The PG Dom/Sub conundrum

[Wild_Honey_66]

Have fun moving on.

Don't be an ass.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Absolutely, it can be! There are times where I'd love to say something, maybe a rant,.or maybe something really sweet, but I don't. Though, I may share in private someone here that I'm close with. Thank you for getting it.

I totally get it.

 

[PrissOff]

Have fun moving on.

That's never been a problem for me.

Mainly because I have a very short attention span.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Totally get where you're coming from! Always someone to ruin it or make fun of what people are sharing. When someone does that, I think people just lose interest in putting it all out there and coming away feeling mocked or ridiculed.

Apple pie. My favorite!

Yes, this is a concern of mine as well.

 

[Little_Sister]

Submissive sexually, are all you willing to turn your whole life over to someone else?

I really can't comment on the dom/sub part as I have never had any experience with that but I wanted to comment on turning your whole life over to someone else.

We all do that, the moment you get married, or the moment you have a child, you life is no longer solely your own. When you share a life with someone, their thoughts, feelings, wants and desires affect your thoughts, feelings, wants and desires. I make dinner every.single.night. Not because I cooking is a passion of mine (it is not), not because my husband makes me, but because it is something I have chosen to take on as a part of my roll in this family. We all do things for and because of others. All of us, not just dom/subs.

 

[PrissOff]

I really can't comment on the dom/sub part as I have never had any experience with that but I wanted to comment on turning your whole life over to someone else.

We all do that, the moment you get married, or the moment you have a child, you life is no longer solely your own. When you share a life with someone, their thoughts, feelings, wants and desires affect your thoughts, feelings, wants and desires. I make dinner every.single.night. Not because I cooking is a passion of mine (it is not), not because my husband makes me, but because it is something I have chosen to take on as a part of my roll in this family. We all do things for and because of others. All of us, not just dom/subs.

Well said.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Beautifully put, L.S, and so true.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Totally get where you're coming from! Always someone to ruin it or make fun of what people are sharing. When someone does that, I think people just lose interest in putting it all out there and coming away feeling mocked or ridiculed.

Apple pie. My favorite!

(Dammit I wish I was on my laptop! )

RA, this isnt my thread, but thank you for posting.

elli and I have actually been discussing whether to start a thread on this subject for a while now, and then Munky goes and starts one for us---too funny.

May I share with you some our thoughts about starting a thread here on the PG? We wanted to have a conversation with the people that we knew here, our "friends and family," so to speak. The PG Is our "home" and it's whete we feel most comfortable. Also, if we started a thread on, say, the BDSM board, we'd get some folks from here posting, but there may be a lot who werent inclined (for whatever reason) to follow us over there.

Another reason is that we were hoping to provide an opportunity for learning about the D/s lifestyle in a very casual, "oh look, they've started yet another thread" kind of way. lol. We wanted it to be informative without being intimidating.

Perhaps your presence 'round these parts can help keep things on track? I hope that you will stick your nose in here and comment from time to time.

lol... Is that your diplomatic way of asking me to be bouncer?

I have to check my filter daily and count to ten before hitting "submit reply"..

 

[LusterMunky]

I will only say this, and then let it go.

I still don't understand the sub thing. For me, I think women should be worshiped, put on a pedestal. Treated as goddesses.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I will only say this, and then let it go.

I still don't understand the sub thing. For me, I think women should be worshiped, put on a pedestal. Treated as goddesses.

Please hold off on forming an opinion quite yet, Munk. There is a LOT of misinformation out there about what being sub means, and as well, each couple defines what it means for them in a very unique and personal way.

Im really hoping someone will post a link to a good working definition of the terms Dom/Domme and sub.

 

[annabel_lee]

Please hold off on forming an opinion quite yet, Munk. There is a LOT of misinformation out there about what being sub means, and as well, each couple defines what it means for them in a very unique and personal way.

Im really hoping someone will post a link to a good working definition of the terms Dom/Domme and sub.

I don't know how to make the link pretty, but I think this is what you're looking for.

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42017419&postcount=148

 

[LusterMunky]

I don't know how to make the link pretty, but I think this is what you're looking for.

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42017419&postcount=148

Interesting. Thank you.

 

[annabel_lee]

Interesting. Thank you.

You're welcome. It may not explain the "why", but it should still clarify some things.

 

[LusterMunky]

You're welcome. It may not explain the "why", but it should still clarify some things.

Are you a sub?

 

[annabel_lee]

Are you a sub?

No, I just read a lot.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Are you a sub?

:caning:

 

[LusterMunky]

No, I just read a lot.

What are you reading?

 

[LusterMunky]

:caning:

Cool it Ruben. I didn't come here to get my ass kicked.

 

[annabel_lee]

What are you reading?

I read lots of random stuff on here. Or were you referring to something else?

 

[SmileyGirl]

http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdwanttobedom.html
http://a-little-understanding.m.web...sig_time=1401823958294&fb_sig_network=fw#2033

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

:caning:

LMAO!!! . Cut the guy some slack while hes learning, yes?

Maybe you could school him on some basic dos and donts?

 

[THROBBS]

Cool it Ruben. I didn't come here to get my ass kicked.

You said "ruben" in a thread about "subs"....hee hee...

Somebody make me a sammich!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

What are you reading?

Munky, have you ever checked out the B DSM boards?

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Cool it Ruben. I didn't come here to get my ass kicked.

I wouldn't kick your ass, Munky... I'd just pick you up and throw you out of the tree..

 

[LusterMunky]

http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdwanttobedom.html

Best explanation yet. Thank you, sweets. Still not into it.