Is there such a thing as intelligent dirty talk?

[sexy_smart_fun]

Cause I've been craving it lately.

Too many people out there resort to cliches and "fuck" this and "cock" that. Not as many people seem to enjoy the subtle art of engaging someone in intellectual sexual stimulation...figuring out what excites the other person and then slowly building it up until you can't concentrate on anything else. Your imagination is aroused...wicked fantasies float through your mind while you're at work...you watch the clock, waiting for a few moments of privacy where you can check your email or phone for another teasing message.

If this message resonates with you...feel free to drop me a message. Maybe we can discover whether or not the art of (erotic) conversation is lost.

 

[FitGuy38]

******

 

[cliteatingman]

Cause I've been craving it lately.

Too many people out there resort to cliches and "fuck" this and "cock" that. Not as many people seem to enjoy the subtle art of engaging someone in intellectual sexual stimulation...figuring out what excites the other person and then slowly building it up until you can't concentrate on anything else. Your imagination is aroused...wicked fantasies float through your mind while you're at work...you watch the clock, waiting for a few moments of privacy where you can check your email or phone for another teasing message.

If this message resonates with you...feel free to drop me a message. Maybe we can discover whether or not the art of (erotic) conversation is lost.

I am your man

 

[reallyunsure]

There's a fine line between subliterate sexytimes and purple prose, but there are people who walk it pretty well.

They're just hard to find.

 

[MattWolf]

There's a fine line between subliterate sexytimes and purple prose, but there are people who walk it pretty well.

They're just hard to find.

I like this comment about the dangers of purple prose. Sometimes explicitness is what saves us from relegation into poor romance fiction.

But yes I think it is possible to have intelligent dirty talk, it requires us to be playful, but take that play pretty damn seriously.

 

[Kim_vegas]

Cause I've been craving it lately.

Too many people out there resort to cliches and "fuck" this and "cock" that. Not as many people seem to enjoy the subtle art of engaging someone in intellectual sexual stimulation...figuring out what excites the other person and then slowly building it up until you can't concentrate on anything else. Your imagination is aroused...wicked fantasies float through your mind while you're at work...you watch the clock, waiting for a few moments of privacy where you can check your email or phone for another teasing message.

If this message resonates with you...feel free to drop me a message. Maybe we can discover whether or not the art of (erotic) conversation is lost.

I suppose you are confusing 'sensual' + 'refined language' combo with something called intelligence. Intelligence is needed to produce a text of resonating words but vise-versa isn't true.

If intelligence appeals to you, u might love talking like this:
"Thinking of sinusoidal reciprocation of distal phalanges ...."

if not .. you are confusing intelligence with something else!

 

[Graf_Severin]

True true. It's all about balance. One never trusts a movie if the "ahha!" moment comes too easily; it's too serendipitous because of lazy writing. The same with erotica: you're much more apt to be seduced if there is imagination that doesn't localize the erotic to one part of the body, or cliched phrasing that makes things vague (aren't we moved, aroused, or comforted even when the very specific "devil in the details" aspects of life resonate with us?).

 

[iamtimmyz]

There are many people whom can conduct a elevated conversation here from Lit. All you had to do was ask. Good luck.

 

[dreamykitten2]

If you check out my past posts and threads

Cause I've been craving it lately.

Too many people out there resort to cliches and "fuck" this and "cock" that. Not as many people seem to enjoy the subtle art of engaging someone in intellectual sexual stimulation...figuring out what excites the other person and then slowly building it up until you can't concentrate on anything else. Your imagination is aroused...wicked fantasies float through your mind while you're at work...you watch the clock, waiting for a few moments of privacy where you can check your email or phone for another teasing message.

If this message resonates with you...feel free to drop me a message. Maybe we can discover whether or not the art of (erotic) conversation is lost.

U will find that I am really able to converse as you are describing!

 

[theheathallen]

I am totally on the same page ... I often enjoy the tongue in cheek flirts and innuendo at work then incorporate that into my filthy fantasies about the days events..lets talk !

 

[WillowGirl78]

Absolutely

 

[Raptor2622]

Hmm... I can speak rather intelligently, though I haven't done so in a manner such as described in the first post... I'd give it a shot

 

[simpletimes]

I prefer to have good conversations, sure there are some flirty times, but real conversation is best to get to know another person.

