one night stand questions

[StarGazer58]

I am curious about women's experience with one night stands.

How many women have had a one night stand?

Did you go out looking for a one night stand or did it just happen?

Were you traveling or close to home?

What was it about the guy that sealed the deal?

What were you wearing when you went out?

Guys, I don't really care about your experiences so please don't post them here. Always trying to learn and better understand women. Hope to hear your stories.

 

[cumunder]

My bf has friends stop over and fuck me some times. Its real fun I get excited about what a new guy will feel like

 

[StarGazer58]

Interesting, but thinking more along the line where you meet the guy out somewhere like a bar, party, concert etc. Don't think your boyfriend is ever going to send me over.

 

[StarGazer58]

So no women have any one night stories to tell here at lit? That's amazing. Lol

 

[Amberchgo]

I've done it.

Was never going out with the idea of,hooking up, but they guy was cute. Wine was flowing, it happened.

Done that both on vaca and locally.

 

[StarGazer58]

I've done it.

Was never going out with the idea of,hooking up, but they guy was cute. Wine was flowing, it happened.

Done that both on vaca and locally.

Do you consider them good experiences and would you do it again if the chance arises?

 

[shewantsmore]

Ive had them before, there never been planned they just happened which are the best ones

 

[Amberchgo]

Do you consider them good experiences and would you do it again if the chance arises?

They were experiences. Part of life itself.

Again? LOL. I didn't plan the first ones!

 

[WastedYouths]

So no women have any one night stories to tell here at lit? That's amazing. Lol

A majority of the time it happens when I tell myself that this time "I'm just going to go to hang out with my friends." Somehow when I go with good intentions things turn...less than angelic lol. That, and a little bit of alcohol. It does the trick.

My first one night stand was when I went to the beach. This cute guy had invited me and I brought along my two girls, in no time one of my friends was making out with him and I was just shocked. I don't like two dwell on things so I said I'd just enjoy the company of some friends, next thing I know this tall Colombian kept bringing me drinks and I was in his car, can't say I want too many repeats of that night, but I surely don't regret it

 

[sandie350]

1 night stands

its never planned,just happens,more lust than anything,see what he feels like and all that. case of a drink,lift dress,in and hard,cum and gone

 

[StarGazer58]

Interesting, the consensus seems to be not planned, just kind of happened. That has been my experience too.

Was it that he was just cute and you were in the mood or did he do something to seduce you? Obviously I am looking for ways to better improve my chances when I travel for work.

 

[YAK411976]

Aren't they all. I've had a couple.

 

[StarGazer58]

How would everybody rate their experience? Hotter than relationship sex or not as good? Preferences?

 

[SofiaWife]

How would everybody rate their experience? Hotter than relationship sex or not as good? Preferences?

Not as good as relationship or friendship for me - I learned that I need to know the person and like them first. Only had 2 and then decided to stick with friends or deeper.

 

[rory935steph]

Um...I met my one night stand on Craigslist actually. We talked for a while, no names were traded and we had sex and then he left. He lived one town over from my apartment. I was wearing jeans and a tshirt. We were both horny and looking to fuck

 

[StarGazer58]

Have never met anybody from craigslist. You are the first person that I have heard say they had uccessfully met anybody from craigslist. How was your experience with the anonymous guy?

 

[sweetsophie512]

I've never had a one night stand. I prefer having a connection with the person that I'm with. I don't necessarily need to have a relationship with them, but I want to feel safe that this is someone I can trust not to hurt me physically after all is said and done.

Friends are not always a good idea because it could turn awkward after especially if feelings start to get involved.

However, if I choose to have a one-night stand, I would choose a friend over a stranger any day. Don't know if that makes sense.

 

[Lone_Wanderer]

I've never had a one night stand. I prefer having a connection with the person that I'm with. I don't necessarily need to have a relationship with them, but I want to feel safe that this is someone I can trust not to hurt me physically after all is said and done.

Friends are not always a good idea because it could turn awkward after especially if feelings start to get involved.

However, if I choose to have a one-night stand, I would choose a friend over a stranger any day. Don't know if that makes sense.

Totally makes sense. You have to have some sort of connection before "connecting"...

 

[StarGazer58]

I've never had a one night stand. I prefer having a connection with the person that I'm with. I don't necessarily need to have a relationship with them, but I want to feel safe that this is someone I can trust not to hurt me physically after all is said and done.

