Help with uncircumcised boyfriend

[HisBooblicious]

Hi,
I'm new to this site. I am looking for advice. My boyfriend is uncircumcised. I haven't been with man like that. I want to please him with a blow job on Valentines day. How do I do it? Is there a special trick with the foreskin? Thank you for your advice.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

ask him
even better than a blow job, the sweetest thing you could give for valentines would be to talk openly about sex
...then give him the blow job of his life, babe.

 

[HisBooblicious]

ask him
even better than a blow job, the sweetest thing you could give for valentines would be to talk openly about sex
...then give him the blow job of his life, babe.

I really want this to be a surprise and we've had some difficult times lately. So I hope to get some good tips. And yes, the blow job of his life is coming.

 

[NightL]

Hi,
I'm new to this site. I am looking for advice. My boyfriend is uncircumcised. I haven't been with man like that. I want to please him with a blow job on Valentines day. How do I do it? Is there a special trick with the foreskin? Thank you for your advice.

I'm sure the very best you have offered to circumcised penises and men like that, will work just fine on normal penises and men like that.

 

[Cumference]

I can second NightL

Coming from a part of the world, where only jews and moslems perform that type of ritual genital mutilation on un-consenting children, and being intact myself, I can promise you, that there will be no technical problems.

The great news is, that he has a piece of skin the size of a dollar bill packed full of nerve endings, just waiting to be stimulated.
And apart from giving lots of pleasure, it is keeping the head of his penis protected from abrasion and drying out. He will be able to feel the slightest touch on the head.


As for the technical part, once he is erect, and you have kissed/licked/fingered enough to be just teasing, you grip the shaft and push towards his body. And presto! The skin will slide back to reveal the head!
Pull it all the way back, and the penis will look just like your (ab)normal cut-down version.

The feeling of the foreskin sliding over the head is great too.
It enables pleasant un-lubed masturbation.

John Harvey Kellogg convinced the Americans that circumcision was good, because he wanted to prevent masturbation.


In short: You have (penis-wise) no problems.
Enjoy it.

 

[Cumference]

To quote old John:

"A remedy [for masturbation] which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision...The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind...In females, the author has found the application of pure carbolic acid to the clitoris an excellent means of allaying the abnormal excitement. " -- Dr. John Harvey Kellogg

But lay all that history aside, and enjoy him!

 

[silverwhisper]

HB, as the owner of an uncut cock, it really doesn't make a difference based on what i have been told by my sexual partners. there's really not much difference on your end of it and any that might exist will be trumped by personal preferences anyway.

so long as there's enthusiasm, it's a good BJ.

having said that: for some guys, a special sexual treat can be interpreted as "all is well in the relationship". just be sure you are ready for that possible result.

ed

 

[TeaforMe]

The one uncircumcised man I gave a blow job to seemed to be extra sensitive at the head, so I had to be more careful about the suction and pressure. I don't know if that pertains to every uncircumcised man, but in this particular case it did.

 

[human_male]

Like the others said, not much difference. Two things you should watch out for is the head will be more sensitive. Your lips and tongue won't hurt but your hand will if you rub it (with the foreskin retracted). Also the foreskin might be quite tight so don't just force it down, be gentle when pushing it down. That's about it.

One thing you could do is slip your tongue under it and circle the head with it. That ought to work.

 

[COCK_STAR]

Don't eat the cheese

 

[Cathleen]

To quote old John:


Quote:
"A remedy [for masturbation] which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision...The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind...In females, the author has found the application of pure carbolic acid to the clitoris an excellent means of allaying the abnormal excitement. " -- Dr. John Harvey Kellogg



But lay all that history aside, and enjoy him!

That is just awful. I never understood why an anesthetic wasn't used -- cruel.

Have fun HB, Happy Valentine's Day to you and your bf.

 

[joelafayette]

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[suckonsimon]

Just another intact Brit reporting that that special sensitivity of a head normally protected with foreskin means the attentions of a woman's moist mouth is supreme.

Please, Americans, leave your baby boys!

 

[stickygirl]

That is just awful. I never understood why an anesthetic wasn't used -- cruel.

Because it's done out of love -> look...
http://www.noharmm.org/images/cstraint.gif
http://www.noharmm.org/images/circbaby.gif
It's God's way
Scary part: how to brainwash entire generations into mutilating babies and call it Love. If it was in a Sci-Fi movie you wouldn't believe it

 

[Cumference]

Because it's done out of love ...

