Big turn offs

[SuddenStop]

We all have those little or big things that just turn us off. What are yours?


Mine has to be watching a video or seeing a pic of something sex or naughty and seeing a filthy house in the background. Clothes you just took off and threw around the room is one thing but I don't want to see days (or weeks) worth of clothes piled up or dirty messy floors.

ICK!

 

[silverwhisper]

spitting, esp when they're spitting on genitals. instant mood kill. spitting is universally used as a sign of contempt.

porn is teaching people bad habits in sex.

ed

 

[Wide_eyed_Indulgence]

If you want to kill off my desire immediately -- just burp in my face. I will never let you near me again.

 

[1millionsecrets]

Telling me that I like something... Or even suggesting that I do.

I don't know why, but the phrase, "You like that, don't you?" Always turns me off.

 

[switchbitch]

Silence is a big turnoff for me when someone does not communicate their desires, wishes, instructions, pleasure or distaste. Blowup dolls are silent apart from the squeaking they are equally turnoff

 

[Strawberryslip]

spitting, esp when they're spitting on genitals. instant mood kill. spitting is universally used as a sign of contempt.

porn is teaching people bad habits in sex.

ed

This. A million times this. I worked as a nurse and all I can see is the winter ward in my mind when I see this. Ugh.

 

[1millionsecrets]

Silence is a big turnoff for me when someone does not communicate their desires, wishes, instructions, pleasure or distaste. Blowup dolls are silent apart from the squeaking they are equally turnoff

I agree completely.

I want to hear your enjoyment... Not guess if you like it or not.

 

[SuddenStop]

I agree completely.

I want to hear your enjoyment... Not guess if you like it or not.

I agree with this as well. Nothing like someone who can't express how they are feeling.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Swearing or filthy language from a woman. I don't mean during sex - that's a little different. I just cannot stand a woman who drops F-bombs and other four-letter words in conversation constantly. I'm not a prude, it's just that I don't want to be around a woman who talks like a (male) sailor. Once in a great while for effect is fine.

Too much sexual talk is also a turnoff. Sounds counter-intuitive coming from a guy on Lit, I know. And I don't mean discussing sex on Lit. I mean in more general conversation, bringing up past partners, experiences, etc. Bad form. We all have sexual history, so leave it in the past.

So in a nutshell - acting like one of my guy friends is a major turnoff.

 

[Rozalin_0123]

Maybe it makes me a bitch, but my biggest turn off are people who don't have an intelligent mind. Your washboard abs and expensive car mean nothing to me when you come up to me with, "hay shorty, you like diss?". No! Go back to the "Dude Bro" Club you crawled out of. I have no time for douchebags.

No exception for the ladies either. If you come up to me, speaking like a valley girl while twirling your hair saying something like, "Oh em gee! Does anyone know Hitler's last name?" (true story btw). Go away and help yourself to a history book cause you sound like a retard!

People who have bad English when it's their only language also irritates me. Saying things like "I knowed that", "I not did that", they "warshed" their clothes this morning... ugh...

I don't expect a degree to have a conversation with me but come on...

 

[WebTraveller]

No exception for the ladies either. If you come up to me, speaking like a valley girl while twirling your hair saying something like, "Oh em gee! Does anyone know Hitler's last name?" (true story btw). Go away and help yourself to a history book cause you sound like a retard!

What is his last name by the way?

lol Sorry, I had to say that. I agree with you, stupid is not sexy.

 

[1millionsecrets]

you're wonderful.
XD

 

[mrno]

Women who just lie there.


Please don't say it is me. I am not talking about those women, even though there are plenty of them.

 

[Blase]

Stereotypical porn language, especially when it's not in the heat of sex (I realize it's hard to be eloquent or original at times when you have other things on your mind).

I don't even answer personal ads that talk about the poster's "hot, tight little pussy" or whatever. That sort of talk makes me think that either you're a drudge or you're a guy pretending to be a girl, because girls very rarely talk that way.

 

[ruk1234]

I once was having sex with a girl let out a huge fart.

I was disgusted and just pulled out and left.

 

[ErikaSims]

Turn ons

I enjoy giving head, swallowing, being humiliated, called names, and watching porn.

 

[FloridaSmoothie]

Jerks. Male and female.

 

[seth6138]

Bad teeth! Poor hygiene !

 

[eye_see_me]

Bad teeth! Poor hygiene !

Agreed...poor hygiene is the worst. Prefer the smell of toothpaste and soap.

 

[mrno]

People who have never read a book.

 

[heatsink]

Lies and distortions of the truth and the more intelligent the person the worse and more inexcusable it makes it.

 

[tina12345]

Men's hairy armpits

 

[Redrosewitch]

Arrogance and intolerance.

 

[celticmedic]

Lies and distortions of the truth and the more intelligent the person the worse and more inexcusable it makes it.

Having just been lied to and dropped like a hot potato after being too blindly in love to see it, I agree with this.

Also, a girl who talks too much about her past exploits really can make me feel insecure. Asking if you've tried something before is one thing, graphic detail is another - I hate feeling like a notch on the bedpost.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Ego.. I don't care how hot you are, if you think you are gods gift to women and think everyone wants you, That turns me off faster then you can get naked and yell take me.

Confidence is sexy. Ego is not.