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BurningMonkey

BurningMonkey

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I've been intrigued by the whole Daddy/daughter fetish for some time, and I would love to try it to see how it feels, but I have a dilemma:

Where/how in the world does an aspiring Daddy find a 'daughter' to play with? Especially since I've never moved in the BDSM/fetish circles and wouldn't know how to start?

I mean, it's not like they grow on every street corner...
 
What kind of 'Daddy'/'daughter' relationship do you want? You could always try writing a personal ad in the personals section. :)
 
BurningMonkey said:
Thanks. Did that. No responses.
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Do you mean this?

BurningMonkey said:
Any women in the Detroit area interested in an older man?

I'm 55, white, 6'0", heavy but working on it.
Also married, so if that's a deal beaker then move along...

On Yahoo and AIM for chat. Would love to meet up, maybe hook up?
PM me if interested.
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That really wouldn't give anyone an idea of what you're after - except perhaps a one-night stand. This is LITerotica, you've got to be eloquent to catch the ladies' eyes.
 
Hmmm. I see what you mean, GrrlFriday. Not very specific, is it?
I'll try that again, only better.
 
Have you considered talking to your wife to see if she's interested in D/s at all? I wouldn't mention the Daddy/daughter idea specifically, but perhaps she has a more submissive orientation and/or would be willing to give it a try.

Quite frankly, you're not going to have much luck as a married, older, overweight guy who is inexperienced and doesn't display much in the way of communication or charisma. Most of the ladies here, and in the kink-friendly community in general, have zero interest in being the other woman. And, no, that doesn't mean you should be an asshole and hide your marital status in any way.

Get your own life in order--whether that means reconnecting with your wife, negotiating a compromise with her, or divorce--before you even consider bringing someone else into it. You owe your wife and any other women you might be interested in down the road respect, honesty and communication. Once you've done that, start learning and networking in various areas of the kink-friendly community.

BTW, you may not view Daddy/little girl (or daughter) as BDSM, but most people do view it as a subset of the D/s community. And, who knows, you might actually find some other BDSM activities that you and/or your partner really enjoy! If nothing else, it's very wise to learn about common BDSM relationship practices, like negotiating, aftercare and safety.
 
Thank you, Erika.

I've mentioned D/s to the wife a few times over the years, and she has cast a very dull eye on the entire thing. And now she's not interested in sex of any kind, so it's pretty moot at this point.

As for reconnecting...well, I've tried everything I can think of, or have read of, to no avail. Frankly I'm at a loss, and I feel like I'm suffocating here. But I still love her very much and don't want to end what has been a very, very positive 20-yr relationship over this one issue.

So I guess I'm stuck. Sucks to be me. :(

As for your other advice, I will humbly take it all under advisement. What you say rings true, and thank you for your honesty.
 
You're welcome, and I'm glad you took it in the spirit intended.

It sounds like you love and respect your wife enough to be honest with her. Tell her what you see as positives in her and your marriage, yet that you're still a sexual person and you don't wish to be in a sexless relationship. Emphasize that you are coming to her directly, instead of getting your sexual needs met behind her back because you DO love and respect her so much. Ask her to see a good therapist with you so you two can figure out how to proceed in a loving way from this point on. Divorce isn't the only option; your wife may not have interest in sex at all, and may be fine with you getting your sexual needs met with someone else, especially if you two create some good groundrules. But that'd be a conversation to have after you've talked with a therapist, I think. If she won't go to therapy, go by yourself and extend an open invitation to your wife to join at any time, or find her own therapist.
 
big9000 said:
he has a very particular set of skills; skills he has acquired over a very long career... however, if you dont get in touch with him, im afraid neither i can help you (as much as i would).
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-claps hands-

Well said, man, well said.
 
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