If A man wants his wife to give it to him up the ass via a strap-on, is he gay?

[eyer]

Come clean Eyer. Did you catch your wife - more than once? It must have been more then just seeing her fuck another guy. Was it two guys in your own bed? Was it your best friend? Did you walk in and see it yourself?

I mean you have such a hardon for women having sex outside their marriage and take it so personally that your story must be a real fucking winner.

Get help.

What you really need to concern yourself with is your daughter learning life truths like honesty, integrity, and respect...

...from a sperm donor who screws another man's wife behind his back.

 

[BoyNextDoor]

So she did. Not a hard guess.

Did you tell her that on line you are a "real man" that tries to bully women?

 

[eyer]

So she did. Not a hard guess.

Did you tell her that on line you are a "real man" that tries to bully women?

Let's sum up...

...shall we?

I've never been married nor fathered any kids, know sex with another person is meaningless without love, and would stab myself in the heart before screwing another man's wife behind his back...

...and then there's you, bozo.

Now, getting back to the thread topic:

Do you consider yourself gay, bisexual, or straight when you beg your new harlot to don a strap-on and boink you up the butt?

 

[Sunshine]

Let's sum up...

...shall we?

I've never been married nor fathered any kids, know sex with another person is meaningless without love, and would stab myself in the heart before screwing another man's wife behind his back...

...and then there's you, bozo.

Now, getting back to the thread topic:

Do you consider yourself gay, bisexual, or straight when you beg your new harlot to don a strap-on and boink you up the butt?

Mr. eyer, surely you know we know you're just loving being nasty right now. We know this because the strap on question post is about my husband, not the guy who fucks me. Shut up please. I think you are harassing people and it's tiresome.

 

[Sunshine]

Let's sum up...

...shall we?

I've never been married nor fathered any kids, know sex with another person is meaningless without love, and would stab myself in the heart before screwing another man's wife behind his back...

...and then there's you, bozo.

Now, getting back to the thread topic:

Do you consider yourself gay, bisexual, or straight when you beg your new harlot to don a strap-on and boink you up the butt?

Dear Mr. eyer,

One last thing. I don't get paid for my fabulous deep throat ing blow jobs or any other delicious act BND is so lucky to receive from me. If I were, I would surely be able to leave my neglectful, probably gay, husband.

 

[JudasIscariot]

Dear Mr. eyer,

One last thing. I don't get paid for my fabulous deep throat ing blow jobs or any other delicious act BND is so lucky to receive from me. If I were, I would surely be able to leave my neglectful, probably gay, husband.

Neglectful and gay husband

You've hit the jackpot

 

[Sunshine]

Neglectful and gay husband

You've hit the jackpot

And it only got worse from there apparently!

 

[JudasIscariot]

And it only got worse from there apparently!

Have you maybe thought about ploughing his ass so hard that he thinks 'hang on, this isn't nice at all'?

 

[eyer]

Mr. eyer, surely you know we know you're just loving being nasty right now. We know this because the strap on question post is about my husband, not the guy who fucks me. Shut up please. I think you are harassing people and it's tiresome.

Dear Mr. eyer,

One last thing. I don't get paid for my fabulous deep throat ing blow jobs or any other delicious act BND is so lucky to receive from me. If I were, I would surely be able to leave my neglectful, probably gay, husband.

Harlot, hooker, bimbo...

...seriously sucker, do you go by any other names?

And...

...does the mother of boynextdoor2010's daughter know he likes you to boink him up the butt?

 

[parodyluvr75]

Have you maybe thought about ploughing his ass so hard that he thinks 'hang on, this isn't nice at all'?

You're mean.

 

[Sunshine]

Harlot, hooker, bimbo...

...seriously sucker, do you go by any other names?

And...

...does the mother of boynextdoor2010's daughter know he likes you to boink him up the butt?

You forgot my favorite! SLUT... Oh how I love to be called slut. Not so keen on the others.

Can't help you with your questions. Don't know dear.

