an erotic smack in the face

[StrayKat]

BUT, between his wife and his mistress the fucking phone never stopped ringing. It was damn good for him that he was as brilliant as he was or he never would have accomplished a damn thing. I decided then and there that the 24/7 lifestyle wasn't for me. I wanted to do other things in and with my life than to spend damned near 1/3 of it working and the rest of my waking hours directing the life of another individual. Especially when that other individual was a perfectly capable adult. As far as I'm concerned it starts and ends at the bedroom door (or wherever else playtime is taking place).

Apparently it is not for you. Or for me, I have no interest in moving it out of the bedroom either because I am a different person sans my sex drive.

The thing is, it probably works for him and his sub(s), because if it didnt they wouldnt live that way. None made them control that other person, there is no society pressure or need to make a living in BDSM. He would probably rather ditch the job as unneeded distraction in his life than D/s. You may not understand and it is not your thing, but for some people it just is the preferred way to live. If it wasnt, there is nothing preventing them to stop.

 

[Lancecastor]

just my personal prejudice regarding face slapping.

Ishmael

Lots of wasted words to get to the point.

 

[lovetoread]

Sooooooo......

Hot, or not???

Totally doable.

 

[Ishmael]

Lots of wasted words to get to the point.

In whose opinion? Yours?

Ishmael

 

[Adre]

I say slap each other to your hearts' content. Why should anyone care?

 

[Lancecastor]

No, that chik over there....I read her mind, dummy.

I thought the "slapping leads to danger and possible death" stuff was funny.

Pot leads directly to heroin, always.

Not your best work; too many exaggerations.

 

[trysail]

This isn't something you "discuss" beforehand...

The last time I checked this did not agree with the definition of the word consensual.



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[Lancecastor]

The last time I checked this did not agree with the definition of the word consensual.



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Consent is for sissies.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I say slap each other to your hearts' content. Why should anyone care?

You must get slapped a lot.

 

[toubab]

The last time I checked this did not agree with the definition of the word consensual.



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I suspect asking for consent would ruin it for both parties. No, I'm sure of it.

 

[Ishmael]

No, that chik over there....I read her mind, dummy.

I thought the "slapping leads to danger and possible death" stuff was funny.

Pot leads directly to heroin, always.

Not your best work; too many exaggerations.

Who's exaggerating now?

Ishmael

 

[Lancecastor]

Who's exaggerating now?

Ishmael

You...here's 5 obvious ones.

*chuckle* Dolf knew damn well what was going to happen when she started this thread. It's a sub-plot of 1. a battle that's been raging down in the BDSM forum for as long as I've been here, and I'd bet that if I were to visit that forum I'd find it 2. still raging in one or more threads (one or more is hardly a "rage").

Is D/s a 24/7 practice?

Well yeah, it can be. When I first started my career I was placed under the tut-ledge of a particularly brilliant engineer. He had a masters from MIT all on a 100% scholarship grant. And he was a 24/7 Dom. We talked a lot and I learned many things from him, both professionally and regarding his particular kink. Various practices and techniques regarding BDSM. BUT, between his wife and his mistress3. the fucking phone never stopped ringing. It was damn good for him that he was as brilliant as he was or he never would have accomplished a damn thing. I decided then and there that the 24/7 lifestyle wasn't for me. I wanted to do other things in and with my life than to spend damned near 1/3 of it working and 4. the rest of my waking hours directing the life of another individual. Especially when that other individual was a perfectly capable adult. As far as I'm concerned it starts and ends at the bedroom door (or wherever else playtime is taking place).

Can two consenting adults engage in whatever sexual activity they want to?

Of course they can, but there is another question that goes with that, "Should they?" There are some practices that are not only risky but down right dangerous. Activities that not properly executed can have/do serious, and permanent, damage to the person they're being done to. There is always the question as to whether the practitioner knows what they're doing and whether the object of his/her ministrations knows what the possible consequences are.

