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What really excited me was the conversation. He told me about some threesomes he and his brother have had growing up. Long time fantasy of mine, something that Kevin will never do.
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I agree.
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So you asked to see his cock?
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Wonder if his brother is as big as he is...
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He said no.
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Isn't that the root of the problem? There's no doubt that you enjoy sex and there are still things you want to experience. Maybe those things aren't compatible with a semi-committed relationship.
There are often so many pressures on us to find ourselves steady boyfriends/girlfriends/wives/husbands*, never mind any fears we may have of being left out in the cold, but sometimes we need more freedom to be what we want to be and to do what we want to do. You're obviously having a great time with Kevin but is it restricting you too much?
*Even at the age of umpetty-ump my aged mother still keeps asking me "Are you and X (FWB) thinking about getting married yet?".
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I guess the question is, do you act on those desires (like a mmf) or push the aside? Do they fade away?
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I'm not sure if they ever fade away, if by that you mean disappear completely. They may lessen with time but you may always wonder what it would have been like if you'd tried it. Only you can say whether that wondering will be accompanied by regret.
It's difficult, knowing that Kevin is set against the idea of an MMF. I suppose the major reason why a man might not want to be in an MMF is that they might compare unfavourably with the other man - and presumably your interest in Guy's huge cock has some link with your wish for that MMF - or that they may even lose you.
You're not married to Kevin and you're not living with him. Beyond that, I'm not sure how much of a commitment you've really made with him so, in a sense, you may be completely free to do as you please, though the fact that you're worried about cheating on him suggests that you feel there is some kind of commitment.
You're going to make me feel even older than I am if I say this, but your teens and twenties are a time of trying new things out and experimenting. The question is: are you prepared to risk losing Kevin in the process?
But remember the butterfly effect of chaos theory. Whatever you decide to do can change your life.
Another way to look at it, I suppose is to ask how you would feel if Kevin came along to you and proposed an MFF, the other girl being someone he'd met and fancied with 40DD tits.
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Has anyone mentioned part of it is having a guy worth being bad for?
Just curious as I think its always assumed the guy is some sort of incredible lover and she's just not holding up her end.
In reality both men and women are as good as their inspiration and you get what you give so for guys who want bad girls they should start with being good boys.
Just curious as I think its always assumed the guy is some sort of incredible lover and she's just not holding up her end.
In reality both men and women are as good as their inspiration and you get what you give so for guys who want bad girls they should start with being good boys.
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There! Fixed it for you.
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A very sexy confession. Some times things happen in hindsight you can have mixed feelings afterwards,but can be a nice memory.
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Unfortunately, even a conversation between someone could be cheating and if they destroy the trust in your relationship, then it doesn't matter what you do. I justified having degrees in my first relationship, but in the end my looking elsewhere was just a symptom of my being in a sexually incompatible relationship. She was beyond Vanilla and I need variety and explorations, but most of all, I crave sensuality in and out of the bedroom.
Best of luck in your exploration of your sexuality. I would tell you to find out who you are while you are still young, but sexual exploration should never stop!
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Learn how to gie a good blow job. Talk! Practise makes perfect.
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Tips, Tricks etc
I am over 70 and came of age with Playboy but was in 40's before I got my confidence going. Average to slightly smaller in size. Learned early that that was not a limiting factor.
Current wife was 36C when we met, first was 34 -A probably. First was more sexual although both have many lovers before me.
First wife and I did mmf (a real trip) as she could cum multiple times. We also had open relationship. When thinks slowed down with me in my 60's current wife tried a lover but it did not work for her even though the offer is still open.
As far as jealousy is concerned you do feel that and excitement when she goes out but it is not controlling and I think the other way is worse. Kevin would be better off to play a part in a mmf then have you think about wanting to do it and maybe finding someone else to do it with. If hung man gets you, well it would have probably happened anyway.
As far as tricks, the school girl outfit works, light bondage works. We have played the "go to bar and let wife sit alone and dance with guy's things." What ever you can imagine and tell Kevin to get with the program. I am sure he thinks about all those things but maybe is afraid to talk about it. Communication is important.
Person above talked about good BJ's. I think most are good except that once I taught a girl how to do them but she had no imagination so it was almost like doing it to myself as she did it the same every time.
My current wife's lover try did not work because he just went too fast. I told her to give him a BJ to start to slow him down. In that case it did not work but usually I think we really remember women who give BJ's. 30 years ago I took a former woman friend across the country to help her relocate. She did not want sex but gave me a BJ each night and I still think about her generosity in doing that.
I am over 70 and came of age with Playboy but was in 40's before I got my confidence going. Average to slightly smaller in size. Learned early that that was not a limiting factor.
Current wife was 36C when we met, first was 34 -A probably. First was more sexual although both have many lovers before me.
First wife and I did mmf (a real trip) as she could cum multiple times. We also had open relationship. When thinks slowed down with me in my 60's current wife tried a lover but it did not work for her even though the offer is still open.
As far as jealousy is concerned you do feel that and excitement when she goes out but it is not controlling and I think the other way is worse. Kevin would be better off to play a part in a mmf then have you think about wanting to do it and maybe finding someone else to do it with. If hung man gets you, well it would have probably happened anyway.
As far as tricks, the school girl outfit works, light bondage works. We have played the "go to bar and let wife sit alone and dance with guy's things." What ever you can imagine and tell Kevin to get with the program. I am sure he thinks about all those things but maybe is afraid to talk about it. Communication is important.
