The PG Dom/Sub conundrum

[LusterMunky]

There seems to be lotsa of cute Lit gurls who have been, or are, or wanna be Subs.

Where are the Doms? Do they operate only in the shadows?

 

[elli1]

There seems to be lotsa of cute Lit gurls who have been, or are, or wanna be Subs.

Where are the Doms? Do they operate only in the shadows?

*pops in*
HONEYYYYYY!!!! look what the munky did

 

[elli1]

Where are the Doms? Do they operate only in the shadows?

and follow up question: where are the good, reliable, experienced Doms?

 

[LusterMunky]

*pops in*
HONEYYYYYY!!!! look what the munky did

Smartypants.

 

[LusterMunky]

and follow up question: where are the good, reliable, experienced Doms?

Actually, that's my question. They don't seem to post.

 

[thejabber27]

and follow up question: where are the good, reliable, experienced Doms?

Usually on the BDSM board, or in some remote part of the world.

 

[LusterMunky]

Usually on the BDSM board, or in some remote part of the world.

Mystery solved.

I stay on the PG. Safer here.

 

[ydahecnot]

Bigger question: where are the dommes?

 

[elli1]

Usually on the BDSM board, or in some remote part of the world.

but i like it on the playground! *hops on the swing*

 

[feistyphoenix]

and follow up question: where are the good, reliable, experienced Doms?

They're here, they just don't brag about it openly. I've known several.

 

[ydahecnot]

Hmmmm..."swing"

 

[elli1]

They're here, they just don't brag about it openly. I've known several.

lucky girl

 

[thejabber27]

but i like it on the playground! *hops on the swing*

Well the others don't brag about it, they're dominant, they know it, and they only exert that on the willing.

 

[pensivepoet]

Bigger question: where are the dommes?

The math has never been on the sub's side.
If it be action ya want, you need to go to Alt.com, backpage ads, or learn to swing a whip

 

[elli1]

Well the others don't brag about it, they're dominant, they know it, and they only exert that on the willing.

*sighs* guess i won't get around it....

 

[thejabber27]

*sighs* guess i won't get around it....

I'm sure Fiesty will share some names with you.

Doms aren't flashy because they have nothing to compensate for.

 

[LusterMunky]

So let's broaden the discussion: why does a gurl wanna be a sub?

 

[elli1]

So let's broaden the discussion: why does a gurl wanna be a sub?

why do people do things they enjoy?

 

[thejabber27]

So let's broaden the discussion: why does a gurl wanna be a sub?

Some people are in control all the time and want the lack of it for relaxation, though that's one of the many reasons people are submissive.

 

[LusterMunky]

Some people are in control all the time and want the lack of it for relaxation, though that's one of the many reasons people are submissive.

Interesting. I guess. Still don't understand it.

 

[pensivepoet]

That's one hell of a complicated question, munky.
There are so many aspects and flavours to the D/s world.
There are 24/7 tpe lifestylers, sadists and pain sluts, and some that need a perversion diversion. An escape from the realities that beat us up daily.
I don't think gender has much to do with it.

 

[thejabber27]

Interesting. I guess. Still don't understand it.

Think of it as being at high tension all the time and need some time to be at a low tension where you can autopilot.

 

[LusterMunky]

That's one hell of a complicated question, munky.
There are so many aspects and flavours to the D/s world.
There are 24/7 tpe lifestylers, sadists and pain sluts, and some that need a perversion diversion. An escape from the realities that beat us up daily.
I don't think gender has much to do with it.

Hokay now I have learned that it is capital D, lower case s. (D/s) Which makes sense, grammatically.

My gender question is that I don't see guyz trolling for subs on the PG.

And to each their own, I certainly have my own quirks.

 

[thejabber27]

Hokay now I have learned that it is capital D, lower case s. (D/s) Which makes sense, grammatically.

My gender question is that I don't see guyz trolling for subs on the PG.

And to each their own, I certainly have my own quirks.

Those threads pop up from time to time, usually they're either ignored or beaten to the ground.

 

[LusterMunky]

Think of it as being at high tension all the time and need some time to be at a low tension where you can autopilot.

I'd give anything to be on low tension autopilot. But I'm still not a Dom Guy. Sowwy gurlz.