Friends are not always a good idea because it could turn awkward after especially if feelings start to get involved.

However, if I choose to have a one-night stand, I would choose a friend over a stranger any day. Don't know if that makes sense.

What you are saying makes sense. I mostly think of a one night stand with a stranger you just met but it could be with a friend that just kinda happened. If it goes longer than one night I would think of it as more of a FWB. So sex has always been within a relationship for you?

I wonder what the percentage is of women who have a one night stand?

 

[BlondieSinner29]

I went out with this guy I was hoping to have as a friend too. I was job hunting on craigslist. Not really looking for sex at the time, and I don't think he was either till he saw how goregous, I was to him. I guess he was hoping I was some chunky dyke with short hair. He was an owner of this moving company. He needed somebody to help him advertise his company. He wasn't really expecting a girl to do it, but he didn't want to discriminate. He pulled up in his car, I usually ride the bus because it's much cheaper and I don't have to waste money on gas.

He offered alot of things. He was actually very Dominant until he met me heh... The mother of his kid lived on the property, apparently they weren't togeather but he paid ALL the bills. According to him of course. But we all know there's always two sides to every story. He said, "Yeah she's an Optomitrist, but I pay for everything because she's the mother of my kid you know?"

In my mind I was thinking, "Really? And who's playing who in that situation?"

I would never ask a man to pay for shit for me, unless they did it because it would benefit to them. I didn't have a fancy job, I work at a grocery store but i'm dedicated to it and I don't care how much you pay me as long as you treat me right.

But he offered me a measily 10 bucks an hour. I thought to myself, "Really? for moving boxes, and hanging up tags ALL night with you? What's the catch? because if i'm going to doing all that you better start me at atleast 20 bucks an hour, I have an Admin Certificate and I can do desk work.

But I ended up ditching him later in a text telling him I didn't think my b/f would like it if him and I were friends with a drug addict. Then I wanted to introduce him to my b/f and he got all weird about it. He didn't realize me and my b/f had an open-relationship. We can screw other people as long as were upfront about who we bone. He wasn't even cool with that so it turned into a one-night stand. He wasn't even that good he wanted to be dominated right away, he didn't know how to operate his dick, it was too thick, and i'm nice and tight. Not a good combination huh? Heh...

 

[StarGazer58]

You never know what you are going to get the first time you are with somebody. Sometimes they are not very good and sometimes your styles don't match. A good lover can adjust though. For women they can only hope the guy is not just about himself and wants to please her too.

 

[MedicalMuse]

I am curious about women's experience with one night stands.

How many women have had a one night stand?

I have

Did you go out looking for a one night stand or did it just happen?

nope. Just kinda happened

Were you traveling or close to home?

Close to home

What was it about the guy that sealed the deal?

he was charismatic and funny. Made me laugh.

What were you wearing when you went out?

what I always wear

Guys, I don't really care about your experiences so please don't post them here. Always trying to learn and better understand women. Hope to hear your stories.

Lol, short and to the point. It was fun, it was a very long time ago, and I'm not saying i'd never do it again, but life is different for me now. So I'm more careful.

 

[Gemma12345]

Yes I have I'm another on the lines of it not being planned. Alcohol plays an important part.

I've had several if I'm honest and always being out in a bar or club and yes it was always initiated by the guy and sealed by the guy.

As it's never been planned I wear what I'm wearing. Jeans and a top normally.

If your looking for it, don't try too hard be relaxed but confident. Offer a drink have some good chat. Not every woman will want this most in fact won't and all of them if you ask to front will say no. So don't take rejection badly.

 

[Blazexx]

First time wasn't planned. Just happened. Felt awkward because the guy loved me and I didn't feel the same way.

 

[StarGazer58]

Yes I have I'm another on the lines of it not being planned. Alcohol plays an important part.

I've had several if I'm honest and always being out in a bar or club and yes it was always initiated by the guy and sealed by the guy.

As it's never been planned I wear what I'm wearing. Jeans and a top normally.

If your looking for it, don't try too hard be relaxed but confident. Offer a drink have some good chat. Not every woman will want this most in fact won't and all of them if you ask to front will say no. So don't take rejection badly.

I was involved in a one nighter a month or so ago while traveling and just got me to thinking if women thought about it ahead of time or it was just in the moment. Have to wonder who seduced who. Lol. Seems to be overwhelming it just happens, so maybe i can learn to make it just happen more often. :-D