way through, because the whole thing was wrong to me. It was weird and upsetting to orgasm because I'd be feeling "yes,yes,yes wow,yes, wow.... grunph... shit " I'm looking forward to having a proper orgasm. Fingers crossed I can ( it isn't a given ).

But yea - the 'what if' scenarios are impossible to answer

 

[warl0ck1]

It has been a strange time of late. My partner in my division had a small stroke. This has been a hard week and a half. On a good note the topical steroids they used in my pt had the desired affect my shoulder is at about 85% unfortunately I am allergic to something either on the applicator or it so my shoulder is breaking out and itching. I am done with it though.

 

[stickygirl]

I spotted a thread earlier about peeing outdoors. This is the ONLY thing I miss about being post-op. Damn, it was handy

 

[warl0ck1]

Listened to an interview last night with trans teens from either Oklahoma or Kentucky they wrote a couple books about their lives they were dating until a little while ago. One Tran girl the other a tran boy. It was a very good interview they were intelligent and articulate. It was on satellite radio

 

[TomBoner]

I spotted a thread earlier about peeing outdoors. This is the ONLY thing I miss about being post-op. Damn, it was handy

Damn girl. Don't crack me up like that. I just blew scotch through my nose.

 

[stickygirl]

Listened to an interview last night with trans teens from either Oklahoma or Kentucky they wrote a couple books about their lives they were dating until a little while ago. One Tran girl the other a tran boy. It was a very good interview they were intelligent and articulate. It was on satellite radio

Sounds good. I've been getting really frustrated that I can't access a number of US based vids etc. (((

Damn girl. Don't crack me up like that. I just blew scotch through my nose.

What? What? Well sounds like a waste of scotch to me!! I gotta start and plan ahead now when it comes to liquid intake and extake!

 

[BradBigBrain]

Listened to an interview last night with trans teens from either Oklahoma or Kentucky they wrote a couple books about their lives they were dating until a little while ago. One Tran girl the other a tran boy. It was a very good interview they were intelligent and articulate. It was on satellite radio

http://news.yahoo.com/the-new-face-of-transgender-youth-231106807.html

Here's an interview with Katie Couric talking with Jazz Jennings..."Jazz Jennings was born a boy, but started to show leanings toward a feminine side at only 15 months old. By age 2, Jazz started to verbalize her feelings that "she was a girl," and by 5 she was one of the youngest people ever to be diagnosed with gender dysphoria ― a persistent unease with the characteristics of one's gender, accompanied by a strong identification with the opposite gender.

After the diagnosis, Jazz's incredibly supportive family decided to embrace her inner feelings and allowed her to start transitioning from male to female while she was only in kindergarten."

Jazz is an author. She wrote a childrens book basically about herself. And she's an activist. Great story.

 

[stickygirl]

Yep - I've seen quite a bit on YouTube about Jazz: the force is strong in that one Cool name too
True to form the accompanying vid cannot be played due to 'technical difficulties...'

 

[poppadog]

I spotted a thread earlier about peeing outdoors. This is the ONLY thing I miss about being post-op. Damn, it was handy

Ahem!
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/4124JwYMJdL.jpg

I thank you! Might help TB with his Scotch as well?

Hi Sticks - Love you

 

[dutchrain]

I spotted a thread earlier about peeing outdoors. This is the ONLY thing I miss about being post-op. Damn, it was handy

Damn girl. Don't crack me up like that. I just blew scotch through my nose.

Ahem!
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/4124JwYMJdL.jpg

I thank you! Might help TB with his Scotch as well?

Hi Sticks - Love you

*grins* Mine is neon turquoise ... Very handy, fits in the littlelest pouch of my rucksack.

 

[stickygirl]

Ahem!
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/4124JwYMJdL.jpg

I thank you! Might help TB with his Scotch as well?

Hi Sticks - Love you

Ha! I've heard of those: do they really work, cos you're still gonna be a bit damp? ( Oh well - emergencies! )

A friend tried one out at Glastonbury, I think they were cardboard but she got grossed out that they suddenly turned warm when used

 

[dutchrain]

Ha! I've heard of those: do they really work, cos you're still gonna be a bit damp? ( Oh well - emergencies! )

A friend tried one out at Glastonbury, I think they were cardboard but she got grossed out that they suddenly turned warm when used

Yep, they wil turn warm when in use, just don't let it slip from between your fingers, don't start to giggle (oh well, people will look anyway), but don't yelp and don't say things like "this is gross, this is sooo grooossss!" and don't do patterns the first time you use it, and maybe you should be sure nor you, nor your friends had a few beers when you try it the first time.

The last bit of dampness gets wiped away with a paper hanky, the she-wee cleaned with a little bit of water and dried before it goes back in its pouch, and all is well.

And don't hold it the way you used to, just press it against your vayaya with two fingers.

 

[haurni]

"SheWee". *snicker*

 

[stickygirl]

"SheWee". *snicker*

Enough snickering there Mr H !!
I've just been reading the reviews and they're pretty good. But then this raises another dilemma: pre-op trans women get slammed because they might go in a women's stall and pee standing up, yet here's a device for all women to do just that. The thing to do is to come out of the stall waving it aloft before giving it a rinse in the sink!
Just imagine too, that now we can have puddles of pee on the floor, just like the men's loos. Equality is equality huh?

 

[poppadog]

Enough snickering there Mr H !!
I've just been reading the reviews and they're pretty good. But then this raises another dilemma: pre-op trans women get slammed because they might go in a women's stall and pee standing up, yet here's a device for all women to do just that. The thing to do is to come out of the stall waving it aloft before giving it a rinse in the sink!
Just imagine too, that now we can have puddles of pee on the floor, just like the men's loos. Equality is equality huh?

Ah but Sticky at least you now have the choice! One in the eye for the haters I say!

'rinse in the sink' *Snigger* Proof positive that the effects of the op are taking you in a totally feminine direction. Soon you will be posting pictures of cushions!

While since I checked in so hope things are moving forward and you are healing nicely??

Love you

 

[stickygirl]

Men can sit too - then they don't leave PUDDLES!!

Yes, updates. It took some blood, sweat and tears but I have surrendered to Mr Darcy: I am now woman. In a month or so I can start cutting down on his attentions, but for the moment he has me four times a day. No sign of an orgasm yet but I haven't really tried. Nevertheless the thought is there

 

[TomBoner]

*grins* Mine is neon turquoise ... Very handy, fits in the littlelest pouch of my rucksack.

Neon turquoise?!?!? I think we gotta see a pic of it in action to really believe this.

And don't hold it the way you used to, just press it against your vayaya with two fingers.

What in the hell is a vayaya?!?!?

... No sign of an orgasm yet but I haven't really tried. Nevertheless the thought is there

Ya know, I'm much more sensitive in my older years. I never think about orgasms anymore. It's all about emotions and feelings.

...



Glad you're doing better. Need some help with those orgasms?

 

[stickygirl]

Neon turquoise?!?!? I think we gotta see a pic of it in action to really believe this.

I checked and thought a combat camoflage one would be good ( there should be a U in there somewhere but I can't be bothered )

What in the hell is a vayaya?!?!?

All these years and you don't know about a vayaya?!

Ya know, I'm much more sensitive in my older years. I never think about orgasms anymore. It's all about emotions and feelings.

I know Tom. There must a stage in life when all that is a memory, but I'm glad you're taking it so well

Glad you're doing better. Need some help with those orgasms?

that's so kind of you - please send AA batteries, TY