What is the one move or action you do to bring your partner over the edge to orgasm?

[eroticspank]

You and your partner are making love as you both get close to orgasm is there something you do to bring your partner (male or female) over the edge to orgasm?

1. IF you are the person that does that trick, what is it and do you like doing it to your partner and why?

2. IF you are the person that have had that done to you, did you like it or did you prefer to get there yourself?


For me, when I was with an ex gf she used to lightly tickle my balls with her fingernails while she was riding me cowgirl style to get me to orgasm. It gave me great orgasms and signaled that she was ready for me to cum.

I liked that she did it and helped me to cum because some times I found it hard to cum. But there were some times she did it and I did not want to cum so I would grab her hand to tell her to wait. I did not always like her having that kind of control over my orgasm, except during roleplay etc.

She told me that she loved knowing I had a button she could push to make me cum. It made her feel powerful and it was a big turn on.

For her, IF I used a lubed finger and rubbed her anus lips that usually got her over the edge to orgasm. She liked it when I did it but liked to push my button more.

ES

 

[Monica_112]

Cum loud

Works almost every time

 

[vibes]

Cum loud

Works almost every time

You may have a point here

 

[cravon4884]

She has the craziest orgasms when I pull out of her, slide down, suck her clit between my lips and flick it with the end of my tongue...

 

[eroticspank]

Cool!

Cum loud

Works almost every time

You make sure you announce your own orgasm or are noisy enough for your partner to hear it and that makes him cum too? That sounds hot and I bet it does work.

What if you already came and are not close to orgasm? What do you do then to get him to cum?

ES

 

[eroticspank]

She has the craziest orgasms when I pull out of her, slide down, suck her clit between my lips and flick it with the end of my tongue...

That sounds like a great trick! What does she do to you to get you over the edge?

ES

 

[cravon4884]

That sounds like a great trick! What does she do to you to get you over the edge?

ES

I was thinking that Monica must be her, because cumming loud does it... The feeling of it squeezing around me while she's making all that noise...

 

[MedicalMuse]

When I'm sucking him, and I can get him deep enough into my throat, humming and swallowing sends him over fast. I usually get my hair pulled.

 

[eroticspank]

When I'm sucking him, and I can get him deep enough into my throat, humming and swallowing sends him over fast. I usually get my hair pulled.

That sounds awesome. I bet the vibrations in your throat really help. When the first girl I was with did that, I thought she was a weirdo, THEN I felt the vibrations from the humming! Wow.

What does he do to bring you over the edge?

ES

 

[eroticspank]

I was thinking that Monica must be her, because cumming loud does it... The feeling of it squeezing around me while she's making all that noise...

Great thanks for sharing! I love the feeling of the contractions too.

ES

 

[GI_Joe]

When she is getting close, I push two fingers inside and do a "Come hither" motion while flicking her clit with my tongue...rings her to orgasm each time

 

[MedicalMuse]

That sounds awesome. I bet the vibrations in your throat really help. When the first girl I was with did that, I thought she was a weirdo, THEN I felt the vibrations from the humming! Wow.

What does he do to bring you over the edge?

ES

I like different things. not sure I'm willing to share that

 

[eroticspank]

I like different things. not sure I'm willing to share that

Well thanks for what you did share!

ES

 

[Felix_Jones]

When I reach for my credit card.

 

[DeceptiveSpeed]

i can squeez my PC muscles pretty well. He loves that. And he loves it when i talk dirty

 

[_Hawkmoon_]

When I reach for my credit card.

Sad but true.

 

[October46]

If it is oral sex, I will tease her clit and gently bite on her vagina lips, this drives her over the edge.

 

[eroticspank]

When I reach for my credit card.

Perhaps when you drive your Ferrari too!

ES

 

[eroticspank]

Yes that works!

i can squeez my PC muscles pretty well. He loves that. And he loves it when i talk dirty

Yes that feels great when my gf squeezes her pussy, but I think it is just part of her orgasmic contractions, I don't think she is doing it on purpose.

I find it interesting that a lot of guys like, moaning, talking dirty, seeing/hearing their partner cum, etc ......all nonphysical things that make the guy go over the edge into orgasm. I would imagine that women would be the ones that when they are close to orgasm, a nonphysical thing would cause them to orgasm. Example: Being told they are beautiful, their partner tells them I love you, dirty talk, you make me so happy, to mention a few. Or even their partner telling them they are cumming, screams from him, etc. I know when I guy cums inside a woman it can be both physical and emotional. I have heard that puts some women over the edge, I know it works for my gf sometimes.

ES

 

[jojodancer]

well..

sucking her clit..in and out of my lips..gripping her hands on her belly..using her hands squeezing mine as a "guage" of when shes about to explode..
i can damn near cum myself getting a woman off with my lips...tongue..its one hell of a powerful feeling

 

[eroticspank]

Very powerful

sucking her clit..in and out of my lips..gripping her hands on her belly..using her hands squeezing mine as a "guage" of when shes about to explode..
i can damn near cum myself getting a woman off with my lips...tongue..its one hell of a powerful feeling

Thanks for sharing that. I don't always like to refer to it as a powerful feeling because in some ways it seems like conceit to me. But in reality it really is a very powerful feeling to make your partner cum, I love that feeling and in being genuine I find there is no conceit.

I imagine when you know the buttons to push on bringing your partner to orgasm and intense arousal, that knowledge can be used in D/s, BDSM, and other power play games to great advantage.

ES

 

[BiTodd]

Cum loud

Works almost every time

As arousing as that is it is my goal in life to hold out for the next one or the one after that.

 

[eroticspank]

Exactly!

As arousing as that is it is my goal in life to hold out for the next one or the one after that.

I completely agree! BUT have you ever been in a situation where she did something that made you lose control no matter how hard you tried to hold out?

ES

 

[Asian_Flower]

I whisper certain "things" in his ear

 

[TeaforMe]

There are two things I do...

After sucking and licking him for awhile, I start jerking him into my mouth and moan, he doesn't last very long after that.

When he is fucking me, I lick his ear or arm and for some reason, that sends him over the edge.