 

[Sunshine]

Have you maybe thought about ploughing his ass so hard that he thinks 'hang on, this isn't nice at all'?

You may be on to something...

 

[Debbie]

No, it means he likes the feeling. Doesn't mean he wants a cock attached a man.

What she said.

If A man wants his wife to give it to him up the ass via a strap-on, is he gay?

Not necessarily.

But I should add, we've been together for a long time and it may just be that I am too familiar. Doesn't matter how pretty or hot a woman is. A man will tire of her sexually after a period of time. I'm just hoping my boyfriend stays interested!!

I disagree that men will tire sexually of a woman after a period of time. It does happen but not always.

You could add some spice to bring the zing back into your relationship.

How about a present for him and plan an evening of fantasy play?

Something you could both enjoy and see what happens.

Are you in an open relationship?


Here's a thread if you want to do some reading or google pegging.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=671623

 

[Wrong Element]

I don't think wanting that from one's wife is gay. I also don't think that wanting a blow job from a guy is gay.

Wanting to date men - wanting the emotional involvement and all the trappings, good and bad, that come with it - wanting to BE WITH men - that to me defines 'being gay'.

I don't really have a line for 'bisexual'; the older I get, the more blurred it gets. I'm not into women, and I've never slept with one, but I do think about it from time to time, more out of human curiosity than anything else.

Since when is having sex with a woman - of the kinky variety or otherwise - considered gay?

I don't really have anything to add to these two answers.

Yes, people do exist who are married to someone of the opposite sex and are in fact gay; otherwise, Liza Minnelli would not have a single wedding photo. But the usual assumption is that a man with a wife is, er, heterosexual.

 

[unregistered]

 

[Sunshine]

What she said.

If A man wants his wife to give it to him up the ass via a strap-on, is he gay?

Not necessarily.





I disagree that men will tire sexually of a woman after a period of time. It does happen but not always.

You could add some spice to bring the zing back into your relationship.

How about a present for him and plan an evening of fantasy play?

Something you could both enjoy and see what happens.

Are you in an open relationship?


Here's a thread if you want to do some reading or google pegging.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=671623

Thank you for the link. It was really interesting. Guess it's not necessarily a sign that a man may be gay.

 

[Mischka]

In answer to the question in the OP, no. Your husband wanting you to peg him does not make him gay.

But that doesn't address what seems to be the real question you're asking, which is, "Is my husband gay?"

Who knows? He may not even know. But wanting a dildo in his butt does not make a man gay any more than wanting to wear a strap-on would mean a woman secretly wishes she were a man.

^^^^ This. Every word. Well said.

Anyway, as for the OP...who cares? Strap it on, but make sure you set it low so you can get yours while he moans beneath you.

I liked adding a butt plug as well. Holy hell, the switcharoo of sensations was a delight.

I don't think wanting that from one's wife is gay. I also don't think that wanting a blow job from a guy is gay.

Wanting to date men - wanting the emotional involvement and all the trappings, good and bad, that come with it - wanting to BE WITH men - that to me defines 'being gay'.

I don't really have a line for 'bisexual'; the older I get, the more blurred it gets. I'm not into women, and I've never slept with one, but I do think about it from time to time, more out of human curiosity than anything else.

I have the same similar ambiguity about what defines bisexuality and homosexuality. I have no interest in emotionally investing in a woman - beyond that of a friendship - but I really like fucking them. Even the most athletically lithe woman feels softer than a man, a sensual exploration and alignment of curves. I consider myself a hedonist instead of bisexual.

 

[Dyslexicea]

I know it feels good to have things shoved up ones ass, however, to request a cock .. .. Hmmmm. Is he really gay but not admitting it? Or maybe bisexual?

Stupid is as stupid says. A strap-on is not a cock, as a matter of fact a strap-on by itself is worthless. Anyway the dildo which one uses with a strap-on is what does the penetrating. The dildos we own don't even look like cocks.

