floridapipeguy
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Hi, I've actually tried to start this thread/question several times now and each time I end up just trashing it because I think I end up both making it way too long, and getting off topic. To start out, without trying to be offensive to any women users here, I would tend to think that many women either using/posting on here already (especially in this section) might be, in general, a little bit more sexual open than many others women. Again, not even really meaning that your more sexual in your life, but just in that you may be more free to talk about it rather than just reading/fantasizing. All I'm trying to get at, is that the questions I ask, I'd like to get both your personal opinion, and what you think might be a more general opinion in general from a female standpoint. If you think that your views on it are the same w/ most thats perfectly acceptable too, but if you think its something that you might be comfortable with, but think many others may see it different would be nice to hear a little about it. Obviously there is no right or wrong answer you can give about what other people think, but its why I'm just looking for women's responses since you would obviously have a better idea.
I'm going to TRY to keep this part brief as I can, as this is the part I always end up making wayyyy too long as I end up trying to explain it in very specific detail so you know whats going through my mind. If you are interested in hearing more, or feel you need to know more to make an honest answer feel free to ask or PM me and I can tell you the details. Not really looking for males opinions, but if you do want to hear more, please keep it to a PM and not as a thread reply.
I've always had a very strong fetish for being caught masturbating, or at a minimum, being seen while exposed (like fake sleeping). Since I first realized and experimented with this (approx 15 years ago) to the current, it has almost always been w/ people I've been very close to and comfortable with. (Family, in -laws, close friends mothers at times) The furthest I had ventured outside that circle was hotel maids a few times. It's all because that when I do go through with it, I like to have it all planned out to the smallest details for several reasons. It's nerve racking enough at times debating on whether to finally go through with it, even in the minutes/seconds leading up to it and if I am going to go through with it, I want to try to get the most bang for my buck. In the end its about 2% ever hoping it goes somewhere, and 98% seeing how the person reacts to it. I try to always plan for it to not seem like I'm just flashing, and that it's a legitimate awkward situation for both. Whether they find it funny, disgusting, arousing, awkard, and many seem to be embarassed themselves, doesnt matter to me, I just like to see it on their face. With all the time and stress I've put into it, I like to get more than a 1/16th second glance around the corner before disappearing, or even much worse, not even being positive if they even saw me. I HATE THAT as I don't really know where to go from that point. OK, I'm doing it again going on for too long, if you care to know more, just PM me for a much more detailed explanation, or if asking in the thread, make it a specific question so I won't ramble on.
Over the last year, I've been living alone and even though I didn't ever really want to, have turned to public flashing. It's obviously much less planned per person and more luck involved, but I've tried to work out the best ways to make it at least seem believable. I'm always in my car btw.
1. Have you ever caught a man masturbating in his car or similar before? Not just some person trying to do an obvious flash, i.e the classic naked guy in trench coat.
2. If you did happen to see a man masturbating in his car, who when noticed, acted embarassed/guilty/sorry, would it seem believable to you, or would you just presume it was part of the flash?
3. There are a ton of reactions I can be happy getting since it can be rare and take hours sometimes to even get 1, but I genuinly would never want it to actually scare someone. I take a few steps that I hope curb this like, me being inside my car, 98% of the time the female would be at least next to, but usually entering or inside their car before noticing, and having it be in an outside parking lot. I've don't really think I've ever seen anyone react genuinly scared, but whats your thought?
4. Trying to make keep things as believable as possible, I'll usually keep the car running, or at least the car radio going. I do this at a lowish volume, low enough that hopefully I can still hear if they do mutter something softly or slow down/stop while in view, but loud enough it would still be believeable I didn't hear them walk up. Learned from experience that is 100x better to get a physical view of them either exiting the store or approaching though, sucks when you think its perfect to find out they met up with their bf/husband inside and he decided to drive home lol. I try to always be either looking at porn on my phone, trying to hold it at a slight angle away from their side or if my phone is dead, I'll act as if I'm talking on it, keeping it up to the ear that they would approach on, so its possible my vision of them is blocked. Sometimes I am caught off guard as well and if I feel that they know they are there, I'll tend to either just give up, or cover myself partially w/ my hand so if they do take notice, they would still know what I was doing. My windows are only ever cracked, maybe 1/4 at most so I can be seen clearly from some angles, but don't look completely obvious having the window on only their side completely open. To this point does it even sound reasonably believable? Or am I just wasting way too much time thinking about it all. (In private I want it to seem real for their reaction, but doing it this way, I need it to seem real much much more because I think it's much less likely to have the cops called on me if they think they just caught me by accident.
Out of all of my "successes", have only ever been stopped by police once and they let me go since there was 0 evidence. It was when I was very new to all this and my car had 0 tint so it was much easier for anyone to see, both good and bad thing.
5. After everything I mentioned above, I started looking for other ways to both be seen, and add to my "story". I try to stick to quick shop stores like cvs/walgreens, dollar stores or that nature if I can. Most ppl take like 5-10 min which works great since It gives enough time to get the car in the position I want and get myself ready. Also give myself the time to make sure I want to go through with it each and every time lol. But, sometimes you end up getting stuck waiting for 30 minutes...or 45... or an hour. In the end it sucks waiting that long and them just driving off never noticing. To up my odds a tiny bit, I started either making something hang out a rear door (shirt sleeve or cloth) or having something outside the passenger door so it would look like it fell out when someone I'm waiting on was getting out (sunglasses, etc). Has seemed to help out w/ at least having something else bring more attention to the car, but even having some people look directly in to ask about if they were mine. Would that make it more believable to you? not really? or just make it seem even more set up?
