how to turn off pms?

Little_Sara

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Im new here and I'm trying to surf around. The problem is have 37 new pms and I can't make a move without clearing 3 popups at a time.

Thank you, in advance
 
That's what a name like "little Sarah" will get you around these parts. The pervy sharks see new meat.

Anyway, simply go to User CP. Then Edit Options. Under that you can enable or disable PMs. If you like the creepy PMs about guys and their dongs, but just don't like the pop-ups, you can disable that too.

Hope this helps.
 
I read the title and thought she was talking about PMS. I was about to say that that's nature's way of saying, "You failed at getting pregnant again." There's no way to turn that off without seeing a doctor. Ha!
 
That's what a name like "little Sarah" will get you around these parts. The pervy sharks see new meat.
OMG, this.

Fucking predatory losers. Don't feel like you OWE them a response.
 
There's also a setting to let you have PMs on but not get the pop up window.
 
Thanks Ill just keep them off for now. 58 in 24 hours. Jeesh. Some were very nice and welcoming. Ill figure it out.
 
Thanks Ill just keep them off for now. 58 in 24 hours. Jeesh. Some were very nice and welcoming. Ill figure it out.

It's incredible, isn't it? I've been back here for about a week and I've had to empty my PM box multiple times already. 150 seems like a lot but it fills up in no time. There are some interesting messages amongst the 'wanna cam' types, so apologies to anyone who has PM'd me with a polite, literate message to which I haven't yet responded - I just can't keep up!
 
It's incredible, isn't it? I've been back here for about a week and I've had to empty my PM box multiple times already. 150 seems like a lot but it fills up in no time. There are some interesting messages amongst the 'wanna cam' types, so apologies to anyone who has PM'd me with a polite, literate message to which I haven't yet responded - I just can't keep up!

Once you get more posts under your belt, your PM box size increases.

Mine is at 500.
 
Then you can get nearly three times the requests to watch a dude wank!!!!

Well, over thee times (500:150), but who's counting?

And yeah, welcome to Dickerotica, where 90% of the men are fapping 24/7.
 
Little_Sara, instead of turning all your PMs off you can put the goofs on ignore. Click on the users name and it will tale you to their profile page. Toward the upper right part of the page there is Put (owners name) on ignore. When you click on it you should get no more PMs from him nor will you be able to see any of his posts on the boards.

That way you can PM with those you want to and still shut down the jerks, then delete the PMs from the clowns.

I hope this helps.

Mike
 
This thread! I know it not really funny, especially since I have a head cold right now but I just laughed a lot reading this thread. Dickerotica ... LMAO
 
This thread! I know it not really funny, especially since I have a head cold right now but I just laughed a lot reading this thread. Dickerotica ... LMAO

Not funny to Little_Sara and others like her with stressed pm boxes, but I'm laughing too. They really should change the name; Dickerotica's much more apt.

I only get one, maybe two every few days, sometimes per week, sometimes more. I guess that's the result of my handle... Couldn't think of anything. Looked around the room, saw the name of a butterfly in my Sims game (nerdy, I know), the same color as my hair at the time. Sold! Apparently butterflies are pm proof. ;)
 
Not funny to Little_Sara and others like her with stressed pm boxes, but I'm laughing too. They really should change the name; Dickerotica's much more apt.

I only get one, maybe two every few days, sometimes per week, sometimes more. I guess that's the result of my handle... Couldn't think of anything. Looked around the room, saw the name of a butterfly in my Sims game (nerdy, I know), the same color as my hair at the time. Sold! Apparently butterflies are pm proof. ;)

Your name is a little bit sexually ambiguous (genderly ambiguous?), and the 90% fapper dudes might not have time to spend looking at profiles.

I rarely get unsolicited pms and have yet to receive one offer of a pic of someones genitals. I don't believe my name is that ambiguous so I wonder how recipients are selected and targeted? Is it possibly to do with where you post?

That actually surprises me. You should appeal to Laurel. That's just not right.
 
Your name is a little bit sexually ambiguous (genderly ambiguous?), and the 90% fapper dudes might not have time to spend looking at profiles.

