Confessions: What are yours?

[lil_jenni]

ICT that I have been a shitty friend to just about everyone (RL and online) for over a year. Things are better now, but I have no idea how to approach all the people whom I hurt.

ICT I have been voluntarily celibate for seven months. My goal was six, but when I reached that, I found that I have no drive anymore.
IACT I am sometimes afraid it might never come back. I like the new me, but I would like to think that the new me will like sex someday.

ICT I miss my ex horribly everyday, and have for the past fourteen months. He never did anything but love me and try to help me see I was worthy of that love.
IFCT I think I will always miss him.

 

[ElizaRichards]

ICT I am downright giddy that I talked a friend into joining the boards here.
IACT I was a bit nervous about him seeing my pic thread.
IFCT I was pleasantly surprised by his reaction to the thread.

 

[crazychemgirl]

ICT I wish my life was totally different

 

[Rogueslady]

ICT I wish I could be held in someones arms even for a little while.
IACT is that so much to ask for?

 

[BradBigBrain]

ICT when folks call be 3B it throws me for a loop for just a second...because I'm a huge baseball fan and 3B to me means a third baseman.
IACT I didn't play much 3B, I played SS or CF.
IFCT I don't have an outfield arm, but I got good jumps and I used to be fast.

 

[Rogueslady]

ICT when folks call be 3B it throws me for a loop for just a second...because I'm a huge baseball fan and 3B to me means a third baseman.
IACT I didn't play much 3B, I played SS or CF.
IFCT I don't have an outfield arm, but I got good jumps and I used to be fast.

ICT I used to be SS and RF.
IACT taking note no more 3B only BBB from now on from me at least.
IFCT I am sure you are good at all the bases!

 

[funluvinaj]

ICT that I have been a shitty friend to just about everyone (RL and online) for over a year. Things are better now, but I have no idea how to approach all the people whom I hurt.

ICT I have been voluntarily celibate for seven months. My goal was six, but when I reached that, I found that I have no drive anymore.
IACT I am sometimes afraid it might never come back. I like the new me, but I would like to think that the new me will like sex someday.

ICT I miss my ex horribly everyday, and have for the past fourteen months. He never did anything but love me and try to help me see I was worthy of that love.
IFCT I think I will always miss him.

ICT I'd like to hug you...

I think you write or call and say something similar... I've been where you are. Your true friends aren't there for just the good times. The people who come through the other side if this with you are the ones worth holding onto.

We can't undo the wrongs we've done... But we can move forward as better people.

Be kind to yourself.

 

[funluvinaj]

ICT I wish I could be held in someones arms even for a little while.
IACT is that so much to ask for?

No honey... It's not

*hugs you tight*

 

[funluvinaj]

ICT, although I'm very happy for AJ... scenarios like these, or variations thereof... Hell. When..? Shit. I don't get it. I can't remember, either... ...what the hell? Oh shit. I went off... maybe nobody noticed

Perhaps this is what I meant to say in response to AJ's post...

Actually... I fucking confess that people who love each other ought to be able to discuss ANYthing... Remember to do it compassionately, and with empathy (guiltfree, blameless... just talk... words, ideas...).

ICT funluvinaj's uncompromising opinions do make for good advice quite often.

ICT if you were bi (are you?!?!) I'd spend the weekend making you cum endlessly.

ICT when I realized I can have sex without a relationship and it didn't make md pathetic or a loser or a slut, I was free... The 2 guys I fuck use me as much as I use them and we respect that.

 

[Kat73]

ICT when I realized I can have sex without a relationship and it didn't make md pathetic or a loser or a slut, I was free... The 2 guys I fuck use me as much as I use them and we respect that.

ICT that is a really great place to be. I feel that way with cyber and phone sex.I know that almost all the guys I talk to are using me to get them off as I use them to get off. No strings, no expectations, no more feelings...

