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[MILFSauce]

I much prefer to lie back with him between my legs.

 

[Aphro]

Personally, I don't enjoy it as much as getting licked/eaten while either lying on my back or front, or in a side by side 69. Even if he asks me to do it, for some reason it always feels like I am "forcing" myself on him, and I don't like that feeling. If he wants to eat it willingly, then that's great, but the force feeding aspect of facesitting sort of makes me cringe. Unless of course, he grabs me by the hips and pulls me down onto him...

 

[MTBR]

From a guy's point of view, here, but I've found that women really enjoy it.

It's a really intimate position and when you get the thighs and knees squeezing around your head as you slide your tongue in again and again and bring them closer and closer to orgasm; that's an unbeatable one. Second only to legs around my waist/back during sex itself.

I quite like the 'false sense of control' element to it. I'm sure every woman I've done it to has had the "ahh, I'm on top, I'm in control of how I work this". You can't get off with my arms locked around your thighs, you move when I want you to move, when I give you the freedom to move. Though, it is super passionate, peerlessly intimate and again, that feeling of a woman writhing around on top of your face, wet pussy grinding on your nose, chin and lips, looking up and seeing her clasping her breasts and rearing her head back... That's perfect. Utterly so.

 

[Carnevil9]

The closest I've come to this is in a 69, where I (the guy) am laying on my back and she is kneeling on either side of my head. That works plenty fine!

But having her actually SIT and put her weight on your face? I can't imagine that would result in anything but asphyxiation!

 

[MTBR]

The closest I've come to this is in a 69, where I (the guy) am laying on my back and she is kneeling on either side of my head. That works plenty fine!

But having her actually SIT and put her weight on your face? I can't imagine that would result in anything but asphyxiation!

As a side note, can you imagine a better way to go?

 

[HonkOnBobo]

Personally, I don't enjoy it as much as getting licked/eaten while either lying on my back or front, or in a side by side 69. Even if he asks me to do it, for some reason it always feels like I am "forcing" myself on him, and I don't like that feeling. If he wants to eat it willingly, then that's great, but the force feeding aspect of facesitting sort of makes me cringe. Unless of course, he grabs me by the hips and pulls me down onto him...

hmm would you consider a 69 to be forcing your pussy on a man' (or womens) face if so force away

 

[Leigh81]

When I'm really horny I love to take off my panties and lightly grind on my hubby's face. Gets me really wet!!!
But like most other gals, I prefer to have him lick me in other positions.
Not really into forced face sitting where the guy is getting smothered and the woman is wearing panties

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[Erochic]

I love it!
I really prefer it to lying back.... It's a huge difference in stimulation for me.
Lying on my back I might be moaning , but sitting on his face I'm screaming in seconds.

 

[smallgirl]

Is it fun? Did you want to do it? Or did he want it? Does it ever work for you in terms of getting the big O?

I've had this happen a couple of times in my life, long ago, and it's kind of amazing from the man's point of view.....But it's also sometimes a challenge to "make it work," if you know what I mean.

Any experiences from men and women both are welcomed. I'm actually trying to write a story now that has this as part of a long weekend of lovemaking, and I realized that reaching beyond my own few experiences might be useful.

Thanks in advance.

Its ok. Its not the most comfortable position unless you have a headboard to hold on to. I'd much rather be on my back.

 

[jakereeder22]

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[mrtomthumb]

it is one of those things that seem so hot then when doing it it can be a little work. I have really enjoyed cumming this way wjth her ass on my face.I think it is as other women say she prefers to lie back and get eaten. I think it would be fun for a woman who really got off on it to just ride my face and orgasm.

ride em cowgirl!!!!

 

[DirtySecrets11]

From past experiences

I enjoy it a lot personally. I love the freedom to move however I like, it makes me feel extremely sexy. It starts off usually with it being fun and naughty as I sit on his face, his hands roaming my ass and body as I grind slowly into his mouth. I love looking down at him as he looks up.
It's only when I'm close to cumming do I really appreciate the position. I start to lose it, grinding and fucking myself on his tongue at my own pace. And then I realize I didn't have any control at all as he pulls his tongue out quickly, he grips my thighs hard, and sucks hard on my clit which usually always does the trick.

