If A man wants his wife to give it to him up the ass via a strap-on, is he gay?

Greetings all,

First post, so (especially given the topic) be gentle...

In answer to the question in the OP, no. Your husband wanting you to peg him does not make him gay.

But that doesn't address what seems to be the real question you're asking, which is, "Is my husband gay?"

Who knows? He may not even know. But wanting a dildo in his butt does not make a man gay any more than wanting to wear a strap-on would mean a woman secretly wishes she were a man.

You make a good point. I think it's wanting a strap on in context of the other things I have mentioned that makes me wonder.
 

Of course he doesn't
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...but, if you don't mind, I'll wait for boynextdoor2010 to verify that he isn't truly the one wanting to pack some loveloaf.

boynextdoo2010 has posted on the GB of his ex and his daughter before...

...so beautiful to read he's managed to steer his "lover" in here now, too.

You seem to know more about BND than I do. I wonder why?
 
You should probably PM Tryharder62 and ask her how helpful boynextdoor2010 is with dealing with the issues she has with her husband...

So you don't really know. Believe me, I understand the nature of the man!
 
Let's ask Dr. Dre
Dr. Dre? (What up?)
I gotta question if I may? (Yeah)
Is it gay to play Putt-Putt golf with a friend (Yeah)
And watch his butt-butt when he tees off? (Yeah)
But, but! I ain't done yet
In football the quarterback yells out hutt-hutt
While he reaches in another grown man's ass
Grabs on his nuts but just what if
It was never meant it was just an accident
But he tripped, fell, slipped and his penis went in
His teeny tiny little round hiney but he didn't mean it
But his little weenie flinched just a little bit
And I don't mean to go in into any more details but
What if he pictured it as a females butt?
Is that gay? I just need to clear things up
Till then I'll just walk around with a manly strut because...

~Eminem
 
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~Eminem

I heard he did it with Elton John. Homophobes have the most to hide.

Anyway, as for the OP...who cares? Strap it on, but make sure you set it low so you can get yours while he moans beneath you.
 
I don't think it's gay. It just happens to feel good and a cock is designed specifically for penetration too so it makes sense. No real gayness in using the right tools for the job. I think why we use this sexual example of what makes a person gay is all the sentiment attached to the act - it's just easier to say gay guys are two guys fucking than it is to go into detial about the depth of their fondness for each other on an meaningful level.
 
I don't think wanting that from one's wife is gay. I also don't think that wanting a blow job from a guy is gay.

Wanting to date men - wanting the emotional involvement and all the trappings, good and bad, that come with it - wanting to BE WITH men - that to me defines 'being gay'.

I don't really have a line for 'bisexual'; the older I get, the more blurred it gets. I'm not into women, and I've never slept with one, but I do think about it from time to time, more out of human curiosity than anything else.
 
I know it feels good to have things shoved up ones ass, however, to request a cock .. .. Hmmmm. Is he really gay but not admitting it? Or maybe bisexual?

Speaking as a straight female, I would love nothing more than to have a man let me put on a strap on and just pleasure him. Ergo, please come find me ;)
 
You should probably PM Tryharder62 and ask her how helpful boynextdoor2010 is with dealing with the issues she has with her husband...

The only issue is you bullying people who don't deserve it. Now go be a good little chickenshit hater and fuck right off.
 
The only issue is you bullying people who don't deserve it. Now go be a good little chickenshit hater and fuck right off.

Awww...

...how many times have you pleaded with her to boink you in the butt, boy?

Also:

How proud can your daughter must be of you...

...screwing another dude's wife behind his back.
 
Since when is having sex with a woman - of the kinky variety or otherwise - considered gay?
 
Awww...

...how many times have you pleaded with her to boink you in the butt, boy?

Also:

How proud can your daughter must be of you...

...screwing another dude's wife behind his back.

Come clean Eyer. Did you catch your wife - more than once? It must have been more then just seeing her fuck another guy. Was it two guys in your own bed? Was it your best friend? Did you walk in and see it yourself?

I mean you have such a hardon for women having sex outside their marriage and take it so personally that your story must be a real fucking winner.

Get help.
 
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