Instant Turn Ons/Offs

[missgreekgeek]

Okay I'm not talking about "How the sun reflects in her hazel brown eyes".
Or, "the way he looks at me"- those things are fine, but....

I'm talking about instant, simple turn ons and offs that either make you stay or walk away.

I'll share mine first

Turn Ons: Intelligence and humour go hand in hand- if it isn't there, I'm gone.
Assholes (the "I can get away with this" assholes, not the douche I'm a prick to everyone)...
And Smile- my second favourite thing a man can do with his mouth, but if that smile isn't there, he won't get to do the first thing

Turn offs: Text talk/People who cannot spell properly. Or use correct grammar. (The teacher in me always cringes. No I am not grading you, but
for the life of you, can you please hold up your end of the conversation? I hate trying to decipher what the hell you're trying to tell me)
Smoking/Bad breath. How hard is it to pop in a Tic Tac?
Arrogance, it is always one thing to be confident-but don't be overly cocky. Not flattering.
Anddddd men who are as short as I am...How can you possibly lift me then?



And go

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

Okay I'm not talking about "How the sun reflects in her hazel brown eyes".
Or, "the way he looks at me- those things are fine", but....

I'm talking about instant, simple turn ons and offs that either make you stay or walk away.

I'll share mine first

Turn Ons: Intelligence and humour go hand in hand- if it isn't there, I'm gone.
Assholes (the "I can get away with this" assholes, not the douche I'm a prick to everyone)...
And Smile- my second favourite thing a man can do with his mouth, but if that smile isn't there, he won't get to do the first thing

Turn offs: Text talk/People who cannot spell properly. Or use correct grammar. (The teacher in me always cringes. No I am not grading you, but
for the life of you, can you please hold up your end of the conversation? I hate trying to decipher what the hell you're trying to tell me)
Smoking/Bad breath. How hard is it to pop in a Tic Tac?
Arrogance, it is always one thing to be confident-but don't be overly cocky. Not flattering.
anddddd men who are as short as I am...How can you possibly lift me then?



And go

Turn ons; Being able to flirt. That could be through verbal or nonverbal communication.

Turn offs: Not being enthusiastic about sex. The smell of cigarettes.

 

[missgreekgeek]

lmao....
I have to agree with the flirtatious quality.

As well as, the lack of enthusiasm towards any sexual activities.

Have you ever stopped someone whether they weren't into it or you just weren't?

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

lmao....
I have to agree with the flirtatious quality.

As well as, the lack of enthusiasm towards any sexual activities.

Have you ever stopped someone whether they weren't into it or you just weren't?

I'm pretty much always into it. If the girl isn't into it I'll usually stop or not bother to do what she's not into.

 

[missgreekgeek]

I'm pretty much always into it. If the girl isn't into it I'll usually stop or not bother to do what she's not into.

I've had to stop a few guys...

The conversation that ensued afterwards, was more or less awkward for them, than it was for me...

The way I see it-why go through with it if you're not feeling it? I am good at reading body language though, as I'd hope guys are too

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

I've had to stop a few guys...

The conversation that ensued afterwards, was more or less awkward for them, than it was for me...

The way I see it-why go through with it if you're not feeling it? I am good at reading body language though, as I'd hope guys are too

There are some positions where that's tough to do for a guy......

 

[missgreekgeek]

There are some positions where that's tough to do for a guy......

Lol I know. Guys are usually more into it than their female counterparts though.

Care to elaborate? Like while you're getting blown but it sucks but it's still a bj? That type of thing?

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

Lol I know. Guys are usually more into it than their female counterparts though.

Care to elaborate? Like while you're getting blown but it sucks but it's still a bj? That type of thing?

That's something to consider. I've gotten bad blow jobs and been thinking, "well, is there anything else I'd rather be doing than getting a bad blow job?" Since the answer to that question is no.... Even if a blow job is bad this visual of seeing a girl with my cock in her mouth is sexy.

The more a girl gets into it, the more I want it & I get into it.

 

[missgreekgeek]

That's something to consider. I've gotten bad blow jobs and been thinking, "well, is there anything else I'd rather be doing than getting a bad blow job?" Since the answer to that question is no.... Even if a blow job is bad this visual of seeing a girl with my cock in her mouth is sexy.

The more a girl gets into it, the more I want it & I get into it.

True. Although I've been literally chewed like bubble gum before, (and mind you although the person and I had sex previously) I was so utterly disgusted by his inability to read body language (and hear STOP or OUCH) I just couldn't continue-even with the thought of how wonderful his cock would have been in me...

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

True. Although I've been literally chewed like bubble gum before, (and mind you although the person and I had sex previously) I was so utterly disgusted by his inability to read body language (and hear STOP or OUCH) I just couldn't continue-even with the thought of how wonderful his cock would have been in me...

I love going down on a girl. Being down there & reading signals is one of the best parts of the whole thing. Figuring out what she likes, how fast or slow to go, how hard or soft, & where to do be fast, slow, hard or soft. once you get the hang of what she likes you can start to tease her, so you can just leave her on that edge and never let her go over until I want her to.

