A Question for the Ladies

[b00blover36]

I am considering a story in witch a mature woman is afforded the opportunity to instruct an eighteen year old guy on pleasing a woman in bed. So Ladies if you had a chance to give sexual advise to a young man what would it be?

 

[shylittlemiss]

Use your tongue

And use it a lot. Also if it feels wrong, don't stop.

 

[lovecraft68]

Posed this question to the wife who said she has no interest in teaching, if they don't at least know "the basics" she'd rather have a vibrator, it would whine less.

I'll add that 18 year old boys are not the 18 year old boys of 15 years ago never mind back when I was 18. Many of them don't work and many of them still aren't driving at 17/18

If I had a dollar for every time I saw a guy that age sitting in the car texting like a girl while his girlfriend pumps the gas I'd retire.

I doubt they could handle anything more than their hand in bed these days.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

When I was 18 older women were always up for youngsters, especially your girl's mom.

 

[PennLady]

Posed this question to the wife who said she has no interest in teaching, if they don't at least know "the basics" she'd rather have a vibrator, it would whine less.

But if no one teaches them, how will they learn? The best one could hope for, I guess, is that an older man with some experience would tell them?

I would advise use of hands and tongues, gently unless asked/instructed otherwise, and to slow down. It's not a race, and faster isn't necessarily better.

I'll add that 18 year old boys are not the 18 year old boys of 15 years ago never mind back when I was 18. Many of them don't work and many of them still aren't driving at 17/18

Would you like them to get off your lawn too?

If I had a dollar for every time I saw a guy that age sitting in the car texting like a girl while his girlfriend pumps the gas I'd retire.

I doubt they could handle anything more than their hand in bed these days.

I believe you mentioned the gas situation all of... once. And I guess I have different demographics or something, because I've never seen what you mentioned. And speaking as a woman, although it would be nice if I was with a guy and he offered to pump the gas, I'm perfectly capable of doing it myself.

 

[MSTarot]

But if no one teaches them, how will they learn?




Would you like them to get off your lawn too?


And speaking as a woman, although it would be nice if I was with a guy and he offered to pump the gas, I'm perfectly capable of doing it myself.

From reading the walls in the men's restroom. Whole instruction book for life is written there, you just have to learn to translate.



No, but they can get the mower out and start cutting it.



Gotcha, Pennlady can pump it herself but would like it if a guy offered to do it.


Well, as a guy I can't answer the OPs question from a ladies point of view so I asked the Gypsy. She said she would tell a young man to remember just because he has cum doesn't mean the sex is over.

MST

 

[30bandits]

And use it a lot. Also if it feels wrong, don't stop.

I specialize in this....are you ready?

 

[Swilly]

I'm a guy, but one thing that has worked for me is to tend to the woman first, and take your time. If you take care of a woman right, she will take care of you. Of course, there are times where both my wife and I just need the fast, hard fuck. There are times where I go first, but most often when we have time, I turn her inside out before I get my rocks off.

I wrote a story a while back that is mostly true if you'd like a few ideas:

http://www.literotica.com/s/home-delivery

 

[oggbashan]

I am considering a story in witch a mature woman ...?

If she is a witch, she should have no problem in casting a spell to make him do exactly what she wants, when and where she wants it.

If she is just a woman, she should TELL him what to do, when and where, and when to stop. The stop command would usually be far later than he expects.

 

[Seanathon]

But if no one teaches them, how will they learn?

By the time I was 18, and waiting to start my first year of college, I thought I was pretty well-educated when it came to sex. But I managed to get a part-time job helping a 27-year old divorced woman (at 18 years old, 27 seemed pretty mature) paint her house and she gave me a Masters class in sex that summer.

A big part of her lessons were proper use of the tongue, but I must have been a lousy student because she made me practice over and over and over.

I graduated years ago, but I hope that any mature woman today who finds themselves in a similar situation with an 18-year-old boy would, if asked, share their experience and tutor the kids brains out.

I know that for me, those lessons are still paying dividends today.

 

[texasace]

And use it a lot. Also if it feels wrong, don't stop.

Great advise... Thanks...

 

[PennLady]

Gotcha, Pennlady can pump it herself but would like it if a guy offered to do it.

Mr. Penn usually takes care of such tasks if we are together. But yes, I'm capable of handling things on my own.

Well, as a guy I can't answer the OPs question from a ladies point of view so I asked the Gypsy. She said she would tell a young man to remember just because he has cum doesn't mean the sex is over.

