Daddy Fetish

[Rob1514]

How warm and beckoning some threads appear to the outsider. For those who know what day it is, I have dallied on the doorstep her for a while, unsure if I would meed the demanding standards required to be accepted as a ''Daddy'', but no longer!

The dalliance at the door has payed off. The thinly veiled double entente of little men, feverishly stoking the egos of attention seeking women aping 'Girlies' to cover their inferiority complexes is beneath me.

I have, by accident and good fortune more than design, forged what I know will be a lifelong bond here, with someone good, true and standing tall.

Thanks for indulging me with your advice a while ago, about who could tutor me on the schoolboy art of becoming, by your definition, a ''Daddy'', but on reflection, perish the thought.

I'll stay in the real world of adult men and women and the company of those I deem worthy to command my attention.

Further reading from the real world here:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=903130

There really wasn’t any need to be bitter and insulting. You never got it, and maybe your bitterness comes from the fact that you couldn’t seem to find what some of the people here, have. Most of the daddies here are in fact daddies in RL, and they like and even love daddying (that should be a word). All the things that a good dad is and a good dad provides are the same things that most women want in their partner. Take all the best things that a “daddy” and his “baby girl” have in their relationship, such as: unconditional love, devotion, adoration, someone who listens and comforts, someone who fiercely defends and protects, etc., and add that to an adult relationship and it can be THE best.

You don’t get it, you don’t understand it, you don’t like it … fine, but there was no need to be insulting. Close your mouth. Your insults are way off the mark, regardless. If you spent any significant time here you’d know that the women here are sexy and sweet, but they are also intelligent, educated and strong, and they will step on your dick if you cross them. They all have very busy lives and come here to be with friends, relax and play. Unfortunately, the price of coming here is putting up with people like you that seem compelled spout off.

You really seem tortured. I hope you can keep it closed and move on.

 

[RjThoughts]

How warm and beckoning some threads appear to the outsider. For those who know what day it is, I have dallied on the doorstep her for a while, unsure if I would meed the demanding standards required to be accepted as a ''Daddy'', but no longer!

The dalliance at the door has payed off. The thinly veiled double entente of little men, feverishly stoking the egos of attention seeking women aping 'Girlies' to cover their inferiority complexes is beneath me.

I have, by accident and good fortune more than design, forged what I know will be a lifelong bond here, with someone good, true and standing tall.

Thanks for indulging me with your advice a while ago, about who could tutor me on the schoolboy art of becoming, by your definition, a ''Daddy'', but on reflection, perish the thought.

I'll stay in the real world of adult men and women and the company of those I deem worthy to command my attention.

Further reading from the real world here:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=903130

Being a "Daddy" can be as demanding as being one in real life. You have to be able to take the good with the bad. It's not all about sex, and it never was, nor will ever be. If you possessed the maturity to ask the questions, to sit and observe what it means to be a DD then you'd have realized this isn't a "sexual thing".

You're not tutored to be one, you're not taught either. You either are or aren't, and from your bitterness shown across several threads, you're not even mature to read "50 Shades of Earl Grey"!

 

[annayarnkitten]

Very true Rj

You're not tutored to be one, you're not taught either. You either are or aren't,




This is the same for being a "Baby Girl", it cannot be taught. I am sometimes shocked at it's depth in me, how ingrained it is.




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[photograph]

How warm and beckoning some threads appear to the outsider. For those who know what day it is, I have dallied on the doorstep her for a while, unsure if I would meed the demanding standards required to be accepted as a ''Daddy'', but no longer!

The dalliance at the door has payed off. The thinly veiled double entente of little men, feverishly stoking the egos of attention seeking women aping 'Girlies' to cover their inferiority complexes is beneath me.

I have, by accident and good fortune more than design, forged what I know will be a lifelong bond here, with someone good, true and standing tall.

Thanks for indulging me with your advice a while ago, about who could tutor me on the schoolboy art of becoming, by your definition, a ''Daddy'', but on reflection, perish the thought.

I'll stay in the real world of adult men and women and the company of those I deem worthy to command my attention.

Further reading from the real world here:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=903130

I originally was just going to gloss over your post, but I just can't seem to bite my tongue on this one.

As many have said, being a "Daddy" isn't something you can be taught. It is a frame of mind, a personality and/or character trait. It can be nurtured, expanded upon, but it is not something that can be taught.

It is much the same with being a "baby girl." I don't have daddy issues, nor do I have an inferiority complex. I simply enjoy the companionship of an older man, because men my age seem too wrapped up in their own self-egos to worry about someone else. My particular Daddy is caring and warm, and he does not partake in this thread.

