Married or Attached But Looking Thread

Even in spite of my comments, I'd be lying to say that I don't have those thoughts on a regular basis, which is why the cyber/phone allure is always on my mind and to be honest, always considering a new play friend when the opportunity arises.. I know probably a little hypocritical, but its blatantly honest....
 
I know its not the usual advice you can hear here, but when considering actions in real life that are beyond the cyber world... have to consider the consequences..... and I'd be lying to say that I haven't had those thoughts and desires before. As a man, we get so much of our self esteem from how females view and respond to us. Easy to think a fling will solve the problem, but its never that easy and never without a cost.

I know not really in line with the normal mood here.. but when someone is considering such a step, they need to weigh all the factors....

I've been with married guys who said their marriage actually got BETTER cuz he was seing me. He felt happier....and the whole sex conflict was off the table. So...there doesn't have to be a cost.
 
Hey Cute, yes I don't doubt some guys have said that, but its not always the outcome.. I've seen it too often in my line of work, and the consequences can be huge on the kids and even lead to divorce with some huge problems.

Some people are able to compartmentalize and I guess avoid the whole sex conflict.. but its not always the case, and usually you don't know its an issue until you're in the middle of it. With all of that said, yep, it can be very alluring.... :)
 
I guess the explanation for the apparent conflict in my comments is that we are shaped by our experiences.. and although we may select to make the same mistakes again.. doesn't change what advice we give others when they ask for an honest opinion..
 
I've been with married guys who said their marriage actually got BETTER cuz he was seing me. He felt happier....and the whole sex conflict was off the table. So...there doesn't have to be a cost.

You almost make me want to be married again, lol. Please note the almost :)
 
hi

im 35 married looking for a women to have sex with that is in the cabootlure morayfield area in queensland australia
 
Any women in the 610/215 area code.. Eastern PA here.
 
I feel that what I'm looking for is a woman to be a little flirty with, maybe exchange pics with. I've been out of "the game" for so long I may be rusty, but I know it's what I'm looking for right now.
 
62 M, looking.....Conroe area

Wife hasn't been interested in many years. Decided to start looking around. Your pleasure is my pleasure. Looking for mature lady, best if you can host. PM me. A little naughty chat would be fine too.
 
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This thread is only as strong as its posters. Let's drum up some interest in our straying thoughts!
 
Hey what's up!! I'm not married, and my relationship status is "complicated". But I love talking/flirting with married women.
 
Any married or attached women in the Philadelphia area looking for something extra? I'm attached and looking for something ongoing and discrete.
 
play mate wanted for wife

Hey there we are couple in the uk . Norfolk. Lookin for a playmate for the wife , for casual fun while i am away, and some one i can watch and join in with when im home. New to the forum so thought i would see what replies we get.. thanks for reading....:)
 
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