Crimes of Passion

[Killswitch]

Not even willing to try?

Character fault. It's all good.

This is a good one too.



Sorry smiles just pickin on you.

 

[eyer]

I hugged a sixteen year old.

In your original post, you stated that you didn't have sex with him, but that you did mess around with him in the front seat of a car.

 

[Recidiva]

Not even willing to try?

Character fault. It's all good.

Not willing to convince you that I'm a good person and worthy of your attention? The first is entirely subjective and the second is your decision. You are my judge online but you are not capable of sentencing me to anything other than "girlsmiley does not like what Recidiva did 20 years ago, therefore she is unworthy of making a joke with or talking about music or movies."

I've had loads of private conversations and public conversations on this subject since this thread detonated.

It's also amusing how my actions all mean certain things. If I'm not here I'm hiding and ashamed. If I'm here I'm aggressively advocating the pedo lifestyle. If I have public conversations I'm showboating and drinking in the drama. If I have private conversations I'm gleefully gloating in private.

Pass on delving into your soul and finding out what this all means to you.

 

[girlsmiley]

Not willing to convince you that I'm a good person and worthy of your...

No, not willing to try to have an adult conversation without the bullshit.

You're trying waaay too hard to work the audience.

How are you one on one?

Different, I bet.

No love lost.

 

[Recidiva]

If you want to see good, the natives up here have passive aggressive down to a true are form called Minnesota Nice.

That is awesome.

I had the Southern variety. As a Yankee girl growing up with Creole Upper Crust.

Quote to my sister from a great aunt:

"Well now darlin', are those stockings...what...y'all wear...up North?"

 

[bg23]

OK, so let me get this straight...

It's all my fault that people are angry at the fact that Recidiva had an inappropriate sexual relationship with a 14 year old when she was 27?

Because I have magic brain controlling powers and...holy shit...a fan club?

That's fucking amazing. I gotta use these powers more often.

I'm going to quote myself. This is the first post I made in this thread:

if i was fucking around with a 14 year old right now at my age i would wonder why i couldn't get a man my own age, and then probably shoot myself.

If you weren't somebody who was in their mid twenties involved with a 14 year old, would you be offended by that?

If what I've just said here was totally incorrect, the relationship was totally platonic and there was no inappropriate sexual connotation, wouldn't it make more sense to say something like:

"Well actually, I wasn't fucking with a 14 year old, or cybering him, or anything. We had a platonic, non sexual friendship."

Of course in that case it wouldn't have really been a "crime" either.

However, Reci responded in this way:

Well, he was one of the guys I was messing around with at the same time, probably one in six. One was probably twice my age, two or three were about my age.

Well OK then. It's not that she couldn't find somebody her own age to mess around with, it's just that she was ALSO messing around with multiple others.

I specifically mention cyber in my next post:

But if I was 25 and a 14 year old asked me for cyber and I KNEW he was 14 and did it anyway, well, then wtf.

If there was no cyber, then probably something along the lines of,

"I did not cyber him. You are wrong. It was platonic at all times."

But no - instead it is most certainly a laughing matter.

Well, if I had a time machine, I'd go back and tell him this story, and he and I would laugh at you.

I wouldn't feel bad about either talking to him about it, spending time with him, or thinking that your opinion on the matter is pretty irrelevant to the conversation.

If you're going to treat me like some older lady predator who can't handle men her age, or treat him like your average 14 year old, we'd just laugh harder.

Because he's not an average 14 year old. OK, well that makes it all better then, and the 12 year old girls who already have breasts are not your average 12 year olds.

So then there's this:

Well, to clarify, I didn't actually have sex with the guy. I met him as a roleplayer online and I had a roleplay relationship with him, and a real friendship where I'd talk to him on the phone about his life and we'd exchange emails.

My daughter is 26 and my son is 15 with Asperger's, of course I'm concerned about sexual predators. I didn't actually have sex with the kid, I talked to him about it, very different set of circumstances.

Believe that or don't, I'm not here crowing about it being a great thing everybody should do. I'm listing it under "crime" and it's not something I'm proud about, but it is something that happened. To me it was an emotional and not a physical relationship, but was it still outside of what is considered lawful? Yes.

