Eat It Like You Mean It

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I'm not finished with that conversation ....not by a long shot. Because now I know he CAN.


What if you press him hard on why he doesn't do it more, and he tells you he really doesn't like his face or mouth in your pussy? How are you going to feel about that? I know if a man ever told me "Yeah, well really, to be honest...it's kinda gross down there so, let's keep it to just birthdays and special occasions, shall we?" I'd just about die. Would you be able to cope with that answer, emotionally? Is it a deal breaker for you? Does he please you in other ways?
 
Just my two cents, but, if a guy didn't actually WANT to go down on me, then personally I wouldn't want him to, either. :(

It would totally kill any pleasure for me, knowing he's "suffering" through doing it, counting the minutes until he can stop, just to shut me up, or to get me to suck him off.

Either it'd done with gusto and enthusiasm, or forget it. Like, would a guy really enjoy a BJ if he knew the woman was thinking "Ew, this is so gross, I'm really so not enjoying this but I guess I better make some effort...hope it doesn't have to last too long."?

That's just my opinion, however.

I personally get really super aroused while performing oral. It is so intimate and sexy! I have been known to almost cum without even being touched while going down...actually I remember humping the bottom edge of the mattress while feasting away and not being able to stop from cumming on to the bed with out even masturbating.
 
Opposite problem

I have the opposite problem. I love to go down on my wife, but she is not comfortable with it, and she won't let me. She says it's unsanitary. Yet she has no problem giving me a blow job. I feel guilty but almost every time I try she stops me. On the odd occasion she lets me, and she seems or really enjoy it, to a point then she pulls me up and asks me to cum insider her.

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I personally get really super aroused while performing oral. It is so intimate and sexy! I have been known to almost cum without even being touched while going down...actually I remember humping the bottom edge of the mattress while feasting away and not being able to stop from cumming on to the bed with out even masturbating.

Absolutely agree with you!!! Same with me as well!!
 
What if you press him hard on why he doesn't do it more, and he tells you he really doesn't like his face or mouth in your pussy? How are you going to feel about that? I know if a man ever told me "Yeah, well really, to be honest...it's kinda gross down there so, let's keep it to just birthdays and special occasions, shall we?" I'd just about die. Would you be able to cope with that answer, emotionally? Is it a deal breaker for you? Does he please you in other ways?
No...if I asked and got that answer I wouldn't be offended cause I KNOW the issue isn't me or my pussy. :) that its his problem. I know this sounds horrible, but other guys I'm with let me know I'm not the issue there. They LOVE giving me that.
I think it goes back to him watching me have our kids. He told me the other night, that after watching me give birth, it just changed how he saw me, and he just didn't want to do that anymore. BTW, our youngest is 19. He needs to get over it.
Idk if its a deal breaker, but its not helping his case any.
 
No...if I asked and got that answer I wouldn't be offended cause I KNOW the issue isn't me or my pussy. :) that its his problem. I know this sounds horrible, but other guys I'm with let me know I'm not the issue there. They LOVE giving me that.
I think it goes back to him watching me have our kids. He told me the other night, that after watching me give birth, it just changed how he saw me, and he just didn't want to do that anymore. BTW, our youngest is 19. He needs to get over it.
Idk if its a deal breaker, but its not helping his case any.

If watching you give birth is the problem, he needs to get over it big time. He needs to realize that there are many men out here that are more than happy to take his place.
 
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