I'm glad to live in a place where that kind of "love" is not standard!

The crazy thing is, that in my country animal welfare legislation prohibits cutting tails and ears of dogs, but it is ok to mutilate baby boys for no other reason than tradition and religion.

 

[Cumference]

....... And I had a very pleasant V.D. With Lady C.
(Just had to use that abbreviation )

 

[GiggLeGasm]

As more research is published, it is become less of a standard in the US. Currently, less than 60% of boys undergo hospital circumcision and the number is on a steady decline over the past decade. The most common reason for routine circumcision is still religion.

It's a tough one.. you don't just need to sell the new parents. You need to tell the grandparents who had been taught differently.

 

[lovecraft68]

Funny, no comments about the sections of the world that did(and some still do) circumcise women so they cannot enjoy sex.

That's even worse because at least in the case of men there are some medical reasons to back it up.

for women its just a sign of disgusting culture of woman abusers and haters.

The thing is they don't have to bother because rape is not enjoyable with or without a clit and that's all those animals do anyway.

But, lets just talk about the penis, its obviously what makes the lit world go round.

 

[boutrosboutros]

The thing is they don't have to bother because rape is not enjoyable with or without a clit and that's all those animals do anyway.

Did I click through to the General Board by mistake....?

 

[stickygirl]

Funny, no comments about the sections of the world that did(and some still do) circumcise women so they cannot enjoy sex.

That's even worse because at least in the case of men there are some medical reasons to back it up.

for women its just a sign of disgusting culture of woman abusers and haters.

The thing is they don't have to bother because rape is not enjoyable with or without a clit and that's all those animals do anyway.

But, lets just talk about the penis, its obviously what makes the lit world go round.

I'm totally with you LC and the mutilation is still going on in immigrants populations in the UK.
You can sign a petition here, as I have
http://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/uk-government-enforce-the-uk-law-which-forbids-fgm-female-genital-so-called-cutting
or here
http://www.endfgm.eu/en/petition/
There are no proven medical befits to male circumcision - only myth. If new parents are too worried about embarrassing their grandparents by saying no, then they still have some catching up to do.
The thread is decidedly about male circumcision and blow-jobs in fact!

Also the excess skin is allegedly fried and made into a tasty snack hulahoops
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/5/56/Hula_Hoops_Snack_Original.jpg

 

[stickygirl]

My mothers cousin was circumcised as an infant, sent home and he bled to death

 

[MrFoxwood]

My favourite reason given is: it's easier to keep clean. Which explains why its proponents all have false teeth and no body hair.

 

[CottonForMe]

Information - Uncircumcised

http://www.cirp.org/

 

[h0tc0uple_13]

i wish i saw this thread months ago! my bf too is uncircumcised and at first i had no idea since the foreskin was always pushed back but now i ask him to leave it down

i'm always asking him what he wants more of, less of, etc. it's best to be open than continue wondering what he will enjoy. it'll make the BJ of his life even better! i like to put my tongue underneath the foreskin very slowly and gently. but honestly, it's like any other BJ you've given.

I'm curious to know how it went! sorry this is so delayed.

 

[desertslave]

Master is intact and I've learned quite a lot about giving a quality blowjob thanks to his very willing and enthusiastic feedback. I do NOT think that it's 'just the same' as giving a BJ to a cut guy. There are more nerve endings in new places and more fun things to do with/to an uncut penis as a result.

My (our?) very favorite thing is to start with him totally soft (though that doesn't last very long LOL). Lick all around with the tip of the tongue then lap him with the flat. As he begins to fill out take him fully into your mouth and apply the lightest of suction...squeeze him up towards the roof of your mouth with your tongue and then gradually apply pressure from the tip to the back of your tongue, like a slooow massage. Slide your tongue up to the head, which might be starting to peek out about now. Run your tongue around the ring of foreskin where it meets the head, and give a few flicks to the slit. Lick the outside of the head with a firm tongue-tip (that always earns me shivers), then return to the separation and "help" it slide away from the head. Either with suction or with your fingers, help smooth down the extra skin oh-so-slowly until he's fully exposed. If he's not fully hard yet, you can play with that slack skin, not quite re-covering the head but slipping it up and down. That extra bit of skin has so much potential for so much sensation.