A sage answer from the no doubt wise Gypsy.

By the time I was 18, and waiting to start my first year of college, I thought I was pretty well-educated when it came to sex. But I managed to get a part-time job helping a 27-year old divorced woman (at 18 years old, 27 seemed pretty mature) paint her house and she gave me a Masters class in sex that summer.

Good for her.

 

[jehoram]

I am considering a story in witch a mature woman is afforded the opportunity to instruct an eighteen year old guy on pleasing a woman in bed. So Ladies if you had a chance to give sexual advise to a young man what would it be?

Athalia wrote a story about that some time ago. It was called "The Dorm Mother." And there are plenty of others on the same subject.

If I were a woman giving advice to a young man, or a young woman for that matter, it would be "Communicate, communicate, communicate! Use reliable birth control. Don't fixate on orgasms. Let the girl take the lead, because the tempo of the lovemaking matters more to her than it does to you."

I'd argue that the average eighteen-year-old isn't really much more sexually clued in than one of, say, twenty years ago. Yeah, they've seen lots of videos of people fucking, but how many of them are aware that these are just male fantasies, mostly? No dialogue, the girl orgasms every time, the guys last for fifteen minutes MINIMUM, etc. etc. They bear as much resemblance to real fucking as a Rambo movie does to real warfare. If anything, the kids nowadays have more to unlearn.

 

[subdued_passion]

I am considering a story in witch a mature woman is afforded the opportunity to instruct an eighteen year old guy on pleasing a woman in bed. So Ladies if you had a chance to give sexual advise to a young man what would it be?

You should be careful of witches, they can just as easily turn you into one of these


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=95kCv10duFw

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Actually, I learned from an older woman. She was only a year older.

We actually learned together. She was vocal, very vocal. Not so much as telling me what to do, but more or less letting me know what I was doing was feeling good. She would moan, groan, scream and bounce all over the backseat of the car, the bed, the couch, the floor or wherever we happened to be doing the deed.

Since then, I have had no complaints about how I use my tongue, fingers or other appendages.

I always make sure the lady is taken care of first. Always. Then when it's my turn, she it taken care of a second time.

 

[Dyslexicea]

Posed this question to the wife who said she has no interest in teaching, if they don't at least know "the basics" she'd rather have a vibrator, it would whine less.

I'll add that 18 year old boys are not the 18 year old boys of 15 years ago never mind back when I was 18. Many of them don't work and many of them still aren't driving at 17/18

If I had a dollar for every time I saw a guy that age sitting in the car texting like a girl while his girlfriend pumps the gas I'd retire.

I doubt they could handle anything more than their hand in bed these days.

I'm starting to think you must be older than James, you sound just like my Grandfather? In my opinion the worst generation ever was the sixties generation, they started out with so much promise and look at how fucked up they've made the world. Personally I'll take the kids any day over a bunch of 60 year old men.

 

[BurningMonkey]

Wish I had learned from an older woman I had to learn it all on my own.
Mind you, the journey was fun in itself, but still...

The one piece of advice that I would give a young man today is: Slow down.
Men are like snap-switches; we're either on or we're off, and it doesn't take much to flip the switch.
Women are more like dimmer switches; they take a slow build up to full brightness, and you can't rush it. (Not always, but most of the time...)

Let her take the lead on timing, and pay attention to what she does and says.
Just because you want to rush to the finish line--and can--doesn't mean she wants to--or can.

 

[JackLuis]

You should be careful of witches, they can just as easily turn you into one of these

Here is a better example, Same track but with the woman.

 

[Saxon_Hart]

Posed this question to the wife who said she has no interest in teaching, if they don't at least know "the basics" she'd rather have a vibrator, it would whine less.

I'll add that 18 year old boys are not the 18 year old boys of 15 years ago never mind back when I was 18. Many of them don't work and many of them still aren't driving at 17/18

If I had a dollar for every time I saw a guy that age sitting in the car texting like a girl while his girlfriend pumps the gas I'd retire.

I doubt they could handle anything more than their hand in bed these days.

