female dominatrix
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Jonny55431
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Find a girl who is into it.
Even if you do convince your gf to dominate you, the chances are she won't know what she's doing or won't be good at it.
This is probably why it makes sense to have a wife and a mistress
theslutbunny
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I can play both roles quite well. If a girl hasn't done it before, she'll be quite edgy and nervous (and as the above says, probably won't be very good at it). Lots of shyness/taboo issues to get over before you can really get into it.
I think you need to be a bit more clear on what you mean by "dominate me" since that is kinda a broad statement, could encompass a LOT of things...I would suggest with starting small..make a few requests like: would she be interested in tying you down and riding you..then gauge her reaction from there and let her take the lead on the next step...
Find a girl who is into it.
Even if you do convince your gf to dominate you, the chances are she won't know what she's doing or won't be good at it.
This is probably why it makes sense to have a wife and a mistress
I could never cheat on her. And she is also carrying my child so I would never leave her either. But a lot of the hesitatnt comes from not being openminded. I want to get fucked in the ass by her and made to lick up my spunk after but she isn't to keen on it yet.
First I applaud your commitment to her.
Second , just realize that your desires and hers may be misaligned ( at least for now) but that doesn't mean they can't get closer together but it may take time...a few years ago my wife most likely would have thought I was some big perv if is suggested such a thing and now it's a regular part of our life.