I'm not some attention seeking whore who posts here merely for the asshat PM's and condescending posts. I didn't start posting here until I had an established DD/lg relationship. I joined this thread to interact with like-minded individuals, which is the point of a forum. I am a submissive, who happens to enjoy the particular sub-culture of BDSM that is DD/lg. But, being a submissive does not equate to being a doormat. If you were to meet me in public, chances are you wouldn't think I was a submissive. I'm a confident woman, with a decent amount of intelligence.

You don't understand the dynamics of the DD/lg relationship, and that's fine. No one is forcing you to participate in this thread and no one is forcing you to understand the relationship dynamics.

As for the real world, reality is what you make it. Good for you for finding someone who is compatible with you. As for your attention, suffice it to say that I'm glad to be one of those deemed unworthy.

 

[INeedLove]

How warm and beckoning some threads appear to the outsider. For those who know what day it is, I have dallied on the doorstep her for a while, unsure if I would meed the demanding standards required to be accepted as a ''Daddy'', but no longer!

The dalliance at the door has payed off. The thinly veiled double entente of little men, feverishly stoking the egos of attention seeking women aping 'Girlies' to cover their inferiority complexes is beneath me.

I have, by accident and good fortune more than design, forged what I know will be a lifelong bond here, with someone good, true and standing tall.

Thanks for indulging me with your advice a while ago, about who could tutor me on the schoolboy art of becoming, by your definition, a ''Daddy'', but on reflection, perish the thought.

I'll stay in the real world of adult men and women and the company of those I deem worthy to command my attention.

Further reading from the real world here:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=903130

You have choices in this world. Why you'd choose to write a negative post (instead of simply not posting here) is something only you can understand. Have a good life. Move on.

 

[Goldminingsux]

You have choices in this world. Why you'd choose to write a negative post (instead of simply not posting here) is something only you can understand. Have a good life. Move on.

well said gorgeous

 

[peachesmelba]

Ugg, just read back a few..... Sorry everyone!


http://media.tumblr.com/bb43786a9b31e81fce63d14ecd05b164/tumblr_inline_mp1253sOPy1qz4rgp.jpg

"Once again beautiful sister - YOU have nothing to apologize for, unlike some of the trolls who seem compelled to hang around - contribute NOTHING and then spew all over the rest of us in a vain attempt to......make everyone else as miserable as they are. Sad, lonely, little people trapped in their lonely little worlds....Not even worth dusting off my baseball bat for."

 

[mutato]

Good evening to all the wonderful babygirls and the Daddies that care for them.

I know I haven't been here much lately, I've been busy dealing with drama and getting ready for my trip to see my Angel. Well the time has come. Tomorrow morning I get on the plane to take me to her. In the afternoon, about 3:30 I'll be giving her the first of many hugs and kisses. I'll be there for the next week so I doubt I'll have much time to get online and visit. I'll be keeping in touch with the wonderful and lovely INL during my trip if anyone needs to get a hold of me.

Cookie, I know you're headed out to see Daddy Stan the same time I am. Please travel safe and have fun!

There's way too much as usual to catch up on, so I'll send out and (((HUGS))) to all the wonderful babygirls and *lowfives* to the Daddies. Have fun and I'll check back in once I get back home with my Angel. Thanks for all the support, it means a lot to both of us!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

*sighs deeply and begins the lecture*

Ok, Foxseeker, I am sorry you did not find what you were looking for in this thread. What the majority of us offer is friendship and often times intelligent discourse on the Daddy/ baby girl variety of D/s...

I did NOT come to this thread looking for my Daddy. I came to this thread seeking companionship of like-minded individuals. And Guess what? I found it.

I happen to think that those who come into this thread for the ONLY purpose of finding their little or Daddy are perhaps a little delusional, because while it can happen, it doesn't usually. In my opinion there are too many variables to work out when establishing a connection of this magnitude and relying on one forum thread to form a foundation such as the one required for a successful Daddy Dom/ baby girl.. is, well simply not enough.

I'm not saying it can't happen.. but to be upset over (what were you upset over again? because I kind of missed the point of your insult?)

Ah, yes, and then there is your blanket statement insult to the women in here. That's what prompted a response from me. I could have offered sympathy towards your failure to bond with someone here. I'm as nurturing as they come... ( just as my Daddy who probably gets tired of me mothering him ...)

But to just outright insult us as "attention seeking women aping 'Girlies' to cover their inferiority complexes"

Babe.. I know I'm not in that category, and neither are most of the "regulars" who come in here to socialize.

