I miss HIM so much!

[Eldan01]

I miss my Dom so much...it's been over 7 years since we've seen each other. We still randomly email but it's not the same.

I feel for all out there who miss their long lost counterpart. The one who could always fulfill their deepest and most dark desires.

What took place will never been forgotten. No one can ever take that away. All we have is our memories.

Some days memories aren't enough, we don't want them to be enough, but we are forced to have them be enough.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Many people live their lives without ever finding this brief happiness you have had. Are they better off for never having known? Or is what you had then worth the loss you feel now...
I suppose it is different for everyone.
C/C

 

[QuantumJumping]

Oh brother

I miss my Dom so much...it's been over 7 years since we've seen each other. We still randomly email but it's not the same.

I feel for all out there who miss their long lost counterpart. The one who could always fulfill their deepest and most dark desires.

What took place will never been forgotten. No one can ever take that away. All we have is our memories.

Some days memories aren't enough, we don't want them to be enough, but we are forced to have them be enough.

He abandoned you 7 years ago and is flogging another cunt.
You have abandonment issues.
Psychologists are listed in the telephone directory..******* or book.
Get a life lady.

 

[thekeenreader]

Is there any need for responses like that? Really?

 

[celestialdragon]

That response was uncalled for, Quantum.

Sure, it's been 7 years since they were in a relationship. So what?

Maybe they split for different reasons other than "abandonment". We don't know, she did not provide that information. We don't know if he is "flogging another cunt", as you put so crudely. Again, we don't have that information. All we know is that they parted 7 years ago, and that they email occasionally. Therefore, we cannot make the judgement that he abandoned her and is with someone else.

Don't you remember your first love, or your first Dom/sub? Don't you still occasionally pine for that person?

We never forget the one person who makes/made us feel the same way that she did when she was with her Dom. Sometimes, we miss people from our past, even if it was 7 or more years ago. She found something, and for some reason, that had to be taken away. It's perfectly natural and normal to miss that.

Now, if this absolutely consumed her life, I would agree with you. But from what I'm reading, it's simply a person who is missing someone who brightened her life, and put it on a forum where she thought she would receive sympathetic replies, and maybe some advice that would help her reconnect, or maybe help with her feelings. That's what the forum is for. Someone else may misunderstand, and nasty things can happen.


Eldan, I am glad you found someone that made you feel that way, and yes, it truly is special. I agree, sometimes memories aren't enough, but it feels good when we think fondly on those times. I hope you have good luck in whatever you do.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I can understand the concept of missing people who were once an important part of ones life.
I do however think that BDSM Talk, the place for discussions of BDSM, is a somewhat strange place for that kind of reminiscing.

 

[Eldan01]

I apologize if this was not the best place to post it...I really wanted to share that folks for whoever misses someone like I do.

 

[Salenku]

Sometimes we just need some support, hon. I'm sorry the first response to your thread was so mean. Just because you can't be with someone doesn't mean you don't miss them, and although some times are tough, it does generally get easier to cope as time goes on.

When it's truly unbearable and you can't concentrate on or distract yourself with other things, just admitting the feeling can help, and posting it can be cathartic. Sometimes a few hours to accept any difficult emotion in whatever way you find easiest can be very helpful too, I find.

I sincerely hope you feel better soon. *huggles*