Is there such a thing as intelligent dirty talk?

[NeonSubtlety]

I don't really do it for the purpose of cybering or getting off. But I do like the idea of words being poetic and dirty. I like to brainstorm in the "arouse me in 5 words" thread. It might be less intelligent than flowery -- but I think those two things are at least kin.

 

[BadTeacher49m]

"Frighteningly difficult" indeed. Somehow though I think a teacher gone bad might be quite good at it...

*laughs* Perhaps. I have gotten a compliment or two... when inspired by the right partner, of course.

 

[InsatiableDsire]

*laughs* Perhaps. I have gotten a compliment or two... when inspired by the right partner, of course.

Perhaps I can inspire you sometime

 

[LeatherChaps]

For me, there needs to be some build up, some character development. Exotic locations are fun and even time warps can be interesting. It help immensely knowing something about the wants and deeper desires of my chat partner. Like most things you get out of it what you put into it.

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

I would be less concerned with the other person being a Shakespeare as long as he is able to hold up his end of the conversation with some level of imagination. Words like fuck or cock are fine, if that is what the situation calls for. I'd rather that than something like "my rock hard shaft strokes into your love tunnel" or some such garbage. Sometimes sex is dirty and messy, and you need dirty, messy words to describe it.

"as long as he(she) is able to hold up his(her) end of the conversation with some level of imagination"

This has been my experience to date... Lack of imagination to help build the passion.... Dare I say this occurs primarily with the younger crowd?

Perhaps I'm not engaging the right age level you say? There seems to be this phenomenon whereby the older women prefer younger men! As an older gentleman I have more opportunities with the younger women...

But when the stars do align, it is indeed a most stimulating and powerful experience!

 

[dougsan]

I am a newbie, hanging around for but a couple of weeks if that. But, I have read most of the postings and I've chatted with a few Liters. Based on my limited experienc with this forum it appears a majority of the posters are looking to hook up (for whatever) and only care about the sexual preferences of the other posters. This is not wrong or bad or anything particularly negative, IMO. It simply reprsents their desires. The balance are looking for conversation or to offer their opinions. Again, nothing negative. The negative, to me, in all of this is IT SEEMS most readers ignore the true postings of most everyone else. I believe this because of the number of flip or ill directed postings that too often follow a cry for help. It could certainly be that this is standard procedure for forums, I don't know. I do know I don't like it, but so what.

Now to the original post, I hope this ties in well. Based on my "feel" noted above, if some of the Liters can manage an inteligently worded seduction, and I don't doubt there are many who could, I tend to doubt they would want to or would understand this is being asked of them if it is asked in an inteligent and quiet manner.

 

[Shaveitbald69]

Ok, now I got to put my 2 cents in. I have found that most *notice I said Most* do tend to want the fast way to get on with it. Or just love to have a quick one and get it over with and just pull the plug, and it has happened to me, many times.

I have a few folks here that are real cool, enjoy the chat and rooms and with a bit of banter, and those few words to stimulate those extremely erotic minded females, good chat, and good pleasure with teasing words, or actions, seem to go a lot further than just the "grab yourself and go at it".

Some folks just want that, most of the younger folks do this, not wanting quality with a build up, then going for a few hours, then both having a mutual "Good night or have a good day". Build up, pleasure in good conversation, enjoyment threw out the time, and having a great bit of pleasure, and giving the pleasure is more the fun. Here most are good at conversation, as to other boards that just want that quickly, and go to the next.

And you all who have put in on this comment, have hit it on the head!!

 

[BadTeacher49m]

Perhaps I can inspire you sometime

I get the feeling that you could be quite an excellent muse...

 

[InsatiableDsire]

I get the feeling that you could be quite an excellent muse...

Starting with flattery is always wise

 

[BadTeacher49m]

Starting with flattery is always wise

*laughs* Well, I'm glad I've learned a thing or two over the years

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Interesting question...and one I will further ponder before coming back in to post. I would like to think about my answer before contributing. My short answer would be "no." However that is based on my understanding that you have two separate "animals" and they are "dirty talk" vs. "well thought out erotica/porn. "
I understand that this is my self-imposed dichotomy, but I think it is a crucial distinction.

*marks my spot for later*

 

[RickTango]

Interesting question...and one I will further ponder before coming back in to post. I would like to think about my answer before contributing. My short answer would be "no." However that is based on my understanding that you have two separate "animals" and they are "dirty talk" vs. "well thought out erotica/porn. "
I understand that this is my self-imposed dichotomy, but I think it is a crucial distinction.

*marks my spot for later*

That's got me thinking. Hmmm