As soon as you are old enough to understand, I hope you will apologize to those who were on the receiving end of your tirade.

I am thrilled that you have found someone in real life with which to "bond."

So have I, Photograph, Cookie,Mutato, Peaches, RJ, FollowmeNow... just to name a few. We are NOT just playing a game online with someone. Our significant others are very real whether we can physically be with them daily, or not.

You discount the validity of relationships you obviously know nothing about.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Now, Moving right along...

My first day of work was AWESOME!!! I've essentially made a lateral move into a completely different industry. Same basic stuff.. analysis of error reports/numbers/ codes/ corrections.. I get my stuff in the morning and I am left alone to get it done... Perfect.

And after 11 years of not working... I'm pleased as punch at my new salary.


Hugs to everyone then I'm off to check a few more threads.... then it's beddy-bye time for me..

 

[StoneWorker]

Out with you

How warm and beckoning some threads appear to the outsider. For those who know what day it is, I have dallied on the doorstep her for a while, unsure if I would meed the demanding standards required to be accepted as a ''Daddy'', but no longer!

The dalliance at the door has payed off. The thinly veiled double entente of little men, feverishly stoking the egos of attention seeking women aping 'Girlies' to cover their inferiority complexes is beneath me.

I have, by accident and good fortune more than design, forged what I know will be a lifelong bond here, with someone good, true and standing tall.

Thanks for indulging me with your advice a while ago, about who could tutor me on the schoolboy art of becoming, by your definition, a ''Daddy'', but on reflection, perish the thought.

I'll stay in the real world of adult men and women and the company of those I deem worthy to command my attention.

Further reading from the real world here:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=903130

Wow! Go to work, turn your back for a second, and this walks in.

It's impossible to top the gracious responses to your strange tirade. What I will say to you is read them. You clearly don't belong here, but maybe following the actually very kind replies might help you in your path to becoming a man. Most of the men here have 20 or even 30 years on you and know it is a daily struggle to be the best man you can be and today you have failed miserably.

If you were a Daddy, your relationships elsewhere would have led you here, not originated here, or in some other 'workshop' as you seem to see it. The relationships find you, as it were, not you out seeking them. That's where the work and focus starts...the only demanding standards you should be satisfying are your own and acceptance should be sought from your LG. I hope you one day understand that.

 

[StoneWorker]

run with it

Now, Moving right along...

My first day of work was AWESOME!!! I've essentially made a lateral move into a completely different industry. Same basic stuff.. analysis of error reports/numbers/ codes/ corrections.. I get my stuff in the morning and I am left alone to get it done... Perfect.

And after 11 years of not working... I'm pleased as punch at my new salary.


Hugs to everyone then I'm off to check a few more threads.... then it's beddy-bye time for me..

Congradulations on a fabulous first day! It feels great to work and to know you kick ass at it!

 

[tiedtits4me]

Now, Moving right along...

My first day of work was AWESOME!!! I've essentially made a lateral move into a completely different industry. Same basic stuff.. analysis of error reports/numbers/ codes/ corrections.. I get my stuff in the morning and I am left alone to get it done... Perfect.

And after 11 years of not working... I'm pleased as punch at my new salary.


Hugs to everyone then I'm off to check a few more threads.... then it's beddy-bye time for me..

Yay that's so great to hear.

 

[sereneone4u]

There really wasn’t any need to be bitter and insulting. You never got it, and maybe your bitterness comes from the fact that you couldn’t seem to find what some of the people here, have. Most of the daddies here are in fact daddies in RL, and they like and even love daddying (that should be a word). All the things that a good dad is and a good dad provides are the same things that most women want in their partner. Take all the best things that a “daddy” and his “baby girl” have in their relationship, such as: unconditional love, devotion, adoration, someone who listens and comforts, someone who fiercely defends and protects, etc., and add that to an adult relationship and it can be THE best.

You don’t get it, you don’t understand it, you don’t like it … fine, but there was no need to be insulting. Close your mouth. Your insults are way off the mark, regardless. If you spent any significant time here you’d know that the women here are sexy and sweet, but they are also intelligent, educated and strong, and they will step on your dick if you cross them. They all have very busy lives and come here to be with friends, relax and play. Unfortunately, the price of coming here is putting up with people like you that seem compelled spout off.

You really seem tortured. I hope you can keep it closed and move on.

You are awesome pie, Daddy.

 

[sereneone4u]

Being a "Daddy" can be as demanding as being one in real life. You have to be able to take the good with the bad. It's not all about sex, and it never was, nor will ever be. If you possessed the maturity to ask the questions, to sit and observe what it means to be a DD then you'd have realized this isn't a "sexual thing".