Do I think I did the kid some good? Yeah, actually I do. Do I think I could have been charged with a crime? Yep. If my daughter or son had a relationship with a person that much older, would I freak out? Hell yes.

This is not "Reci endorses pedophilia" but nor do I think that bg23 gets to get the number of my divorces wrong and tell me essentially to shoot myself.

Online roleplay relationship that she categorises as a crime. So is that cybering a minor, or was it just a platonic friendship with no sexual content? If so, why would that be a crime? I know a few 14 year olds I think are sweet kids, but if I hugged them I certainly wouldn't consider it a crime.

My post was about how if I knew a kid was 14 and I still cybered them, I'd shoot myself. How was that not exactly what's been quoted above, here?

I've posted repeatedly that my issue with it was with the cyber-relationship - which if not outright criminal was seriously sketchy, and the fact that flippantly justifying it with "rehab" is BS. Maybe the kid is fine, but you know what's not? Saying that what you did is OK because it actually did him some good.

Anyone else who is talking about what happened regarding when he was 16, I think is misreading as they didn't actually fuck. But I have no idea why you people think cybering a 14 year old is OK, and I have no idea how you can read those words ANY other way.

Oh, and the whole "Oh he was a 14 year old boy, he was lucky to get some" excuse is total and utter sexist bullshit.

 

[Recidiva]

No, not willing to try to have an adult conversation without the bullshit.

You're trying waaay too hard to work the audience.

How are you one on one?

Different, I bet.

No love lost.

I'm pretty much the same one on one. Don't worry honey, I won't try to seduce you. You're the wrong gender and clearly too old for me, and so very, very smart about how grownups work.

 

[girlsmiley]

Goodnight, Rex.

It's after 11 and I've had a hard day.

 

[Recidiva]

Goodnight, Rex.

It's after 11 and I've had a hard day.

I think I've treated you in the manner you've treated me.

Get some good sleep and if you want to actually have a civil conversation instead of just whooshing at me with accusations and insinuations, I'm up for it.

 

[Noor]

Perhaps a new better of goggles would make this look better...

 

[Noor]

That is awesome.

I had the Southern variety. As a Yankee girl growing up with Creole Upper Crust.

Quote to my sister from a great aunt:

"Well now darlin', are those stockings...what...y'all wear...up North?"

Hmmm, interesting stockings...

 

[Recidiva]

Hmmm, interesting stockings...

Yes, the real translation is "How did your mother allow you to leave the house looking like that in those. Yankees."

 

[Noor]

Yes, the real translation is "How did your mother allow you to leave the house looking like that in those. Yankees."

same diff... I just translated into Minnesotan. They like to minimize words usage.

 

[Killswitch]

Hmmm, interesting stockings...

Understate much?

lol

 

[Noor]

Laurel's Rule of Gee Bee Drama: every drama thread - no matter how interesting/provocative/insightful its premise - will become a Springer audience brawl after page 7.

Got any jelly babies?

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

OK, so let me get this straight...

It's all my fault that people are angry at the fact that Recidiva had an inappropriate sexual relationship with a 14 year old when she was 27?

Because I have magic brain controlling powers and...holy shit...a fan club?

That's fucking amazing. I gotta use these powers more often.

I'm going to quote myself. This is the first post I made in this thread:



If you weren't somebody who was in their mid twenties involved with a 14 year old, would you be offended by that?

If what I've just said here was totally incorrect, the relationship was totally platonic and there was no inappropriate sexual connotation, wouldn't it make more sense to say something like:

"Well actually, I wasn't fucking with a 14 year old, or cybering him, or anything. We had a platonic, non sexual friendship."

Of course in that case it wouldn't have really been a "crime" either.

However, Reci responded in this way:



Well OK then. It's not that she couldn't find somebody her own age to mess around with, it's just that she was ALSO messing around with multiple others.

I specifically mention cyber in my next post:



If there was no cyber, then probably something along the lines of,

"I did not cyber him. You are wrong. It was platonic at all times."

But no - instead it is most certainly a laughing matter.



Because he's not an average 14 year old. OK, well that makes it all better then, and the 12 year old girls who already have breasts are not your average 12 year olds.

