Preference for sluts

[policywank]

Some men explicitly prefer sluts. I have heard various reasons but I am curious if any men here feel that way and if so why?

When I say slut I mean someone like me who has sex with multiple partners. That doesn't imply being stupid and careless and spreading my legs for anyone who asks. I am liberated, in control of my own body and conscious of my own safety and well being. I just happen to like having multiple lovers.

 

[CBM514]

Some men explicitly prefer sluts. I have heard various reasons but I am curious if any men here feel that way and if so why?

When I say slut I mean someone like me who has sex with multiple partners. That doesn't imply being stupid and careless and spreading my legs for anyone who asks. I am liberated, in control of my own body and conscious of my own safety and well being. I just happen to like having multiple lovers.

I tend to prefer monogomy in a committee relationship but I wouldn't judge someone for how they acted previous to me...if it's a casual relationship I guess I have no reason to expect that level of fidelity, but it wouldn't do anything for me to know she was otherwise "slutty" without my knowledge/ involvement...

 

[BongoGal]

For what it's worth, I've had a few guys tell me that they found me refreshing in the sense that I didn't seem as hung up about sex as the other women they've been with.

 

[Ezpickins]

There's folks out there who feel that they're not gonna so much as show their junk to someone who hasn't signed their lifelong love contract promising to never recognize the mere existence anyone elses junk forever, sounds like an insecurity thing to me but whatever.
I'm not so sure we're wired to be completely monogamous forever. If that were the case, once we found a mate we wouldn't be driven to explore the idea of sex with other mates through fantasy.

i dunno ramble ramble ramble....

 

[CBM514]

I should amend or expand my first response...I do apprecitate a partner who can bring new experiences with them regardless of where it comes from...

 

[BongoGal]

I've never thought of myself as a slut, but I know that others might have seen me that way. There have a been a few occasions in which I've been aware (or at least suspicious) that guys have 'hit on me' because of my reputation as someone slutty. I can't say that I blame them for trying, but it was always a complete turn-off for me. I've always been more likely to go for a guy who didn't think he had a chance.

 

[anchortown_m]

I love your attitude. I think we would be better off if more people had an approach like yours. Very nuanced topic and I'm late for work, so more later...

 

[Prince Albert]

Some men explicitly prefer sluts. I have heard various reasons but I am curious if any men here feel that way and if so why?

When I say slut I mean someone like me who has sex with multiple partners. That doesn't imply being stupid and careless and spreading my legs for anyone who asks. I am liberated, in control of my own body and conscious of my own safety and well being. I just happen to like having multiple lovers.

Reading your profile, I'm not sure "slut" is appropriate, rather "sexually adventuresome" might fit better. I realize some may call that "slutty", but you seem in "control". Just my opinion!!

 

[suckonsimon]

Two attractions for me, as a married man and experienced lover:

The appeal of a one night stand with a stranger who expects great things of the man she has hooked up with for some extreme pleasure, no strings attached.

The appeal of linking up with a good mate to go MMF with this available and willing woman.

I say, 'attraction': it's very real, but I know I am not going to run with it, out of love and commitment to my woman. In the case of the first I have had plenty of opportunity. In the case of the second, well it's just a bucket list thing!

ps I'm ok with the term 'slut' so long as we're talking men as well as women; there is most certainly a dormant slut in me and he is 100% male.

Simon

 

[MILFSauce]

I'm sexually "liberated", too. I've had more partners than I can easily count, and I suspect I have stronger urges and more desire for sex than most men. I love to fuck and I love to suck cock.

But I hate the word "slut". You can twist the meaning of it any way you care to, I don't like it. It indicates a disrespect for women and it puts me off completely.

 

[Verycurious18]

In my opinion a slut is someone who doesn't care and doesn't have control. I have a friend who is a slut. She doesn't use protection, is easily pursuaded and will do it anywhere with anyone if she knows their name.

 

[Porkwarrior]

I'm sexually "liberated", too. I've had more partners than I can easily count, and I suspect I have stronger urges and more desire for sex than most men. I love to fuck and I love to suck cock.