You're not tutored to be one, you're not taught either. You either are or aren't, and from your bitterness shown across several threads, you're not even mature to read "50 Shades of Earl Grey"!

Burn!

 

[sereneone4u]

Now, Moving right along...

My first day of work was AWESOME!!! I've essentially made a lateral move into a completely different industry. Same basic stuff.. analysis of error reports/numbers/ codes/ corrections.. I get my stuff in the morning and I am left alone to get it done... Perfect.

And after 11 years of not working... I'm pleased as punch at my new salary.


Hugs to everyone then I'm off to check a few more threads.... then it's beddy-bye time for me..

So happy for you, RA.

 

[sereneone4u]

How warm and beckoning some threads appear to the outsider. For those who know what day it is, I have dallied on the doorstep her for a while, unsure if I would meed the demanding standards required to be accepted as a ''Daddy'', but no longer!

The dalliance at the door has payed off. The thinly veiled double entente of little men, feverishly stoking the egos of attention seeking women aping 'Girlies' to cover their inferiority complexes is beneath me.

I have, by accident and good fortune more than design, forged what I know will be a lifelong bond here, with someone good, true and standing tall.

Thanks for indulging me with your advice a while ago, about who could tutor me on the schoolboy art of becoming, by your definition, a ''Daddy'', but on reflection, perish the thought.

I'll stay in the real world of adult men and women and the company of those I deem worthy to command my attention.

Further reading from the real world here:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=903130

Your post does not anger me.

I just feel pity for you.

A wounded person wanting to wound others.

I hope you heal.

 

[INeedLove]

"Once again beautiful sister - YOU have nothing to apologize for, unlike some of the trolls who seem compelled to hang around - contribute NOTHING and then spew all over the rest of us in a vain attempt to......make everyone else as miserable as they are. Sad, lonely, little people trapped in their lonely little worlds....Not even worth dusting off my baseball bat for."

LOL!! You make me smile, sis!

Good evening to all the wonderful babygirls and the Daddies that care for them.

I know I haven't been here much lately, I've been busy dealing with drama and getting ready for my trip to see my Angel. Well the time has come. Tomorrow morning I get on the plane to take me to her. In the afternoon, about 3:30 I'll be giving her the first of many hugs and kisses. I'll be there for the next week so I doubt I'll have much time to get online and visit. I'll be keeping in touch with the wonderful and lovely INL during my trip if anyone needs to get a hold of me.

Cookie, I know you're headed out to see Daddy Stan the same time I am. Please travel safe and have fun!

There's way too much as usual to catch up on, so I'll send out and (((HUGS))) to all the wonderful babygirls and *lowfives* to the Daddies. Have fun and I'll check back in once I get back home with my Angel. Thanks for all the support, it means a lot to both of us!

Wishing you safe travels into your Angel's arms! YAY!!!

Now, Moving right along...

My first day of work was AWESOME!!! I've essentially made a lateral move into a completely different industry. Same basic stuff.. analysis of error reports/numbers/ codes/ corrections.. I get my stuff in the morning and I am left alone to get it done... Perfect.

And after 11 years of not working... I'm pleased as punch at my new salary.


Hugs to everyone then I'm off to check a few more threads.... then it's beddy-bye time for me..

Congratulations on a wonderful start to your new life! You've come so far in a short amount of time. I'm proud of you.

 

[tiedtits4me]

Hi Serene and INL.

I hope everyone has a great day. Especially thinking of Mutato, Angel, Cookie and Stan today.

 

[peachesmelba]

Now, Moving right along...

My first day of work was AWESOME!!! I've essentially made a lateral move into a completely different industry. Same basic stuff.. analysis of error reports/numbers/ codes/ corrections.. I get my stuff in the morning and I am left alone to get it done... Perfect.

And after 11 years of not working... I'm pleased as punch at my new salary.


Hugs to everyone then I'm off to check a few more threads.... then it's beddy-bye time for me..

"That's WONDERFUL! I'm so very, very happy for you. Glad and excited about ALL the recent changes in your life that have you smiling again."

 

[peachesmelba]

"First let me say I loved reading everyone's responses to the 'wannabe' - I have the smartest, most thoughtful (and kindest) family of Sister Baby Girls and Daddies on the planet... (Not that he is probably perceptive enough to realize that from the responses but I did).

Second - to Cookie and Daddy Stan, and Daddy Mutato and Angel I send love and hugs and all my best wishes for a fantastic fun time - may it be everything that you wish for and more.