So then there's this:




Online roleplay relationship that she categorises as a crime. So is that cybering a minor, or was it just a platonic friendship with no sexual content? If so, why would that be a crime? I know a few 14 year olds I think are sweet kids, but if I hugged them I certainly wouldn't consider it a crime.

My post was about how if I knew a kid was 14 and I still cybered them, I'd shoot myself. How was that not exactly what's been quoted above, here?

I've posted repeatedly that my issue with it was with the cyber-relationship - which if not outright criminal was seriously sketchy, and the fact that flippantly justifying it with "rehab" is BS. Maybe the kid is fine, but you know what's not? Saying that what you did is OK because it actually did him some good.

Anyone else who is talking about what happened regarding when he was 16, I think is misreading as they didn't actually fuck. But I have no idea why you people think cybering a 14 year old is OK, and I have no idea how you can read those words ANY other way.

Oh, and the whole "Oh he was a 14 year old boy, he was lucky to get some" excuse is total and utter sexist bullshit.

Youre swimming upstream against all human history.

 

[HoHoBomb]

That is awesome.

I had the Southern variety. As a Yankee girl growing up with Creole Upper Crust.

Quote to my sister from a great aunt:

"Well now darlin', are those stockings...what...y'all wear...up North?"

Funny!
My neighbors in Mecox address me as Southern Debutante.
It's annoying.

 

[girlsmiley]

I'm pretty much the same one on one. Don't worry honey, I won't try to seduce you. You're the wrong gender and clearly too old for me, and so very, very smart about how grownups work.

You won't try to seduce me? You're making jokes about younger people now? You twisted bitch.

What kind of sick joke is that?

Bitch, do not trifle with me. I will fuck your shit up.

I'm the wrong gender? Bitch, we're the SAME gender. Fucking twat.

Go to bed.

Go to fucking bed and have a sleep.

 

[girlsmiley]

Jesus fuck.

 

[Recidiva]

Funny!
My neighbors in Mecox address me as Southern Debutante.
It's annoying.

My mom is from Baton Rouge and she lost her accent fast in New Jersey.

I affected a southern accent when I was visiting as a kid to avoid the jaw-dropping horrified expression people get when they're informed they're related to a Yankee somewhere on the other side of the family.

I adore my Yankee relatives and I adore my Southern relatives, but it is not fun to be in the crossfire if all you really want is fun conversation and some potato salad or etoufee at a reunion.

 

[Recidiva]

You won't try to seduce me? You're making jokes about younger people now? You twisted bitch.

What kind of sick joke is that?

Bitch, do not trifle with me. I will fuck your shit up.

I'm the wrong gender? Bitch, we're the SAME gender. Fucking twat.

Go to bed.

Go to fucking bed and have a sleep.

You're cute when you're riled, but no, still not attracted.

Commence fucking my shit up.

It's 10 am here.

 

[Ulaven_Demorte]

You're cute when you're riled, but no, still not attracted.

Commence fucking my shit up.

It's 10 am here.

That was pretty funny.
I'm curious exactly how she intends to fuck your shit up now.

Careful, she may ruin your reputation among the population of the Literotica GB.

Fuck, I laughed so hard I think I pulled something.

 

[Recidiva]

That was pretty funny.
I'm curious exactly how she intends to fuck your shit up now.

Careful, she may ruin your reputation among the population of Literotica.

Fuck, I laughed so hard I think I pulled something.

She's like a kitten and I have a laser pointer.

I'd feel guilty, but she just will not calm the fuck down and realize she's being messed with.

Look! Over there! Threat! Threat alert high! Internet predator on the loose! Pouce! RUUUUN MOTHERFUCKER!

 

[girlsmiley]

You're cute when you're riled, but no, still not attracted.

Commence fucking my shit up.

It's 10 am here.

Attracted? Take a look around!

You see any 14 y/o boys? I don't.

Meh.

It's more fun to see you fuck it up all on your own.

Good luck.

 

[Recidiva]

Attracted? Take a look around!

You see any 14 y/o boys? I don't.

Meh.

It's more fun to see you fuck it up all on your own.

Good luck.

Whoooosh...whoooosh.

Careful, wall.