But I hate the word "slut". You can twist the meaning of it any way you care to, I don't like it. It indicates a disrespect for women and it puts me off completely.

I've noticed that in general women have as many taboo words as they do taboo fantasies. "Slut" & "whore" are up there with "cunt" as potentials to bring the mood to a complete & screeching halt.

The same woman that can get a rush dragging her nipples over my naked torso, looking me in the eye, and teasing with a "tell me how much you want me to suck your cock" can get completely turned off if I return the favour later with a "tell me how much my slut needs me to lick her cunt"...the same woman that loves her hair being pulled while I call her a whore will bite my nipple if I call her a slut...

One of those things that are completely dependent on the individual woman yet almost universal. You just have to learn your partner.

And gals, most of us Litster males mean "whore" & "slut" as terms of erotic endearment, forgive us for our trespasses if we occasionally slip.

 

[twister947]

^^^Most of them are perfectly okay with calling a man a prick, however.

 

[bill3901]

my wife loves being called a slut

 

[Porkwarrior]

my wife loves being called a slut

Call her a whore next time...y'know as just an anthropological experiment.

 

[slutgirl1]

In my opinion a slut is someone who doesn't care and doesn't have control. I have a friend who is a slut. She doesn't use protection, is easily pursuaded and will do it anywhere with anyone if she knows their name.

I'll admit to being this person not all that long ago and, thankfully, came out of it disease and pregnancy free, but I still like the word. Obviously.

To me it means being willing to do anything your partner wants either to or for him (her).

I'm in a relationship now, so my rampant promiscuity has come to a halt, but that doesn't mean we are monogamous, either. Just careful.

 

[Verycurious18]

To me it means being willing to do anything your partner wants either to or for him (her).

I enjoy the word as well, I loved being called a dirty little slut and doing as my partner pleased.

 

[vibes]

I enjoy the word as well, I loved being called a dirty little slut and doing as my partner pleased.

I thought as much

 

[bill3901]

Call her a whore next time...y'know as just an anthropological experiment.

gotcha, I don't think I ever called her that

 

[Verycurious18]

I thought as much

I'm sure your thinking a lot currently!

 

[Tonka]

I very much prefer women who enjoy multiple sexual partners, but then I'm not a jealous person in any way.

 

[TwistedJenn]

Probably depends on what your definition of a slut is, If you are talking about a woman who is more open about sex and confident and aggressive about what she wants, yeah I would say most men appreciate that. If your talking about someone who will let anyone stick a dick in her, probably not. There are always variables too seeing as though some men like to "share"

 

[ladylust1]

Some men explicitly prefer sluts. I have heard various reasons but I am curious if any men here feel that way and if so why?

When I say slut I mean someone like me who has sex with multiple partners. That doesn't imply being stupid and careless and spreading my legs for anyone who asks. I am liberated, in control of my own body and conscious of my own safety and well being. I just happen to like having multiple lovers.

I agree fully with you,

I have been called a slut often, And like your self, I have had many guys, Its a part of who I am....................I love to dress slutty when I go out, its all part of the thrill..................

 

[Redhill123]

To me it means being willing to do anything your partner wants either to or for him (her).

I enjoy the word as well, I loved being called a dirty little slut and doing as my partner pleased.

There was a time when I would never think of using any of the referenced words while having sex or even say them out loud in mixed company....then I met someone, lets say "frineds with benefits" whom, to my shock and amazement loudly encouraged me to fuck her cunt. I don't remember if I was more shocked or turned on but our relationship moved up a whole new level that day....probably night actually.

But one must be respectful of their partner...these things have a way of working out if you are patient.

 

[Verycurious18]

There was a time when I would never think of using any of the referenced words while having sex or even say them out loud in mixed company....then I met someone, lets say "frineds with benefits" whom, to my shock and amazement loudly encouraged me to fuck her cunt. I don't remember if I was more shocked or turned on but our relationship moved up a whole new level that day....probably night actually.

But one must be respectful of their partner...these things have a way of working out if you are patient.

I love telling, asking or begging for them to fuck me. I'm also a big fan of talking and expressing what I want and how. I often beg to be called names, it only makes me want to do naughty and nastier things with them.