Eat It Like You Mean It

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Just my two cents, but, if a guy didn't actually WANT to go down on me, then personally I wouldn't want him to, either. :(

It would totally kill any pleasure for me, knowing he's "suffering" through doing it, counting the minutes until he can stop, just to shut me up, or to get me to suck him off.

Either it'd done with gusto and enthusiasm, or forget it. Like, would a guy really enjoy a BJ if he knew the woman was thinking "Ew, this is so gross, I'm really so not enjoying this but I guess I better make some effort...hope it doesn't have to last too long."?

That's just my opinion, however.
 
Like, would a guy really enjoy a BJ if he knew the woman was thinking "Ew, this is so gross, I'm really so not enjoying this but I guess I better make some effort...hope it doesn't have to last too long."?
Speaking for myself, not at all ... as goes for anything sexual or even sex altogether: if I feel she's not enjoying it I certainly am not either
 
Yeah it bothers me tramendioualy when things aren't generous with both parties. A tit for tat (no pun intended) isn't what friends or lovers do to or for one. Generosity is key in a relationship. In and out of the bedroom.
 
Speaking for myself, not at all ... as goes for anything sexual or even sex altogether: if I feel she's not enjoying it I certainly am not either

Yeah I agree. A big turn on is when she's turned on. And like you said of they're not enjoying it it's no fun.
 
Just my two cents, but, if a guy didn't actually WANT to go down on me, then personally I wouldn't want him to, either. :(

It would totally kill any pleasure for me, knowing he's "suffering" through doing it, counting the minutes until he can stop, just to shut me up, or to get me to suck him off.

Either it'd done with gusto and enthusiasm, or forget it. Like, would a guy really enjoy a BJ if he knew the woman was thinking "Ew, this is so gross, I'm really so not enjoying this but I guess I better make some effort...hope it doesn't have to last too long."?

That's just my opinion, however.
I agree. That's why I never really pushed the issue with hubby. I knew it wasn't his thing. So why should I bother? I kept giving, hoping he would change his tune, but to no avail.
Now, that said, he proved to me on my anniversary he can do it, and very well I must say. So why wont he? He knows I enjoyed the hell out of it that night, so he knows he did a good job, so why the FUCK wont he do it more often?
 
Just my two cents, but, if a guy didn't actually WANT to go down on me, then personally I wouldn't want him to, either. :(

It would totally kill any pleasure for me, knowing he's "suffering" through doing it, counting the minutes until he can stop, just to shut me up, or to get me to suck him off.

Either it'd done with gusto and enthusiasm, or forget it. Like, would a guy really enjoy a BJ if he knew the woman was thinking "Ew, this is so gross, I'm really so not enjoying this but I guess I better make some effort...hope it doesn't have to last too long."?

That's just my opinion, however.

I completely agree with you. If you don't do it with gusto and enthusiasm please just don't do it at all. I just don't ask for bj's any more because I know I'm going to get that "shit I have to do that" kind of bj.
 
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