 

[missgreekgeek]

I love going down on a girl. Being down there & reading signals is one of the best parts of the whole thing. Figuring out what she likes, how fast or slow to go, how hard or soft, & where to do be fast, slow, hard or soft. once you get the hang of what she likes you can start to tease her, so you can just leave her on that edge and never let her go over until I want her to.

I dubbed him "BUBBALICIOUS" after said experience and haven't spoken to him since really. I messaged him a week later, briefly stating I had met someone new.

And that is a tough trick for guys to master. As not all women like the same sort of things, kudos to you for doing it well, and enjoying yourself in the process

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

I dubbed him "BUBBALICIOUS" after said experience and haven't spoken to him since really. I messaged him a week later, briefly stating I had met someone new.

And that is a tough trick for guys to master. As not all women like the same sort of things, kudos to you for doing it well, and enjoying yourself in the process

Have you ever felt comfortable enough with a guy to give him directions or advice while he's down there?

 

[missgreekgeek]

Have you ever felt comfortable enough with a guy to give him directions or advice while he's down there?

Yeah, but not with that guy...I think it mortified me truthfully.

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

Yeah, but not with that guy...I think it mortified me truthfully.

Sorry you had a bad experience. Good that you still let guys down there.

 

[missgreekgeek]

Sorry you had a bad experience. Good that you still let guys down there.

The men to follow were not a let down

 

[bronzeage]

I am cocky by nature, but make up for it with overwhelming charm.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Turn Ons: Smiling, love of foods where you have to lick your lips and fingers during eating

Turn Offs: Littering, using smartphone during a movie while in a theater after the blatantly obvious courtesy warning announcement beforehand

 

[missgreekgeek]

Turn Ons: Smiling, love of foods where you have to lick your lips and fingers during eating

Turn Offs: Littering, using smartphone during a movie while in a theater after the blatantly obvious courtesy warning announcement beforehand

I like those!
I too get overly annoyed at the flashes, the sound of vibrations (and not the good kind) next to me in the theater.

If you're going to do that, why not download the movie at home and watch it in privacy so you're not disturbing people who paid good money to see it...

 

[Not Normal]

Turn Ons: Unique vibe, Smiles, Intelligence.

Turn Offs: Smoking, plasticness

 

[missgreekgeek]

Turn Ons: Unique vibe, Smiles, Intelligence.

Turn Offs: Smoking, plasticness

Lol plasticness as in a woman's body parts?
Or her being fake in general?

 

[Not Normal]

Lol plasticness as in a woman's body parts?
Or her being fake in general?

both.

 

[missgreekgeek]

both.

I don't like my women fake either

 

[DesEsseintes]

Turn on: generosity - of spirit as well as money. If I were having a meal with someone new, I'd far rather they had an embarrassed rummage in their purse before admitting they'd spent their last pennies on a diamond for a friend, or given £50 to charity, or even couldn't resist a pair of vintage shoes, than that they whipped out a calculator and split the bill.

Another related one: saying yes to things - not sexual, before I sound all creepy, but new experiences. I was with one woman for five years, largely because on our first date I suggested driving six hundred miles to Inverness, and she said yes. Such a turn on to think that someone is enjoying life like you are.

Turn offs - apart from the obvious implied by the above - people who follow the crowd. I've never understood why publishers stick labels on books telling prospective readers that a particular work has already been read by a million people. Nothing is more likely to make me drop it like a vat of acid. So someone who wears ugly fashion because a magazine or their favourite celebrity told them to; someone who watches trash TV; someone whose opinions and lifestyle is swayed by the masses, is anathema to me.

In short, anyone who lives life as if they have cut the strings and whose soul is not yet dead to spontaneity is a turn-on.

 

[missgreekgeek]

Turn on: generosity - of spirit as well as money. If I were having a meal with someone new, I'd far rather they had an embarrassed rummage in their purse before admitting they'd spent their last pennies on a diamond for a friend, or given £50 to charity, or even couldn't resist a pair of vintage shoes, than that they whipped out a calculator and split the bill.

Another related one: saying yes to things - not sexual, before I sound all creepy, but new experiences. I was with one woman for five years, largely because on our first date I suggested driving six hundred miles to Inverness, and she said yes. Such a turn on to think that someone is enjoying life like you are.

Turn offs - apart from the obvious implied by the above - people who follow the crowd. I've never understood why publishers stick labels on books telling prospective readers that a particular work has already been read by a million people. Nothing is more likely to make me drop it like a vat of acid. So someone who wears ugly fashion because a magazine or their favourite celebrity told them to; someone who watches trash TV; someone whose opinions and lifestyle is swayed by the masses, is anathema to me.

In short, anyone who lives life as if they have cut the strings and whose soul is not yet dead to spontaneity is a turn-on.

I am a sucker for spontaneity and road trips!!!
Best parts of life in my opinion!

 

[DenverFunguy]

Her

Her wet spot is a total turn on for me! Knowing she is wet enough to soak through her panties and jeans is a "I have got to taste her" turn on for me! Love to tease and go down on her till she is cumming so hard as many times as she can stand! Don't get me wrong I love to feel her all around me as we fuck till we cum together but that is for after she has cum more times than she ever has!

Women can cum over and over and over again, so why not give that to her till she screams out for me to fuck her!

Best wishes always

Mike