That actually surprises me. You should appeal to Laurel. That's just not right.

Sweet, so I'm a dude by assumed consensus. Awesome. It sounds more feminine to me, but what the hell do I know. It's not like I'm Mission_Beer or Mission_BigDick. My posts are clearly female. Not saying I want fapper pms, but it gets boring when you get nothing for weeks.
 
Sweet, so I'm a dude by assumed consensus. Awesome. It sounds more feminine to me, but what the hell do I know. It's not like I'm Mission_Beer or Mission_BigDick. My posts are clearly female. Not saying I want fapper pms, but it gets boring when you get nothing for weeks.

I'm pretty sure if this post was anywhere other than the HT forum, it would be an open invite for "daddies" and the like to come and creep on you.
 
That's what a name like "little Sarah" will get you around these parts. The pervy sharks see new meat.

Anyway, simply go to User CP. Then Edit Options. Under that you can enable or disable PMs. If you like the creepy PMs about guys and their dongs, but just don't like the pop-ups, you can disable that too.

Hope this helps.

Thank you for the IT advice, I will try it when I have the time.

BTW, my name IS Sara, not 'cumfuckme'. So what kind of messages do you get with your Lit handle? :confused:

And also, BTW, I like Daddies:mad: I just dont like shitheads.
 
BTW, my name IS Sara, not 'cumfuckme'. So what kind of messages do you get with your Lit handle? :confused:


I chose Subdued_Passion for my ID when I joined completely ignorant of the forums and the activities within, so imagine my shock and surprise when I'd get messages from all kinds of shitheads throwing their dom/sub fantasies at me.

Funny thing is all the Doms are certain that I'm a sub.
All the subs are certain I'm a Domme.
Everyone else thinks I'm a man.
And no one believes I'm Indian.

I've learned to have fun at the expense of other people's assumptions. :devil:
 
I chose Subdued_Passion for my ID when I joined completely ignorant of the forums and the activities within, so imagine my shock and surprise when I'd get messages from all kinds of shitheads throwing their dom/sub fantasies at me.

Funny thing is all the Doms are certain that I'm a sub.
All the subs are certain I'm a Domme.
Everyone else thinks I'm a man.
And no one believes I'm Indian.

I've learned to have fun at the expense of other people's assumptions. :devil:

Touche, good advice.
 
Sweet, so I'm a dude by assumed consensus. Awesome. It sounds more feminine to me, but what the hell do I know. It's not like I'm Mission_Beer or Mission_BigDick. My posts are clearly female. Not saying I want fapper pms, but it gets boring when you get nothing for weeks.

Go to the Personals forum. Make a thread: "I'm a woman looking for some PMs".

Prepare to be emptying your PM box every 10 minutes.
 
Go to the Personals forum. Make a thread: "I'm a woman looking for some PMs".

Prepare to be emptying your PM box every 10 minutes.

Thank you for the advice sir, lol. Although that may be a tad more excessive than I'd like. And I doubt saying "I rarely get pms, hey I'm not a dude," is exactly the phrase every Daddy on Lit was waiting to read before sending out a surge of pms. ;) I'm good. I'm just too new to really have any Lit-friends, so without an influx of messages, Lit gets boring. It's very clique-y. It's tougher than I thought to get any good banter around here. Why do females never pm?? C'mon! Let's be friends! Girl power or some shit! :heart: (and with that, all the feminists flip me the bird)
 
Thank you for the IT advice, I will try it when I have the time.

BTW, my name IS Sara, not 'cumfuckme'. So what kind of messages do you get with your Lit handle? :confused:

And also, BTW, I like Daddies:mad: I just dont like shitheads.

Hahaha. I was kidding about your name, mostly. I was just implying that you had a girl's name and that was enough to get a million PMs.

What kind of messages do I get? None really. Well, this last week I have, but that was based on a specific thread. Other than that, I do not get many messages at all. But I'm a guy, so it's different.

@Mission- The HT Cafe is a decent place for some banter. Or the Playground, if you really want a lot of flirty type messages. The HT cafe is slow paced. But fun.
 
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