 

[JoyfulRebellion]

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[Corbal]

It's like sitting anywhere else, but it has a nose that you wish would grow.

 

[Jackotheshadows]

It's like sitting anywhere else, but it has a nose that you wish would grow.

Or a tongue?

 

[mrtomthumb]

It's like sitting anywhere else, but it has a nose that you wish would grow.

just call me a liar and we will hope for the best. maybe jiminy cricket cold whistle a little tune somewhere special.

dirty disney reference is worth extra credit.

 

[Domesticity]

I like it as foreplay but I like to either be on my knees so I can choose how much weight to out on his face and just lightly grinding down or I like to sit on his chest so my pussy is right in front of his mouth and he can stick out his tongue and grab my ass and pull me closer if he wants so suck on me. I can lean back and stroke his cock this way and he can reach up and pinch my nipples.

But, truth be told, my favorite position to get eaten in is laying on my back or sitting up while he's kneeling or sitting on the floor in front of me.

 

[UhlBWett]

Very Interesting

I like it as foreplay but I like to either be on my knees so I can choose how much weight to out on his face and just lightly grinding down or I like to sit on his chest so my pussy is right in front of his mouth and he can stick out his tongue and grab my ass and pull me closer if he wants so suck on me. I can lean back and stroke his cock this way and he can reach up and pinch my nipples.

But, truth be told, my favorite position to get eaten in is laying on my back or sitting up while he's kneeling or sitting on the floor in front of me.

Give me a couple hours sweet girl and I bet I could change your mind.

 

[Seven_eves]

Tounge yeah, nose yeah, but kinda fun to have a cucumber in your mouth for her.

 

[WishItsTrue_TG]

DirtySecretes11:
"I enjoy it a lot personally. I love the freedom to move however I like, it makes me feel extremely sexy. It starts off usually with it being fun and naughty as I sit on his face, his hands roaming my ass and body as I grind slowly into his mouth. I love looking down at him as he looks up.
It's only when I'm close to cumming do I really appreciate the position. I start to lose it, grinding and fucking myself on his tongue at my own pace. And then I realize I didn't have any control at all as he pulls his tongue out quickly, he grips my thighs hard, and sucks hard on my clit which usually always does the trick."

Guy here. DirtySecretes11 hit on something I really enjoy. It's the best way to maintain eye to eye contact. I think it's the best way to have eye to eye.

It's awkward to get into position, but I've had times when the girl is shoveling along on her knees while she approached on the bed while we keep eye contact the whole time. Drawing it out to make it dramatic and increase the anticipation. That look and smile as both her and I anticipate what's coming. If it's a previous partner, there an anticipatory satisfaction that's glinting in her eyes because she knows what's about to happen once she settles down.

And that satisfied expression that she gets as she starts to experience the tongue doing it's gentle work. All the action devoted to getting her to tingle.

I might do a flip-flop, and say the look of anticipation of the approach and settling down is the best part, if it's drawn out slow and dramatic. That approach is a game of eyes and emotions and smiles, and knowing looks. That's drama. Yep, the approach is my favorite, because of the eyes and smiles and knowling looks that start the game off.

And re: "I love the freedom to move however I like," all the women I've known who enjoy it say they have the most control over what they experience.

And active! A woman's climax sitting on a face, compared to something like a Missionary, is like comparing a lawn sprinkler to a volcano. But if you want an active climax, the woman standing and the guy kneeling, will give the most explosive action. If someone took a ruler and measured how much a woman's hips moved back and forth while climaxing, standing wins the contest by a long jump. A woman can bounce back and forth so much, it could knock my teeth out. In fact, that's such a real danger, I have to expended attention and effort to it to avoid anything untoward happening. That's a bad thing about that position. But otherwise, people who screw brag about a climax that's like riding a bucking bronco. The people who use lips with the woman standing experience it. I'd recommend it as aerobic exercise.

The only criticism I have of it is that it helps if the woman pulls the guys head up with her hands. The position is a neck killer, and if you want things drawn out for a while - and who doesn't - pitch in to keep the action going. You can also manipulate the guys head - and attention - to the best place, and well as influence the rhythm. If the woman doesn't, next time around, I think, "Oh, god! This is going to kill my neck."

