Crimes of Passion

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

What exactly constitutes something not being "over the top" for you, in terms of humor or expression? Can you laugh off anything, or will something out there actually press a button?

Youre a tiny whiny sissy.

 

[subdued_passion]

Many of us in these parts believe that words actually have meaning. Say what you mean, mean what you say. Sarcasm, of course, the exception.

I get what you are saying. And if you pay attention many people use quite colourful language. But only a few spew real hate.

I can only speak for myself. I do not take offence. If I do, I let the other person know so.

There are people here who may seem politically correct but are the real bigots.

 

[Disgustipated]

Youre a tiny whiny sissy.

You're not even trying any more.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You're not even trying any more.

He doesn't rate my good stuff.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Youre a tiny whiny sissy.

You're an old, ignorant, racist shitstain running on fumes in his twilight with nothing to offer humanity and who will die someday, likely soon.

On that day, if we are so lucky to hear about it happening on Lit, I'll laugh at you like Subdued does, but for an entirely different reason. Your vaudeville stage time is running out, so keep on dancing and entertaining her about being abused, pressed bitch.

 

[subdued_passion]

You're an old, ignorant, racist shitstain running on fumes in his twilight with nothing to offer humanity and who will die someday, likely soon.

On that day, if we are so lucky to hear about it happening on Lit, I'll laugh at you like Subdued does, but for an entirely different reason. Your vaudeville stage time is running out, so keep on dancing and entertaining her about being abused, pressed bitch.

That part didn't entertain but rather upset me, just like the comments made by Rory and Bronzeage about JBJ's mother.

 

[bronzeage]

That part didn't entertain but rather upset me, just like the comments made by Rory and Bronzeage about JBJ's mother.

Turn down the self righteous button. You're blinding me.

 

[subdued_passion]

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[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You're an old, ignorant, racist shitstain running on fumes in his twilight with nothing to offer humanity and who will die someday, likely soon.

On that day, if we are so lucky to hear about it happening on Lit, I'll laugh at you like Subdued does, but for an entirely different reason. Your vaudeville stage time is running out, so keep on dancing and entertaining her about being abused, pressed bitch.

Bad as it is I always put on a better show than you. Niggaz usta be entertaining now all they do is cry in their malt liquor, and go wildin.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Bad as it is I always put on a better show than you. Niggaz usta be entertaining now all they do is cry in their malt liquor, and go wildin.

The tears that rained down your cheeks when your adult betters taught your penis and asshole a whole new world other than pissing and shitting your soda and baloney lunches out of your fledgling shitstain body put on a better show than Cirque Du Soleil.

Oh you poor thing. My heart is bleeding for you. Come on, show us all some more of how you deal with your sociopathic shortcomings due to abuse by taking it out on women and people of color.

It's all you fucking got in your miserable life right now.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

The tears that rained down your cheeks when your adult betters taught your penis and asshole a whole new world other than pissing and shitting your soda and baloney lunches out of your fledgling shitstain body put on a better show than Cirque Du Soleil.

Oh you poor thing. My heart is bleeding for you. Come on, show us all some more of how you deal with your sociopathic shortcomings due to abuse by taking it out on women and people of color.

It's all you fucking got in your miserable life right now.

The People of Color tagged your ass as the Designated Hitter, cuz you so fucking worthless. No big loss when I chew you up and shit you on ROB.

 

[SalviaDivinorum]

...... Seriously, I couldn't have corrupted this guy, if anything I rehabilitated him.

You were in your mid twenties. Did it ever occur to you that a boy who had such a sexualized behaviour at 14 may have been sexually abused already and that you were reinforcing a damaged self image?

 

[IrezumiKiss]

The People of Color tagged your ass as the Designated Hitter, cuz you so fucking worthless. No big loss when I chew you up and shit you on ROB.

You must know all about DH's and other positions since apparently you were the catcher in the family as a kid.

Sitting on the bench musta hurt something awful, huh? Poor lil' racist shitstain!

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[Recidiva]

You were in your mid twenties. Did it ever occur to you that a boy who had such a sexualized behaviour at 14 may have been sexually abused already and that you were reinforcing a damaged self image?

He wasn't abused and he didn't have real sex until he got to college.

I do appreciate the concern and I'm sensitive to it and I'm not trying to be defensive or defend myself as doing the best thing I've ever done.

He was intelligent and pretty wonderful, and I'm not defending ME, I'm defending the fact that he was pretty extraordinary and I won't sell him out to make it seem like I am sorry, when I'm not.

I'm having some trouble thinking he had a damaged self image in any sense or form, but you'd have to know him, and I'm not going to introduce him to anybody.

I'm always aware that half of the wit-shredding posters on lit could be in their pre-teens.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You must know all about DH's and other positions since apparently you were the catcher in the family as a kid.

Sitting on the bench musta hurt something awful, huh? Poor lil' racist shitstain!

http://24.media.tumblr.com/45f0668fbf91495182a19cddd909b375/tumblr_mi340ePXEy1rhcghpo1_400.gif

He has more hair than me.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You were in your mid twenties. Did it ever occur to you that a boy who had such a sexualized behaviour at 14 may have been sexually abused already and that you were reinforcing a damaged self image?

They get the sexual abuse at school NOT on the internet.

 

[Recidiva]

I'm trying to think of a poster here that would be equivalent. Someone I really like. Oscuridad would be about the level of wit and fun and intelligence.