Hell LC, look at the 18 year olds today compared to when we were 18, and yeah I am real close to you in age. When we were 18 you had a job and you were not living off of your mom and dad. Fucking kids in their 20's today living with mom and dad cause they have no drive.
Prime example of today's lazy youth. When I went to high school in a small town we had 3 full strings to our football team. OUr basketball team had a full bench plus a full JV bench and we had a wrestling team that had a guy in each weight class plus several extra.
Fast forward to today, this fall my old school had to send the five kids who went out for football 30 miles away to play on a coop team. The basket ball bench doubles as the JV team and when 2 kids that went out for wrestling got injured, they had no one to enter into the State qualifier regional.
In our day it was disgraceful to not participate in something. In our day it was disgraceful to still be in your parents house and jobless and it was definitely disgraceful for your girlfriend to pay for all of your activities. If you think we're fucked now, just wait until this current generation is running things. I for one hope to be worm shit by then.

 

[PennLady]

Hell LC, look at the 18 year olds today compared to when we were 18, and yeah I am real close to you in age. When we were 18 you had a job and you were not living off of your mom and dad. Fucking kids in their 20's today living with mom and dad cause they have no drive.

Many of them are living with their parents because in case you hadn't noticed, unemployment is up and it's difficult to get a job, let alone one that lets you pay rent on your own place, or pay off student loans. Which students take because college is getting (if it wasn't already) ridiculously expensive.

Prime example of today's lazy youth. When I went to high school in a small town we had 3 full strings to our football team. OUr basketball team had a full bench plus a full JV bench and we had a wrestling team that had a guy in each weight class plus several extra.
Fast forward to today, this fall my old school had to send the five kids who went out for football 30 miles away to play on a coop team. The basket ball bench doubles as the JV team and when 2 kids that went out for wrestling got injured, they had no one to enter into the State qualifier regional.

Or maybe it's that kids do other things and play other sports. And that people are realizing the long-term, debilitating effects of concussions in football and so they direct their kids elsewhere. Or that soccer is rising in popularity. I really don't see this as an "example of lazy youth." One anecdote does not an example make.

I could say that I see the opposite. My son plays baseball, spring and fall, and plays the upright bass in school. Especially in spring ball, there are hundreds of kids aged 5-18 that play on all the various teams. My daughter is only in kindergarten, so hasn't had too many opportunities yet, but she played t-ball and is going to take violin lessons. The high school kids I've met -- my daughter went to a preschool program at our local high school -- have plenty of activities on their roster, even if it isn't sports.

In our day it was disgraceful to not participate in something. In our day it was disgraceful to still be in your parents house and jobless and it was definitely disgraceful for your girlfriend to pay for all of your activities. If you think we're fucked now, just wait until this current generation is running things. I for one hope to be worm shit by then.

And it wasn't so long ago that it was the *norm* to live in your parents house until you married and then lived with your spouse, and there was very little living on your own to establish your independence. And it wasn't so long ago that multiple generations in one household was the norm. There are a whole lot of things that used to be the "norm" that aren't anymore, and a whole lot of things now that are normal that would have appalled the generation or two before that.

And if you're upset about this generation, then I suppose yours (which is also mine), or the one or two before, are to blame since they raised those kids. So bitch about those generations instead.

 

[Seanathon]

And if you're upset about this generation, then I suppose yours (which is also mine), or the one or two before, are to blame since they raised those kids. So bitch about those generations instead.

I guarantee you that in twenty years the current crop of twenty year olds will be bitching about their kids, and wondering why they aren't more like they were when they were twenty. Generation after generation complains about the same thing, and it goes so far back that the earliest cave paintings were probably drawn by cavemen complaining about how their kids only brought one mammoth back that morning; when they were young, they always brought back two.

 

[PennLady]

I guarantee you that in twenty years the current crop of twenty year olds will be bitching about their kids, and wondering why they aren't more like they were when they were twenty. Generation after generation complains about the same thing, and it goes so far back that the earliest cave paintings were probably drawn by cavemen complaining about how their kids only brought one mammoth back that morning; when they were young, they always brought back two.

LOL Two mammoths, through the snow, uphill both ways.

And you're quite right. I expect that as a form of rebellion at some point, a future generation will dress in swanky clothes and listen to crooners like Sinatra.

 

[Hypoxia]

"Oh woe, these be perilous times! Children no longer obey their elders, and everybody is writing a book!"
--Pliny the Elder, AD76

 

[Stella_Omega]

"Oh woe, these be perilous times! Children no longer obey their elders, and everybody is writing a book!"
--Pliny the Elder, AD76

Thank you! I could never remember this quote well enough to find its attributions.

 

[b00blover36]

For those that gave an answer to my question thank you, your input is greatly appreciated.

For those who highjacked this thread to bitch and moan, Get A Life