Hello A/all

[PRIMARY.]

I'm new to this forum and would like to thank everyone that made me welcome to the chat.
I look forward to meeting more of you as time goes on

 

[cellis]

Welcome, Primary...

Stop by the New Faces Thread and say hello...

I also encourage you to read the 3 stickies at the beginning of this forum... There is a lot of information for you there...

 

[KillerMuffin]

<--- Token 'Nilla


Hello! Welcome to the forum. We're always glad to see new faces.

You don't have to concern yourself with A/all. We don't do chatroom honorifics here, it's too difficult to read. Just write as normal.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Welcome

I personally like to see new people. Just be yourself and be polite. No need to bow and scrape.


Ebony<who thinks bowing and scraping and chat room behaviour is bad for the psyche>

 

[lilredwolph]

Feeling a bit dimwitted

But could someone please direct me to where you all chat? Thank You

 

[KillerMuffin]

Don't feel bad!

We don't chat. Most of us, not me though, have had a lot of experience with BDSM chats on other domains.

Lit has two chats here, a forum one down at the bottom of the main forum index and a javachat that you can get to from the first page of story index page. I don't know if there are BDSM chats there or not, I haven't been in a while.

 

[cymbidia]

Let me make this very clear:

This is a forum for the discussion of everyday life, skin-to-skin versions of BDSM relationships and sexual play.

We don't "chat". This isn't a "chatroom". We don't flirt outrageously here and you'll not see any collaring or sceneing or A/all'ing or bowing and scraping here.

We talk.

We listen.

We help each other through rough spots.

We learn.

We cry together sometimes, and laugh, too.

We grow as people.

We are a close-knit and supportive community of real people.

Any questions?

 

[RisiaSkye]

Alright, kiddos--take a chill pill. One post letting PRIMARY know the customs of the realm would be sufficient, don't you think? This many posts on the subject just seems like overkill--and a rather intimidating overkill at that.

PRIMARY, welcome. Drop in and say hello on my "New Faces" thread. Read the stickies, get to know the native customs. You are among friends, if you choose to be.

 

[Guest]

I'd like to extend a welcome to you!

Be well.

 

[PRIMARY.]

point taken .......my error

I usualy equate discusion boards with the chat rooms that are linked to them ..............next time i will read more before jumping in head first.

Thanks to all who welcomed me

Paul

 

[cymbidia]

I apologize most humbly for my strikingly unkind hello to you, PRIMARY. It was a clear case of a pre-menstrual, post-chocolate binge, lack-of-sex moment, not that that excuses it.

Can i have a do-over?









Hello PRIMARY. Welcome to the BDSM forum at Lit. If you will, take a few moments to read the stickies that are obvious as you walk in the door. The kinds of things we value as an community.

All new faces are welcome, yours among them. We learn and grow, live or die, with the influx of new ideas, questions and opinions.

Welcome,
cym

 

[PRIMARY.]

Thank you cymbidia

Hey we all have our bad days so no problemo

i have read the stickys now ( should have done that first Doh ) and quite a few of the theads and like what i see. A group of people truly commited to helping others though discusion and advice. Not a common thing to find in this mad world these days .

till next time
Paul

 

[CarolineOh]

cym and paul

I like that. Graciousness is a very good thing.

 

[SirVPL]

Wisdom

A wise man watches and learns. He only speaks on what he learned. He who learns, teaches. He who teaches learns.

 

[wicked woman]

A wise man watches and learns. He only speaks on what he learned. He who learns, teaches. He who teaches learns.

Wise men don't make a habit of bumping threads over 10 years old.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

A wise man watches and learns. He only speaks on what he learned. He who learns, teaches. He who teaches learns.

Wise men don't make a habit of bumping threads over 10 years old.

WW, I think it's well-established now that he has definitively proven that he has not watched, nor learned, yet spoken on topics of which he has no more knowledge or insight than the "author" of "50 Shades."

 

[leighannste17]

Yeah I never really bothered much with introductions. I'm not a star, this is not Hollywood, and I don't care if I ever become famous. They seem like they have enough problems trying to find privacy.

I'm just not much of an attention-whore. I don't like to be the center of attention, some would call me the, "follower." Because I enjoy sitting in the back-round with a bottle of wine, watching people get spanked, or kicked around, and I just smile, and wave. I'm more like a closet, female, sadist, but a sensual, friendly sadist named, "Leigh Ann."

But that is my introduction. If a bunch of people don't know who I'am, oh well, who needs popularity anyways.