How do you tell your wife you are interested in a bi-sexual MMF threesome?
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We fantasize a lot about this in the heat of the moment. I <think> she's serious but the only way I'll know for sure is to carry the ball forward and suggest a particular partner, but haven't reached that point yet. First going to try to get her interested in an erotic website or two (like literotica) and then see if we can move on to posting some pictures of her butt (which is great!).
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Wouldnt it be great...
Wouldnt it be great to finally be able to tell her and see what happens. I expect the real life fantasy would only end in drama though.
Wouldnt it be great to finally be able to tell her and see what happens. I expect the real life fantasy would only end in drama though.
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i confessed to my wife before our marriage that I was bi and to my surprise she did not go off screaming at me, a good sign.
I did not screw around with men I was about 47 and for my 50th b day she took me to a swingers club just to shut me up about the topic. She had a better time than me. Is that possible?
We have been very lucky to meet some great folks who share our interests and enjoy bi play. I enjoy playing with the guys while she has fun with the girls. Of course a big pile of bodies is fantastic also.
Our choices are not for everyone but we have no regrets other than not starting sooner.
Good luck and hope all turns out well. Bobby.
i confessed to my wife before our marriage that I was bi and to my surprise she did not go off screaming at me, a good sign.
I did not screw around with men I was about 47 and for my 50th b day she took me to a swingers club just to shut me up about the topic. She had a better time than me. Is that possible?
We have been very lucky to meet some great folks who share our interests and enjoy bi play. I enjoy playing with the guys while she has fun with the girls. Of course a big pile of bodies is fantastic also.
Our choices are not for everyone but we have no regrets other than not starting sooner.
Good luck and hope all turns out well. Bobby.
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An ex girlfriend wasnt into trying anal. She had a gay friend who i had seen nude at her pool. He was very well hung! She said if i let him fuck my ass, i could then fuck her ass. I am a bi guy who likes to bottom. She didnt know that.....yet! The next time he was over, as we lounged nude on her deck, she told him about our deal. I told him i wanted him to fuck me as she watched us. We all agreed it was a good deal! She found out i was bi, i found a new buddy, she liked watching, and i got to put my cock in her ass. Worked out well!
An ex girlfriend wasnt into trying anal. She had a gay friend who i had seen nude at her pool. He was very well hung! She said if i let him fuck my ass, i could then fuck her ass. I am a bi guy who likes to bottom. She didnt know that.....yet! The next time he was over, as we lounged nude on her deck, she told him about our deal. I told him i wanted him to fuck me as she watched us. We all agreed it was a good deal! She found out i was bi, i found a new buddy, she liked watching, and i got to put my cock in her ass. Worked out well!
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worked out well...
mmm dream come true
mmm dream come true
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I must be naive but I think you just tell your sex partner. What are you doing as a bi person in a relationship with someone who you cant tell that too? What is the point in sleeping with someone if you can't be your true sexy self?
My ex-wife knew I was bi very early in our relationship - right after we started dating she walked in on me and a male friend when he was fucking me in the ass. She turned around and walked out, my friend came in my ass shortly after that, and I went and found her and told her everything. We had only been dating for a couple of months and she told me that what I did was my business. When we did get more serious she told me that she didn't want to know if I was fucking around with men or women, but that if we ever decided to get married she wanted me to make sure I got it all out of my system before that.
I did get it somewhat out of my system before we got married - I had sex with another male two nights before the wedding and with one of her bridesmaids the night before the wedding, and then I was faithful to her for over 20 years. That doesn't mean I stopped thinking about it and I did try to convince her a number of times while we were married to have other couples or single males join us for sex, but she never would. The closest we came was having sex in the same room where her hot cousin and her hot husband were also having sex.
After she had her first affair and decided not to get divorced, I told her if she ever wanted to have sex with another guy that we should discuss it first and possibly invite him to join us for a threesome. That seemed to turn her on and we enjoyed fantastic sex for a couple of years after that, but then she had another affair without letting me know and I divorced her.
I never could figure out why she would go behind my back when I was willing to let her indulge her fantasies as long as I knew about them.
I did get it somewhat out of my system before we got married - I had sex with another male two nights before the wedding and with one of her bridesmaids the night before the wedding, and then I was faithful to her for over 20 years. That doesn't mean I stopped thinking about it and I did try to convince her a number of times while we were married to have other couples or single males join us for sex, but she never would. The closest we came was having sex in the same room where her hot cousin and her hot husband were also having sex.
After she had her first affair and decided not to get divorced, I told her if she ever wanted to have sex with another guy that we should discuss it first and possibly invite him to join us for a threesome. That seemed to turn her on and we enjoyed fantastic sex for a couple of years after that, but then she had another affair without letting me know and I divorced her.
I never could figure out why she would go behind my back when I was willing to let her indulge her fantasies as long as I knew about them.
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