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I know that all women are different, but I was wondering if 'squirting' is such the holy grail that it is made out to be. What does everyone think?
I know that all women are different, but I was wondering if 'squirting' is such the holy grail that it is made out to be. What does everyone think?
Squirting is absolutely for real, and contrary to some people's belief who've had failed efforts, it's not pee.
I had a boyfriend who knew exactly how to make me gush or squirt every single time. It is absolutely, 100% in the man's technique. He was the only man I've ever been with who could make my body respond this way, and consistently.
For me, it truly was the best feeling. Completely different from a clitoral orgasm... It was mind blowing and easy to accomplish many, many multiples.
It seems the general consensus around here is that it's more of a mental holy grail for some. It typically feels like a release with a gush of warm fluid (kind of like peeing when you have to go, but with the "bladder" closer to your vagina than your lower abdomen), so physically, it's not the height of ecstasy or anything. However, the brain plays such an integral role in arousal and pleasure that I'm sure it *is* the height of ecstasy for some people, just like foot-worship, golden showers and tit-fucking is the ultimate sexual pleasure for some folks. Personally, I think it's fine when it happens occasionally, but it's not something I'd ever strive for (like a good orgasm) for my own pleasure; maybe for a partner's pleasure if they were really into it.
Because female ejaculation is not a super common occurrence in real life (it usually takes a fair amount of specific, prolonged g-spot stimulation AND total relaxation), many people make it out to be far more pleasurable than it actually is for most women. Many women who are naturally inclined to ejaculate/do so easily would actually rather not because it can make a mess if they haven't prepped the bed/area, having to prep reduces locations and spontaneity, too much lubrication reduces friction/pleasure and they worry new partners might be freaked out by the extra fluid.
I think porn and men have made female ejaculation out to be a holy grail because it's usually visual confirmation of a woman's pleasure and an analog to male ejaculation. Most men are visual creatures and are also aware that women can fake orgasms with no trouble at all, so female ejaculation is like, ' See? She's actually aroused and enjoying herself!' Ironically, those porn stars they're watching simply ejaculate very easily, have trained themselves to ejaculate, or are faking it, so it's really NOT confirmation or a holy grail of any sort, it's more of a party trick or illusion, just like many things in porn.
Anyway, THIS is one of the very best articles on female ejaculation I've found, and one of those rare things I view as a "must read" for people who are sexually active. If you look through "The Blank Manual" sticky at the top of the main How To forum page, you'll also find tons of great threads on f.e./squirting.
It is wonderful. I love standing over my man while he lays in bed... he's fucking me with his fingers, hitting my g-spot, hard and fast, and then I'll start gushing. If I rub my clit at the same time and I orgasm that way as well, it's mind blowing. He loves it! I love it!!
I would like to believe that squirting is very real. If not I'm a huge moron. I guess the latter is debatable. I just love how when I had Emily close to her "happy messy" place that it almost seemed as if time would stop. The only thing in the world was her pulse on my fingers that were inside her and the constant sound if her begging me not to stop. Yes virginia. There is a. Santa clause.
It seems the general consensus around here is that it's more of a mental holy grail for some. It typically feels like a release with a gush of warm fluid (kind of like peeing when you have to go, but with the "bladder" closer to your vagina than your lower abdomen), so physically, it's not the height of ecstasy or anything. However, the brain plays such an integral role in arousal and pleasure that I'm sure it *is* the height of ecstasy for some people, just like foot-worship, golden showers and tit-fucking is the ultimate sexual pleasure for some folks. Personally, I think it's fine when it happens occasionally, but it's not something I'd ever strive for (like a good orgasm) for my own pleasure; maybe for a partner's pleasure if they were really into it.
Because female ejaculation is not a super common occurrence in real life (it usually takes a fair amount of specific, prolonged g-spot stimulation AND total relaxation), many people make it out to be far more pleasurable than it actually is for most women. Many women who are naturally inclined to ejaculate/do so easily would actually rather not because it can make a mess if they haven't prepped the bed/area, having to prep reduces locations and spontaneity, too much lubrication reduces friction/pleasure and they worry new partners might be freaked out by the extra fluid.
I think porn and men have made female ejaculation out to be a holy grail because it's usually visual confirmation of a woman's pleasure and an analog to male ejaculation. Most men are visual creatures and are also aware that women can fake orgasms with no trouble at all, so female ejaculation is like, ' See? She's actually aroused and enjoying herself!' Ironically, those porn stars they're watching simply ejaculate very easily, have trained themselves to ejaculate, or are faking it, so it's really NOT confirmation or a holy grail of any sort, it's more of a party trick or illusion, just like many things in porn.
Anyway, THIS is one of the very best articles on female ejaculation I've found, and one of those rare things I view as a "must read" for people who are sexually active. If you look through "The Blank Manual" sticky at the top of the main How To forum page, you'll also find tons of great threads on f.e./squirting.