kimberly1969
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My husband and I use a strap-on on occasion, but I really don't like the harness we have. I would like a sturdy leather one that is comfortable. Ladies, do you have any recommendations?
Strapon harness?
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CNYCarol
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I've never used one on a guy, but the "Feeldoe" is exquisite.
A "Realdoe" is very similar without the smooth shaft.
kimberly1969
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We have a Feeldoe as well, but it doesn't work for male anal.
Bottomlover
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My SO has tried quite a few harnesses, and the Kinklab is the one that works well for us. She is curvy and got the full curve model.
Shop around online and you will find it for <$50.
Shop around online and you will find it for <$50.
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creampieluvr79
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Well I don't know what you mean about the feeldoe not working for male anal.
My wife and I have a feeldoe (purple) and now a realdoe and I (being a male) love when she uses them on me anally.
Is it a matter of preference, your guy doesn't like the feel of it, is it too big for his enjoyment or does it keep popping out of you while you try male anal?
Sometimes to avoid the concern of it popping out my wife prefers to use a harness to help keep it in place, depending on the mood she's in. I honestly don't remember which harness it is, but it is leather. I seem to remember just doing a google search for "feeldoe harness" and my wife and I just picked the one we liked best that also had good customer reviews.
If you are interested in finding a harness to help keep a feeldoe in place, I can try to find out the one we have as it works pretty well.
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The size is fine for him, it just keeps popping out of me.
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Well, now that I'm home I was able to confirm, the harness we have is the Aslan Jaguar Harness and it works really well for us when my wife doesn't want to have to worry about it popping out of her.
We tried a couple of other cheap harnesses and they didn't hold up to more than just a few uses.
The Jaguar is offered in a few different colors. The one we have is the "Steampunk" version in Black & Brass and we decided to spend the extra money to get the matching wrist cuffs.
The Jaguar also works well with regular dildos for more fun strap-on play options!