This all started with a mere slap in the face. And I'm not going to weigh in as to whether that is right or wrong for another pair of individuals. Whatever floats your boat. But a slap can be a mere surprise accompanied by some redness 5. all the way to a broken jaw. <shrug>

I won't do that. A face slap is highly symbolic to me. It's a sign of great contempt for the person I slap and I just can't imagine being with a person I feel that contemptuous of. The only possible exception would be if the individual were out of control hysterical, then I might use the slap to force them to regain focus. But that is just my personal prejudice regarding face slapping.

Ishmael

 

[Adre]

You must get slapped a lot.

Oh really?

 

[Ishmael]

You...here's 5 obvious ones.

13 years is, you know it as well as I.

Ishmael

 

[eyer]

Seems like at least one of you submissive gals who get off getting slapped in the face...

...would contact Daddylancie so he can get his fill of ego-fluffed superiority this morning.

After all...

...every single one of you KNOW you need it from him.

 

[Lancecastor]

Eyer is doing some pimpin' for me, so pay attention, bitches!

Seems like at least one of you submissive gals who get off getting slapped in the face...

...would contact Daddylancie so he can get his fill of ego-fluffed superiority this morning.

After all...

...every single one of you KNOW you need it from him.

 

[richard_daily]

I slapped the OP in an airport in front of hundreds of people.

 

[Laurel]

I agree, there's nothing hot about being smacked in the face.

and from the other perspective, uncle rosco?

*takes a seat, waits*

 

[IrezumiKiss]

*takes a seat, waits*

Better have a booty cushion. Methinks you'll be waiting a long time.

Thanks to Oak Tree Boy's schoolmarm indignation over mutual lust and sex, this thread's milkshake fun factor got dranked ALL the way up.

http://i.imgur.com/bp5gMcu.gif

 

[eyer]

I slapped the OP in an airport in front of hundreds of people.

Be still my beating heart...

...no doubt she instantly creamed at the public humiliation. That is so HAWT! Good thing you smacked her during those two weeks out of the year she vacations from her "real", I am woman, hear me roar life, eh lancealot?

I bet next you're gonna tell us the first time you ever got off was watching your dad smack your mom upside the head.

In anticipation of that inevitability, I'd love to gift you with one or one and a half paper towels to clean up after yourself...

...but, since mice don't need them, no one makes such small items.

Sorry, dick.

 

[Learnsmith]

Eyer is doing some pimpin' for me, so pay attention, bitches!

I'm not sure who the young man is insulting more when he runs his mouth - you, or the ladies to whom he's referring. Either way, his claims about being concerned for the wimminfolk seem largely spurious. He's mad because they won't fuck him, but if someone were to volunteer, well by God, they'd be an insecure whore for doing so. Some people's kids, man, tell you.

 

[StrayKat]

I'm not sure who the young man is insulting more when he runs his mouth - you, or the ladies he's referring to. Either way, his claims to being concerned for the wimminfolk seem largely spurious. He's mad because they won't fuck him, but if someone were to volunteer, well by God, they'd be an insecure whore for doing so. Some people's kids, man, tell you.

As far as I can see, from people who quote him, since I have him on ignore for like forever (mucho point when people keep quoting ), he has no clue about women, no clue about kink, no clue about sex and no clue about life.
I have no idea who let him in here.....

 

[Learnsmith]

As far as I can see, from people who quote him, since I have him on ignore for like forever (mucho point when people keep quoting ), he has no clue about women, no clue about kink, no clue about sex and no clue about life.
I have no idea who let him in here.....

They have someone manning the door?

 

[lovetoread]

Oh my dear gawd.

Still going on that cannot be a "real" woman and still like being kinky, eh?

 

[IrezumiKiss]

I'm not sure who the young man is insulting more when he runs his mouth - you, or the ladies he's referring to. Either way, his claims to being concerned for the wimminfolk seem largely spurious. He's mad because they won't fuck him, but if someone were to volunteer, well by God, they'd be an insecure whore for doing so. Some people's kids, man, tell you.

Not young, though.

He's an old crusty curmudgeonly coot living "off grid" in the desert who's been reduced to straddling the cacti surrounding his bargain-basement Airstream when needing to vent his sexual frustrations. Which, if his posts are any indication, seem to ramping up exponentially these past few days.