6. Would the looks of the person change your reaction?
I have plenty more I want to add and may add later, but I'm gonna start with this and go from there. Again, any guys that have questions or whatever, please keep it to PM's. and women feel free to PM if you don't want to ask in here.
I'm going to TRY to keep this part brief as I can, as this is the part I always end up making wayyyy too long as I end up trying to explain it in very specific detail so you know whats going through my mind. If you are interested in hearing more, or feel you need to know more to make an honest answer feel free to ask or PM me and I can tell you the details. Not really looking for males opinions, but if you do want to hear more, please keep it to a PM and not as a thread reply.
I've always had a very strong fetish for being caught masturbating, or at a minimum, being seen while exposed (like fake sleeping). Since I first realized and experimented with this (approx 15 years ago) to the current, it has almost always been w/ people I've been very close to and comfortable with. (Family, in -laws, close friends mothers at times) The furthest I had ventured outside that circle was hotel maids a few times. It's all because that when I do go through with it, I like to have it all planned out to the smallest details for several reasons. It's nerve racking enough at times debating on whether to finally go through with it, even in the minutes/seconds leading up to it and if I am going to go through with it, I want to try to get the most bang for my buck. In the end its about 2% ever hoping it goes somewhere, and 98% seeing how the person reacts to it. I try to always plan for it to not seem like I'm just flashing, and that it's a legitimate awkward situation for both. Whether they find it funny, disgusting, arousing, awkard, and many seem to be embarassed themselves, doesnt matter to me, I just like to see it on their face. With all the time and stress I've put into it, I like to get more than a 1/16th second glance around the corner before disappearing, or even much worse, not even being positive if they even saw me. I HATE THAT as I don't really know where to go from that point. OK, I'm doing it again going on for too long, if you care to know more, just PM me for a much more detailed explanation, or if asking in the thread, make it a specific question so I won't ramble on.
Over the last year, I've been living alone and even though I didn't ever really want to, have turned to public flashing. It's obviously much less planned per person and more luck involved, but I've tried to work out the best ways to make it at least seem believable. I'm always in my car btw.
1. Have you ever caught a man masturbating in his car or similar before? Not just some person trying to do an obvious flash, i.e the classic naked guy in trench coat.
2. If you did happen to see a man masturbating in his car, who when noticed, acted embarassed/guilty/sorry, would it seem believable to you, or would you just presume it was part of the flash?
3. There are a ton of reactions I can be happy getting since it can be rare and take hours sometimes to even get 1, but I genuinly would never want it to actually scare someone. I take a few steps that I hope curb this like, me being inside my car, 98% of the time the female would be at least next to, but usually entering or inside their car before noticing, and having it be in an outside parking lot. I've don't really think I've ever seen anyone react genuinly scared, but whats your thought?
4. Trying to make keep things as believable as possible, I'll usually keep the car running, or at least the car radio going. I do this at a lowish volume, low enough that hopefully I can still hear if they do mutter something softly or slow down/stop while in view, but loud enough it would still be believeable I didn't hear them walk up. Learned from experience that is 100x better to get a physical view of them either exiting the store or approaching though, sucks when you think its perfect to find out they met up with their bf/husband inside and he decided to drive home lol. I try to always be either looking at porn on my phone, trying to hold it at a slight angle away from their side or if my phone is dead, I'll act as if I'm talking on it, keeping it up to the ear that they would approach on, so its possible my vision of them is blocked. Sometimes I am caught off guard as well and if I feel that they know they are there, I'll tend to either just give up, or cover myself partially w/ my hand so if they do take notice, they would still know what I was doing. My windows are only ever cracked, maybe 1/4 at most so I can be seen clearly from some angles, but don't look completely obvious having the window on only their side completely open. To this point does it even sound reasonably believable? Or am I just wasting way too much time thinking about it all. (In private I want it to seem real for their reaction, but doing it this way, I need it to seem real much much more because I think it's much less likely to have the cops called on me if they think they just caught me by accident.
Out of all of my "successes", have only ever been stopped by police once and they let me go since there was 0 evidence. It was when I was very new to all this and my car had 0 tint so it was much easier for anyone to see, both good and bad thing.
5. After everything I mentioned above, I started looking for other ways to both be seen, and add to my "story". I try to stick to quick shop stores like cvs/walgreens, dollar stores or that nature if I can. Most ppl take like 5-10 min which works great since It gives enough time to get the car in the position I want and get myself ready. Also give myself the time to make sure I want to go through with it each and every time lol. But, sometimes you end up getting stuck waiting for 30 minutes...or 45... or an hour. In the end it sucks waiting that long and them just driving off never noticing. To up my odds a tiny bit, I started either making something hang out a rear door (shirt sleeve or cloth) or having something outside the passenger door so it would look like it fell out when someone I'm waiting on was getting out (sunglasses, etc). Has seemed to help out w/ at least having something else bring more attention to the car, but even having some people look directly in to ask about if they were mine. Would that make it more believable to you? not really? or just make it seem even more set up?
6. Would the looks of the person change your reaction?
I have plenty more I want to add and may add later, but I'm gonna start with this and go from there. Again, any guys that have questions or whatever, please keep it to PM's. and women feel free to PM if you don't want to ask in here.
