Names you call your "Sub"

[LearnerDom]

Just wondered what names Doms have for their subs
For a sub I suppose its easy to say "Sir" or "Master"

but the Dom seems to usually go for "Slut"
which personally I don't like
Its ok in certain situations in play but not for all
Sub is ok but still lacking I feel

Any suggestions?

 

[CutieMouse]

Their name?

One of my lovers always called me "sugar"; the other tended to call me "precious". Nothing formal or intentional or anything, just pet names they associated with me.

 

[MeekMe]

Use a favored nick name. You could use anything you want and feel comfortable with. Mister still refers to me by the name he's always used. Nothing changed in that area.

 

[yandere]

i don't like slut either, haha! i personally think cute or sweet pet names are best. princess, darling, baby, little girl, etc.

 

[ecstaticsub]

He calls me "Josie". It is not my legal name. It is the name he chose for me when I became his property.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

He calls me daisy. I have had it added to my legal name as a middle name. He will never call me by my given name.

 

[Verycurious18]

I haven't ha the privilege of having a dom or dom daddy in real life, Babur I have had a few online.

Often I was called babygirl or sweetie or asked to choose a name. One of then though decided to go with princess and at first it was odd to me but then I found myself doing the naughtiest things and saying the naughtiest things for him. I would even beg to hear him call me his slut and he did, after he was satisfied he would call me a princess and treat me like one.

To bad he got to busy, I would love to find a new one to really help me dive into the world of dom/sub, I was bored to take orders I just need to be tamed first.

Sorry for the rambles, my point is I like both one for when things get heated and one for more normal basis I guess.

 

[Kim_Burly]

I don't have anything terribly original for my sub, like me, she craves humiliation. I like to berate her while making her grovel, lick my feet and such. I like making her speak about herself in the third person, i.e. Your cunt, is a worthless...... Mistress and is not worthy to.... ". I love that too when Sir does it to me.

 

[Cone_ten]

Male switch here.

During my time as a sub my Mistress primarily called me pet. She added cum muffin as a term of affection later.

For my own subs/bottoms I have primarily used a nickname or form of their name that only I used. Usually a diminutive or otherwise "cutesie" form.

 

[Ahlam]

I once had a Dom who would only refer to me as "Winnie Cooper." Although I thought it was unusual, I didn't mention it because I didn't want to find out what alternatives he'd come up with!

"Slut" is a popular one. In the few instances where a man has called me "slut," it angered me and I fantasized about punching him in the nuts later. But if a woman says it, I don't mind. It doesn't make much sense.

 

[Prof Bill]

For me, one of the true joys of BDSM and D/s relationships is the total freedom they give for emotional invention and spontaneity. It's just my opinion, but it strikes me that worrying about what to call a sub (or a Dom, for that matter) ahead of time takes a great deal of the fun out of it. I've started my relationships by using their names. That would progress naturally to names of affection and, from there, to names that might more directly relate to what we were experiencing at the time. I believe in careful planning for activities--I feel that if you don't plan them carefully you can end up doing harm--but always want to leave some room for flexibility.

 

[reaktor]

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[seela]

He usually calls me by my name or one of my neutral, everyday nicknames. Sometimes he accidentally calls me by the cat's name and vice versa.

Lately "baby bear" has been used. He was being pestered by a telemarketer and eventually I answered his phone by saying with a horrible falsetto "baby bear in papa bear's phone, he's not interested in buying in any magazines".

The telemarketer started to laugh and hasn't called back since, so it worked.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

For me, one of the true joys of BDSM and D/s relationships is the total freedom they give for emotional invention and spontaneity. It's just my opinion, but it strikes me that worrying about what to call a sub (or a Dom, for that matter) ahead of time takes a great deal of the fun out of it. I've started my relationships by using their names. That would progress naturally to names of affection and, from there, to names that might more directly relate to what we were experiencing at the time. I believe in careful planning for activities--I feel that if you don't plan them carefully you can end up doing harm--but always want to leave some room for flexibility.

Well put.

I endorse throwing out the idea of doing it right and reaching down into your toes and pulling out something weird that captures their particular subgeist.

 

[BIsound]

here is my 5 cents on the matter, the reason the subs usually call the dom/dometrix Master/mistress or something along those line is to show respect to someone abow them, someone they serve, however a Dom stands free to call he sub whatever she wants, becuse they own their sub and jsut like you can name your dog whatever you want, you can also name your sub whatever you want and just like a dog the sub will answer to what his mistress calls him, like the good boy he is.

Sorry, my fantasy ran wild again

Anyway, my point is Subs has to refere to their dom with respect, Doms can call their subs whatever they want