How do you discipline your girls?

[MaddysSecret]

Last night I was showing up for a date, and got paddled because I had been asked to wear a specific outfit and had it completely wrong. I had been high all day and just hadn't listened, or forgot or something. It was totally my fault. I don't make many mistakes anymore, but I accept the punishment when I do. But it made wonder, guys, how do you discipline your girls, and girls, how do you get disciplined? We all need a firm hand at times, so I'm not talking about BDSM, just keeping us in line and teaching us. With me, a sharp smack to my face or ass wil usually pull me up, but if more is needed I get paddled or strapped. Spankings can make me cum, so they aren't effective punishment, but a hard one sometimes works.

 

[master___dom]

Punishment would include bare ass spanking over my knee, some prolonged cock worship, and some type of public humiliation/embarrassment for making me wait for her in public.

 

[suckonsimon]

Maddy, since this is not a BDSM type thread, let me reply for myself and I guess a large number of guys: We don't. It's simply not a part of the deal. For me personally, my honoring her total freedom to be herself towards me is a fundamental part of my make-up and my masculinity. I genuinely see a man who makes demands of a woman, as less of a man.

Just sayin, not laying down any law!

Simon

 

[MaddysSecret]

Punishment would include bare ass spanking over my knee, some prolonged cock worship, and some type of public humiliation/embarrassment for making me wait for her in public.

I'm pretty obedient and punctual now, but being late or forgetting dates is something I understand needs more punishment to correct. There were times I was made to wear signs in semi-public settings as humiliation. My mother spanked me hard in front of others once in my teens, so spanking in public combined with me having to say what I had done is still a punishment to me.

 

[master___dom]

To me, it's a matter of respect for me and my time. I respect others and require the same in return. You sound like a respectful, considerate person to me.

 

[positivetension]

Maddy, since this is not a BDSM type thread, let me reply for myself and I guess a large number of guys: We don't. It's simply not a part of the deal. For me personally, my honoring her total freedom to be herself towards me is a fundamental part of my make-up and my masculinity. I genuinely see a man who makes demands of a woman, as less of a man.

Just sayin, not laying down any law!

Simon

I have to agree. This topic outside of a consensual bdsm scenario is really disturbing. It should be reposted in the other forum and put into a less problematic context.

Also, your reply is sexy as fuck.

 

[StrayKat]

What about "girls" who discipline "guys"?
And seconded, please repost in BDSM board.

 

[chargergirl]

Since you re-posted this in BDSM, where it actually belongs, I'm closing this thread.