Attracted to married men?

[curiousman123]

Okay dear readers I have some questions.

Recently I have found myself traveling down the rabbit whole of affairs, and mistresses. Which leads me to questions

Specifically I don’t’ understand the attraction some women have with married men?

Maybe because I have a penis and balls, but I really don’t get this particular fetish, BUT I am curious. What is the allure? What is the draw? What makes you want to be a mistress?

I understand the reluctance of some to post publicly, so please feel free to PM me with your particular thoughts.

 

[SexyAlison]

Probably the taboo and desire for the forbidden.

 

[curiousman123]

Probably the taboo and desire for the forbidden.

Possibly, but I am wondering if it something else? Maybe you are right and I am looking to deep into it.

 

[SexyAlison]

Possibly, but I am wondering if it something else? Maybe you are right and I am looking to deep into it.

Marriage is a life changing commitment. And the idea of a man willing to give that up for fun with me is very telling about how attracted he is to you, where it's incredibly hot for me.

 

[NeonSubtlety]

I can't speak for the opposite sex. But, maybe even a guy's opinion can shed a little light.

It's about competition. Those who have a competitive streak sometimes let it bleed into their relationships with others. It's not a defensible thing. It's shallow and offensive. But it can happen. And when it does, i believe it requires viewing people as prizes.

And there's some appeal to the challenge that comes from causing a lapse in what's often viewed as the most serious, most meaningful promise one can make to another.

 

[NeonSubtlety]

Marriage is a life changing commitment. And the idea of a man willing to give that up for fun with me is very telling about how attracted he is to you, where it's incredibly hot for me.

Yeah. Mostly that.

 

[curiousman123]

Marriage is a life changing commitment. And the idea of a man willing to give that up for fun with me is very telling about how attracted he is to you, where it's incredibly hot for me.

interesting. so its a kind of validation?

 

[SexyAlison]

interesting. so its a kind of validation?

Pretty much

 

[curiousman123]

I can't speak for the opposite sex. But, maybe even a guy's opinion can shed a little light.

It's about competition. Those who have a competitive streak sometimes let it bleed into their relationships with others. It's not a defensible thing. It's shallow and offensive. But it can happen. And when it does, i believe it requires viewing people as prizes.

And there's some appeal to the challenge that comes from causing a lapse in what's often viewed as the most serious, most meaningful promise one can make to another.

that is entirely plausible. Competition seems to be a driving force for a great deal of the stupid shit humans do. Or at least much of the stupid shit I do.