Person above talked about good BJ's. I think most are good except that once I taught a girl how to do them but she had no imagination so it was almost like doing it to myself as she did it the same every time.
My current wife's lover try did not work because he just went too fast. I told her to give him a BJ to start to slow him down. In that case it did not work but usually I think we really remember women who give BJ's. 30 years ago I took a former woman friend across the country to help her relocate. She did not want sex but gave me a BJ each night and I still think about her generosity in doing that.
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comfortable in your own skin
That's what started this thread, This is the question Tiny had: How to get comfortable in her own skin, as I've read the post's and enjoyed the picture's, I've seen a lot of personal growth. She's less worried abought some impossible vision of how she "should" be and accepting her self for who she is. This is awesome and true enlightenment in that Only when you accept yourself will others accept you. I hope you enjoy the journey, and try new things, and Love yourself, for only then can others love you. I'm elated that you've made remarkable progress and seem less concerned on the letter sz of your breasts, aand more on you as a person. Your lovely from the insideout, and when you realize that , your going to hit full bloom. I put 2cents in the jar for you. Thanks.
Get comfortable in your own skin, and worry less about being a bad girl, or sexually exciting enough. Once I stopped giving a damn about what men wanted or found exciting, or what qualified as "good girl" vs "bad girl", things started clicking into place.
Hell, if a man asks me today if I'm a "bad girl", I tend to reply "of course not. I'm always good." If they don't understand the universe "always good" opens up (to their benefit)... They weren't worth exploring with in the first place.
That's what started this thread, This is the question Tiny had: How to get comfortable in her own skin, as I've read the post's and enjoyed the picture's, I've seen a lot of personal growth. She's less worried abought some impossible vision of how she "should" be and accepting her self for who she is. This is awesome and true enlightenment in that Only when you accept yourself will others accept you. I hope you enjoy the journey, and try new things, and Love yourself, for only then can others love you. I'm elated that you've made remarkable progress and seem less concerned on the letter sz of your breasts, aand more on you as a person. Your lovely from the insideout, and when you realize that , your going to hit full bloom. I put 2cents in the jar for you. Thanks.
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So my new dilemma is this:
There are things I want to experience sexually that won't happen with Kevin.
Talked about it with him, no go.
But I really really like (love?) being with him.
Do I:
(1) Forget the new experiences, stay with my man?
(2) Break up with Kevin and fulfill my fantasies?
(3) Have a secret weekend and don't tell him (yes... cheat)?
There are things I want to experience sexually that won't happen with Kevin.
Talked about it with him, no go.
But I really really like (love?) being with him.
Do I:
(1) Forget the new experiences, stay with my man?
(2) Break up with Kevin and fulfill my fantasies?
(3) Have a secret weekend and don't tell him (yes... cheat)?
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1) how much do you love him - people change over time and it may be that in a few years he will become more experimental, particularly if you gently lead him in that direction as your own sexual self-confidence increases
2) do you want to do that more than stay with him?
3) not unless you can live with it and I would hazard a guess you couldn't as not many could
- secrets are for the way out of a relationship
- open relationships are different
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Tiny, you are so young, I suggest give the relationship more time, #1 above.
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I agree with this, except I'd amend it to add don't forget the new experiences - continue talking with him and explore areas where he might be willing to push his boundaries.
You say it's a 'no go', but that's just right now. Keep communicating, and give him a chance to find the courage to step outside his comfort zone.
1) You need to weigh out if you can always be happy not experience these things for the rest of your life or not
2) you are still very young and if per one you figure you will not be happy until you try these things then you should break up with him and maybe he will be available once you have sown your wild oats! Remember you will need to keep it a secret for the rest of your life and think of how he will feel if he ever finds out.
3) in my opinion cheating is never the answer! I have been married for 32 years and have a few things I would like to try but my partner will have nothing to do with it but cheating has never been an option.
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I'm sure you'll get dozens of replies to this but, to be blunt, none of them will be right and none of them will be wrong. The true answer lies within yourself.
So, without telling you what you should or should not do, here are some thoughts.
We all have fantasies. For most of us, though, that's what they remain. I, too, fantasise about threesomes. I fantasise about making love to a girl in her late teens and twenties. And so on and so on... I doubt that any of them will ever come to fruition and, if they did, what would I be left with to fantasise about? Your sex life seems fairly active and varied - how important is it to have tried everything?
You might, of course, break up with Kevin and discover that, once you tried them, your fantasies were ok as a one off but not for life, so you'd have given up Kevin for what. On the other hand, you might just discover that regular threesomes are the way you want to live your life in future and you need a partner who will accept and enjoy that. Who can tell?
Cheating? Despite things that I've said elsewhere on here, cheating really isn't a good idea. If it ever comes out that you've cheated - and there's probably a 50% chance that it will at some stage - it will undermine if not destroy your relationship. Only be prepared to cheat if you really aren't worried about it bringing your relationship to an end and, on that basis, option (3) is simply a variation on (2).
You've got to decide how much you like/love(?) him and how much you want to be with him. Maybe it would be better not to make a decision now but let your relationship develop. Is there any rush? Maybe it will last and deepen and you'll be happy to put your fantasies to one side; maybe it won't, in which case you'll be free to explore further without guilt.
Of course, none of the above applies to your fantasy about fucking a much older European man. That is something you should definitely try out, regardless of the consequences, and I'll be waiting for your phone call to arrange it.
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