As a parting comment, I'd like to wish that all you ladies have the time of your lives.

 

[Asian_Flower]

I enjoy it at times but as others have said I much prefer being on my back. I find I can relax a lot more and just let him do whatever he wants down there. I also love that he has such an erotic visual of me in such an intimate position.

 

[Tide_Couple]

We've only done this like twice and I'm not sure how I feel about it. I have to be laying down to cum from oral, so for me, it's only benefit would be the kink factor. In theory it's hot, and the thought of forcing him to lick me is good and all, but I'd much rather be laying on my back with him between my legs, and his finger in my pussy....and maybe a pinky in my ass. Much more enjoyable.

 

[rm1969]

Queening stool or chair makes it so awesome

 

[WishItsTrue_TG]

I enjoy it at times but as others have said I much prefer being on my back. I find I can relax a lot more and just let him do whatever he wants down there. I also love that he has such an erotic visual of me in such an intimate position.

I think Asian Flower is correct. Most women favor it and it easy to see why. It's a comfort position requiring no work on their part, and they're able to direct their complete attention to what they're experiencing, without distraction. In terms of her sensual enjoyment, it could be the best position.

For women who enjoy sitting on the guys face, I think a second factor comes into play in addition to sensual enjoyment. Women might enjoy the control they exercise as it happens. All the women I know who enjoy it say they prefer it because of the sense of control they experience. They are in complete control of the script, and they guy is stuck where they stick him.

For standing, I'm guessing and have no real way of knowing with certainty. I think a third factor comes into play. She gets the sensual satisfaction of the 1st. position, and the control of the 2nd. position, and, I'm guessing, a sense of power and superiority. She is standing and he is in an inferior position. And she has some control over what he does. Moreover she can instantly terminate with a shift in her balance, so she is the gatekeeper of what she permits the guy to do.

I imagine a woman who wanted sensual pleasure and the ability to concentrate solely upon her enjoyment might prefer lying. (I'm not being absolute in this. My guess is we're dealing with a normal distribution.)
I think women who are also interested in a feeling of control, in addition to sensual pleasure might prefer sitting on the guys face.

And a woman who wants sensual pleasure, plus a sense of control, and who also wants a sense of superiority and dominance would want standing. As I write this, I have my own doubts if it's correct. I've had a lot, if not most, women act tenderly and affectionately during it. Maybe a women would be better explaining this than me.

For the guys, lying is a neck killer. Either you're craning your neck back at an uncomfortable angle, or lifted up and tilting your head down, which will become fatiguing for long sessions. It's a relatively creative position, allowing working the sides, middle and top. If it's a long session, creativity diminish proportionally to the time. As you poop out, you concentrate more and more on just lasting, rather than adding flourishes. (Of course, flourishes offers a change in position.) Summing, I say it was a neck killer with 70%(?) creativity. The guys horizontal position imposes some constraints.

If you're going for a short session, or several things mixed together, it's fine. For a long session just focused on one thing, the oral, it has built in time limits.

Sitting is the most boring for guys, unless the women follow cues from the guys hands. He has to follow her script without improvising on his own. That's boring. If it's spiced up with affection with eyes and caresses, that's a good diversion. Creativity is down to how much room the guy has to move, and what the woman does with his head. If he vicariously enjoys her enjoyment or she puts on an entertaining show as she climaxes, that relieves the boredom

For standing, that's the easiest on the guys neck and the most creative. His neck is in a natural position and he can work the sides, bottom and top. Writing the script, he can see how she reacts. Her climax can be the most dramatic and entertaining of all positions. I don't know how to explain affectionate behavior without blowing my argument about dominance out of the water. I can't explain it, but I can appreciate.

I think women select the position which provides one of three feeling which is most important to her.

As for time, if the point is proving the longest period possible for oral, standing would be best. It's easiest on the neck and only limited by his knees. Get a pillow, and you can have a long run. If the point is a mixed bag, pick and choose as long as you want to keep going. You can run marathons with a mixed bag only limited by hunger.

For guys, standing is easiest and most creative, if the guy's ego isn't bothered by the position. And the woman can short circuit a hurt ego by acting affectionately. I stick sitting in a chair between the first and second position. A lot depends upon the height of the chair.