No it doesn't mean he's gay, it's not a cock. That is no more logical then to say a man who want to have anal sex with his wife, or any other woman, is gay. Guy have asses, so I guess the logic would be all men who like anal sex are gay because men have asses also.

Like I said stupid!

 

[Debbie]

Thank you for the link. It was really interesting. Guess it's not necessarily a sign that a man may be gay.

You're welcome.

 

[subdued_passion]

I know it feels good to have things shoved up ones ass, however, to request a cock .. .. Hmmmm. Is he really gay but not admitting it? Or maybe bisexual?

Best if you asked the ones who're into that fetish.

 

[Sunshine]

I don't really have anything to add to these two answers.

Yes, people do exist who are married to someone of the opposite sex and are in fact gay; otherwise, Liza Minnelli would not have a single wedding photo. But the usual assumption is that a man with a wife is, er, heterosexual.

I agree. When I was in my twenties, I worked for a family as a nanny and witnessed a supposedly heterosexual man leave his wife for a man. They were married for 15 years and had sex on a regular basis. I think that experience made an impression on me in the sense that I realize people can live lives that do not reflect who they really are or what they truly need and want.

 

[Sunshine]

^^^^ This. Every word. Well said.

I liked adding a butt plug as well. Holy hell, the switcharoo of sensations was a delight.


I have the same similar ambiguity about what defines bisexuality and homosexuality. I have no interest in emotionally investing in a woman - beyond that of a friendship - but I really like fucking them. Even the most athletically lithe woman feels softer than a man, a sensual exploration and alignment of curves. I consider myself a hedonist instead of bisexual.

I think there is a bell curve of sexuality and most people fall in the middle which accounts for interest in both sexes, or at least the ability to appreciate both sexes sensually.

I was involved in a few encounters with women at my partners request ( threesome) and found myself not aroused at all. I felt like an actor in a scene pretending. Being in a sexual situation with a woman did not turn me on like being with a man. Since those two experiences, I have never once thought of being sexual with a woman. I think my husband is different. He gets aroused by the mention of being with a man. My instincts tell me he would really like it and wants it ... Hence, he bought a strap- on for me to wear. I don't know why he won't explore what it would be like to have the real thing.

 

[Aphro]

I think there is a bell curve of sexuality and most people fall in the middle which accounts for interest in both sexes, or at least the ability to appreciate both sexes sensually.

I was involved in a few encounters with women at my partners request ( threesome) and found myself not aroused at all. I felt like an actor in a scene pretending. Being in a sexual situation with a woman did not turn me on like being with a man. Since those two experiences, I have never once thought of being sexual with a woman. I think my husband is different. He gets aroused by the mention of being with a man. My instincts tell me he would really like it and wants it ... Hence, he bought a strap- on for me to wear. I don't know why he won't explore what it would be like to have the real thing.

Do you WANT him to explore the real thing?

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I cant imagine feeling attracted to a guy. That sort of fantasy simply isn't in my repertoire. And I have the same kind of DOES NOT COMPUTE response for many women. That is, what flips my switch ON are shapes and forms and traits men cant have, and many women don't have. It has nuthin to do with boobs or butts or hair color or weight, tho height is a turnoff (and disqualifies males). Low intelligence is a deal-breaker that automatically eliminates most men and some women. Bad teeth. Grooming. Facial hair. Got the idea? It may be traits we respond to.

 

[JohnnySavage]

I think there is a bell curve of sexuality and most people fall in the middle which accounts for interest in both sexes, or at least the ability to appreciate both sexes sensually.

I was involved in a few encounters with women at my partners request ( threesome) and found myself not aroused at all. I felt like an actor in a scene pretending. Being in a sexual situation with a woman did not turn me on like being with a man. Since those two experiences, I have never once thought of being sexual with a woman. I think my husband is different. He gets aroused by the mention of being with a man. My instincts tell me he would really like it and wants it ... Hence, he bought a strap- on for me to wear. I don't know why he won't explore what it would be like to have the real thing.

Because he's just not that into you.