The Isolated Blurt Thread VIII: Romanes Eunt Domus

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If God had wanted us to work that hard for it he would not have provided pro volleyball for our viewing entertainment.
 
the beach kind? i actually prefer regular old volleyball. they have tight shorts and the play is more interesting. i mean, a dude can only perv for so long, you know? it helps to actually have some decent action to go with the ogling.
 
I think it's clear - he seems all about the casual yet no bed hopping. I like that it was his stipulation instead of mine.

Ex and I were together for 11 years. Living fully apart for 6 months, but I have been knowingly headed out the door for the past 1.5 year conservatively.

Profs. Maybe. I had a biz prof after college. Maybe they hold more appeal now. Maybe I need a different subject.

I'm considering a singles activity club - they hike and bike and canoe and such. I am short a canoe, but the dog and I are liking the sounds of a hiking partner.

Don't put a time line on it, Noor. I am giving you your own advice back - you'll know when it's time. I haven't said much about your situation because I didn't really know either of you well enough to do so, but every time I log into Lit, you and Byron, what you had and what you're going through go through my head and I say a small wish for your smooth recovery. I think it's the one thing we would all wish our loved ones upon our passing - remember us, but don't let our absence stop your journey. :heart:

In the past, I have found I need to relearn who I am by myself because in LTR, I find that we both get skewed by each other. For instance, I used to live with a man who did in tables, even seemingly sturdy ones, by the way he leaned on them while he was working. About 8 months after we had split, I was out table shopping and found myself testing the table to see if it was X proof, and then I thought hey I don't need to think about that anymore, instead of solid finnish design I could even get a spindly legged Louis XIV table and it would be fine. Not that I really wanted that but since it had not been a possibility, I hadn't considered it.

As far as Profs, different subjects seem to attract different types of men, shop around ;)

Even non single ones like walking groups through meet up or seirra club or something, single guys do go there and also people who know single guys you might like to meet. I prefer guys I can watch for a long time first or with references ;)

I am not putting a time on it exactly, but I did speak to a grief counselor who said that it takes about a year because you have to get through all the seasons and cyclical events, also for sudden death like his a bit more, so at least I won't be beating myself up if I am not there before a year.
Thank you.
It would probably be easier if he had been a more normal person, and didn't have as many roles in his life. Then again that was also very cool.
Another thing that makes it more difficult I suspect are the 4 deaths since then, two of whom were part of my support system.
I will recover, I think I am better than I was a few weeks ago and much better than a month ago. He would not want me to stop my journey.
 
could one of you guys do me a solid and take this dip downstairs for me? i really don't wanna have to put my pants back on.
 
the kind that are salty and made of potatoes.

i would've preferred pretzels, actually. sadly, they are no more.
 
i read that story as well. :heart:

i post read stalk her, so i can feel like i know where it's at. i love her mind. the chord it strikes in me likes to sing songs.

and this whole death thing has me thinking.

i should start a friend thread. i want to know your definitions. words and actions from other people and how you attach to those within your life.
 
i read that story as well. :heart:

i post read stalk her, so i can feel like i know where it's at. i love her mind. the chord it strikes in me likes to sing songs.

and this whole death thing has me thinking.

i should start a friend thread. i want to know your definitions. words and actions from other people and how you attach to those within your life.

Oh, hell yes. Start that thread.
 
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