Finally, to all the beautiful Baby Girls who grace this thread and to all of the many Daddies who keep us safe and loved, here and elsewhere in our lives - Happy Tuesday!"

 

[foxseeker]

Being a "Daddy" can be as demanding as being one in real life. You have to be able to take the good with the bad. It's not all about sex, and it never was, nor will ever be. If you possessed the maturity to ask the questions, to sit and observe what it means to be a DD then you'd have realized this isn't a "sexual thing".

You're not tutored to be one, you're not taught either. You either are or aren't, and from your bitterness shown across several threads, you're not even mature to read "50 Shades of Earl Grey"!

I was going to attempt a reply to all, especially the more insightful, intelligent and constructive ones. However, I have to deal with the above ill informed prescriptive drivel first, from the part-time electro-binomial amœba and by extension wire puller who wrote it.

You Rj, amaze me, who would have ever comprehended the thought that being a ''Daddy'' was not all about sex, stone me! Do you mean it involves caring, sensitivity, loving, providing, protecting, faithfulness, honoring and all that incidental whatever as well?

You presumptuous little erk, when I first dallied on the fringes of this thread, I wondered aloud about my own potential standing if I became a regular here and was offered, yes offered guidance, the very futility of which appalled me, I never asked

I won't even bother with most of the rest. I was going to point out that being a life long organ grinder, I don't depend on the approval of their simian subordinates, but that would be offensive to some, so I'll just remain secure in that knowledge.

Finally your pathetic mixed metaphor,patently centered around your own preferences in literature, does make me want o conclude with a concerned word of caution:
When you clamber up that otherwise unused pile of books in your signature, to reach your high chair, don't hesitate to ask your ''Mommy'' for help.......

 

[RjThoughts]

I was going to attempt a reply to all, especially the more insightful, intelligent and constructive ones. However, I have to deal with the above ill informed prescriptive drivel first, from the part-time electro-binomial amœba and by extension wire puller who wrote it.

You Rj, amaze me, who would have ever comprehended the thought that being a ''Daddy'' was not all about sex, stone me! Do you mean it involves caring, sensitivity, loving, providing, protecting, faithfulness, honoring and all that incidental whatever as well?

You presumptuous little erk, when I first dallied on the fringes of this thread, I wondered aloud about my own potential standing if I became a regular here and was offered, yes offered guidance, the very futility of which appalled me, I never asked

I won't even bother with most of the rest. I was going to point out that being a life long organ grinder, I don't depend on the approval of their simian subordinates, but that would be offensive to some, so I'll just remain secure in that knowledge.

Finally your pathetic mixed metaphor,patently centered around your own preferences in literature, does make me want o conclude with a concerned word of caution:
When you clamber up that otherwise unused pile of books in your signature, to reach your high chair, don't hesitate to ask your ''Mommy'' for help.......

We get it: this thread is not for you. Why come back and "defend" yourself? If we, more specifically, I, offend you, why come back at all? Why not just unsubscribe to the thread and have us on ignore?

To me, you're grandstanding, trying to impress someone. To what end is this message, what's the "end game"?

Do yourself a favor: Unsubscribe and just move on with the life you've created for yourself.

 

[RjThoughts]

And Foxseeker, the book I mentioned exists. You would have known this if you did a wee bit of research.

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTGATr0NnFLkiYAesxq85lLFa6nt7hu2Lv9TmE0_BYPW1ntkSH6ag

 

[sereneone4u]

I was going to attempt a reply to all, especially the more insightful, intelligent and constructive ones. However, I have to deal with the above ill informed prescriptive drivel first, from the part-time electro-binomial amœba and by extension wire puller who wrote it.

You Rj, amaze me, who would have ever comprehended the thought that being a ''Daddy'' was not all about sex, stone me! Do you mean it involves caring, sensitivity, loving, providing, protecting, faithfulness, honoring and all that incidental whatever as well?

You presumptuous little erk, when I first dallied on the fringes of this thread, I wondered aloud about my own potential standing if I became a regular here and was offered, yes offered guidance, the very futility of which appalled me, I never asked

I won't even bother with most of the rest. I was going to point out that being a life long organ grinder, I don't depend on the approval of their simian subordinates, but that would be offensive to some, so I'll just remain secure in that knowledge.

Finally your pathetic mixed metaphor,patently centered around your own preferences in literature, does make me want o conclude with a concerned word of caution:
When you clamber up that otherwise unused pile of books in your signature, to reach your high chair, don't hesitate to ask your ''Mommy'' for help.......

Can I add delusional to wounded?

I suggest therapy.