So say you post with Oscuridad on a site like this where you assume everyone is of age, even though you know, of course some of them aren't...

Then...about a year after you've posted with Oscuridad, someone tells you Oscuridad is really 16 years old and has been passing as a 35 year old man for three years. This is in confidence. You don't tell anyone, even the guy themselves.

Now here, I don't have a sexual relationship with Oscuridad, but it's in a sexual context.

When you find out one of your favorite guys is underage, do you cut off all contact? Do you stay good friends?

It's a question maybe lots of people don't face, but I did. I made my choice, and maybe I should have chosen differently, but I really am not sorry.

Posting with Oscuridad is a lot of fun, and I don't think if I chose not to post with him in some huff, that it would matter.

 

[lovetoread]

I hate that when one has the thread starter on ignore, one cannot even see it even when ones posted in it.

Anyways, I don't have double standards when it comes to sexual abuse.

Women who do it are just as guilty as men. The son didn't understand it when he was younger, but he does now.

I can see being friends after you found out about his age,but not after.

It's not like I haven't had this issue, anyone who is a female gamer has run into I believe.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Gimme a break all women will fuck a teen if they can get away with it. Its flattering when a young guy thinks youre hot.

You guys do nuthin but talk shit.

 

[Recidiva]

I hate that when one has the thread starter on ignore, one cannot even see it even when ones posted in it.

Anyways, I don't have double standards when it comes to sexual abuse.

Women who do it are just as guilty as men. The son didn't understand it when he was younger, but he does now.

I can see being friends after you found out about his age,but not after.

It's not like I haven't had this issue, anyone who is a female gamer has run into I believe.

And I am not defending myself, really. It's something that happened. I think as far as the thread is concerned, I was being honest about where I might have been guilty of a true crime due to passion, whether or not sexual passion or passion for the individual, the subject is not one that I expect everyone's going to blow off as fine.

I don't have those standards either, I'm lock 'em up and throw away the key.

The fact that I didn't actually have sex with him doesn't excuse that I was involved and could have done damage of which I am not aware. I don't think so, but I can't say for sure. I think I did him some good and he said it was nice to have someone who valued him for who he was and not what he did or his persona.

I've drawn my lines much more clearly and this happened in my first few years on the internet when I didn't really know how to navigate.

 

[alabama]

Can someone tell me why she's being given a pass on this?

 

[Recidiva]

Can someone tell me why she's being given a pass on this?

I'm not, I just don't have a time machine and I can't fix it.

It's done and I did it. If people choose to believe I'm a predatory maniac who goes out victimizing young men, there's really not much I can do about that.

 

[SalviaDivinorum]

He wasn't abused and he didn't have real sex until he got to college.

I do appreciate the concern and I'm sensitive to it and I'm not trying to be defensive or defend myself as doing the best thing I've ever done.

He was intelligent and pretty wonderful, and I'm not defending ME, I'm defending the fact that he was pretty extraordinary and I won't sell him out to make it seem like I am sorry, when I'm not.

I'm having some trouble thinking he had a damaged self image in any sense or form, but you'd have to know him, and I'm not going to introduce him to anybody.

I'm always aware that half of the wit-shredding posters on lit could be in their pre-teens.

You're right, I don't know him and I certainly wouldn't expect you to reveal his identity to anybody. Just a question: in what sense did you rehabilitate him?

I'm trying to think of a poster here that would be equivalent. Someone I really like. Oscuridad would be about the level of wit and fun and intelligence.

So say you post with Oscuridad on a site like this where you assume everyone is of age, even though you know, of course some of them aren't...

Then...about a year after you've posted with Oscuridad, someone tells you Oscuridad is really 16 years old and has been passing as a 35 year old man for three years. This is in confidence. You don't tell anyone, even the guy themselves.

Now here, I don't have a sexual relationship with Oscuridad, but it's in a sexual context.

When you find out one of your favorite guys is underage, do you cut off all contact? Do you stay good friends?

It's a question maybe lots of people don't face, but I did. I made my choice, and maybe I should have chosen differently, but I really am not sorry.

Posting with Oscuridad is a lot of fun, and I don't think if I chose not to post with him in some huff, that it would matter.

.....

 

[alabama]

And I am not defending myself, really. It's something that happened. I think as far as the thread is concerned, I was being honest about where I might have been guilty of a true crime due to passion, whether or not sexual passion or passion for the individual, the subject is not one that I expect everyone's going to blow off as fine.

I don't have those standards either, I'm lock 'em up and throw away the key.

The fact that I didn't actually have sex with him doesn't excuse that I was involved and could have done damage of which I am not aware. I don't think so, but I can't say for sure. I think I did him some good and he said it was nice to have someone who valued him for who he was and not what he did or his persona.

I've drawn my lines much more clearly and this happened in my first few years on the internet when I didn't really know how to navigate.

You are unfuckingbelievable.

First of many things I've seen in just two of your posts: you'd be laughing with the kid about bg's reaction but now you "may have but can't say for sure" how much you fucked him up.

I repeat....unbelievable. STFU for a change and think about what you are saying & doing. Jesus H. Christ.

You did him some good?!!!

 

[Recidiva]

You're right, I don't know him and I certainly wouldn't expect you to reveal his identity to anybody. Just a question: in what sense did you rehabilitate him?

.....

He got to see that he could just be who he was and somebody would like him for his wit and not his sexual favors. That I didn't slap him down for his age or want him around because he would perform for me.