 

[Rogueslady]

No honey... It's not

*hugs you tight*

ICT I thank you for that. *goes into arms and returns hugs*

 

[funluvinaj]

ICT that is a really great place to be. I feel that way with cyber and phone sex.I know that almost all the guys I talk to are using me to get them off as I use them to get off. No strings, no expectations, no more feelings...[/QUOTE

Yep... I'm not much for cyber but definitely for phone sex... I have partners that it's fuck til we cum and have a great day and we hang up the phone... For me it's just so so much better than solo jilling. I have other partners where there's more to it...

ICT I thank you for that. *goes into arms and returns hugs*

Awwww honey. *strokes your hair*

 

[Rogueslady]

ICT that is a really great place to be. I feel that way with cyber and phone sex.I know that almost all the guys I talk to are using me to get them off as I use them to get off. No strings, no expectations, no more feelings...[/QUOTE

Yep... I'm not much for cyber but definitely for phone sex... I have partners that it's fuck til we cum and have a great day and we hang up the phone... For me it's just so so much better than solo jilling. I have other partners where there's more to it...



Awwww honey. *strokes your hair*

ICT I thank you for that AJ you are a good friend.

 

[pfflyerhot]

ICT I wish I could be held in someones arms even for a little while.
IACT is that so much to ask for?

I kind of confess this, as well...

 

[pfflyerhot]

ICT if you were bi (are you?!?!)

ICT I am not... yet...

ICT when I realized I can have sex without a relationship and it didn't make md pathetic or a loser or a slut, I was free... The 2 guys I fuck use me as much as I use them and we respect that.

*sigh*

 

[lil_jenni]

Thanks for the kind words, AJ. ICT I seem to have had the opposite life arc to yours. I always treated sex as casual and physical, even to the point of accepting what others would think about me and trying to take the word 'slut' and make it a positive (if that was what I was going to be seen as anyway). However, I met someone who made me want sex to not be casual, and I was with him a little over four years. I wish I still were. Sex just isn't the same, and not because I am afraid of what people might think of me. I just miss the "more."

 

[Lustful_Intentions]

ICT that is a really great place to be. I feel that way with cyber and phone sex.I know that almost all the guys I talk to are using me to get them off as I use them to get off. No strings, no expectations, no more feelings...

ICT in many ways, I think you've got the right idea.

 

[UCanBLeafinMe]

ICT I live my life the way I want to, as best as I can.

 

[funluvinaj]

Thanks for the kind words, AJ. ICT I seem to have had the opposite life arc to yours. I always treated sex as casual and physical, even to the point of accepting what others would think about me and trying to take the word 'slut' and make it a positive (if that was what I was going to be seen as anyway). However, I met someone who made me want sex to not be casual, and I was with him a little over four years. I wish I still were. Sex just isn't the same, and not because I am afraid of what people might think of me. I just miss the "more."

ICT a lot of it is our age difference... It seems women have a little more sexual freedom today than i did back in the 80's.

IFCT You SHOULD want the more and I imagine you'll find it again. I want it too, but I stupidly fell deeply in love with a married man and we were involved for 2.5 years. Until I can let him go (IF) I don't think I'm capable of more.

 

[funluvinaj]

ICT I am not... yet...

*sigh*

Well... Maybe you could be open to the idea.... And not put a label on it... Perhaps a blindfold to begin with. ICT my tongue, mouth, and fingers on your lady bits won't feel completely foreign.

More seriously... *Super tight hugs* I don't want to make light of your situation or how you are feeling.

 

[whynotjustsayit]

ICT I know wishing doesn't make things come true, but it sure would be easier if it did.

 

[omgitselaine]

ICT ....... that I'm a " wannabe " uummmmmmmmm slut

Oppsss did I just say that out loud ssshhhhhhhhh

 

[smtst5]

ICT ....... that I'm a " wannabe " uummmmmmmmm slut

Oppsss did I just say that out loud ssshhhhhhhhh

ICT that is awesome

 

[Inspirinious]

ICT ....... that I'm a " wannabe " uummmmmmmmm slut

Oppsss did I just say that out loud ssshhhhhhhhh

ICT I would love to help you with that request.

 

[smallgirl]

ICT I'm glad hubby can sleep in his own bed every night now.
ICT I will miss my alone time though.