 

[Lostdriver1964]

I do not want to judge in any way what others do or don't do on here so i guess each one has his "style" and probably he/she will meet people according to this.

By my side, i just think that to meet people here can be like to drive in a place where dreams and fantasy lead us everywhere we wish.... so why do make a hurry of everything getting to the point in a few moments? The biggest pleasure in courting and seducing (in the good way) someone is really in the process that lies "before" the moment you get what you wish...would this be made by body gesture or, like in chats and talkings, by the words spoken and heard...
and if the dream is alive... you are alive

 

[Hatter21]

Talk

I think most of us would like intelligent conversation, I mean a lot of us are here for a naughty conversation but that doesn't mean we always use our best judgement when we start talking to others on here.

I like to get to know someone while dancing around the naughty subjects. It's more fun to learn what will get someone all hot and bothered then being able to finally push them over the edge.
But with that being said sometimes we are just in the mood to chat, that's why you need to know them.

 

[Graf_Severin]

Some people here want to immediately jump to phone or cam play. Me? I need to talk to a man, pick his brain, see if there's some sort of mental connection before progressing to that other stuff. Not everyone will connect with each person they contact and that's OK.

Isn't that the summary difference of the sexes.

 

[Blase]

Some people here want to immediately jump to phone or cam play. Me? I need to talk to a man, pick his brain, see if there's some sort of mental connection before progressing to that other stuff. Not everyone will connect with each person they contact and that's OK.

I don't think anyone will connect with everyone they contact in here. And, yeah, I'm more ok with that now than I was when this was all relatively new.

Nowadays I try to be more careful about who I start to flirt with, because I've learned how easy it is to get excited, progress to sexy chat, then have nowhere to go once that situation has come to a, you know, climax...

And, really, it's so much more interesting and exciting when it's someone you've gotten to know, at least to a degree, and made a connection with...

 

[Jewdles]

I know what you're saying, and it can happen. But like in life off the net, you connect with some, and not with others. For me I'd much prefer intelligent chat, which can in time lead to some flirtatious chat, and who knows. We're all different, and people come here in different moods. Some have a few hours and their mood is hot and good luck to them. Others want to vent, some want to chat, and it's about connecting with someone else who matches your mood.

For me personally I'd much prefer to get to know someone first, then perhaps talk about fantasies and enjoyment, as opposed to, "oh baby rub this touch that for me" .......... but we're all different, so keep looking.

J

 

[reallyunsure]

Some people here want to immediately jump to phone or cam play. Me? I need to talk to a man, pick his brain, see if there's some sort of mental connection before progressing to that other stuff. Not everyone will connect with each person they contact and that's OK.

Isn't that the summary difference of the sexes.

And here I've been thinking this whole time that I'm a dude. Apparently not, since this is the difference of the sexes. I can't believe I've been doing it wrong this whole time!

 

[funntalk]

Cause I've been craving it lately.

Too many people out there resort to cliches and "fuck" this and "cock" that. Not as many people seem to enjoy the subtle art of engaging someone in intellectual sexual stimulation...figuring out what excites the other person and then slowly building it up until you can't concentrate on anything else. Your imagination is aroused...wicked fantasies float through your mind while you're at work...you watch the clock, waiting for a few moments of privacy where you can check your email or phone for another teasing message.

If this message resonates with you...feel free to drop me a message. Maybe we can discover whether or not the art of (erotic) conversation is lost.

I saw your message and agree heartily. When would you like to start erotically chatting? I'll have your imagination reaching for a cigarette!!!!

Email or yahoo IM??

 

[sexywriterfla]

I suppose you are confusing 'sensual' + 'refined language' combo with something called intelligence. Intelligence is needed to produce a text of resonating words but vise-versa isn't true.

If intelligence appeals to you, u might love talking like this:
"Thinking of sinusoidal reciprocation of distal phalanges ...."

if not .. you are confusing intelligence with something else!

Kim...your sinusoidal reciprocation really make my distal phalanges throb...

 

[lacura3000]

There's definitly intelligent dirty talk however once passions (and other things run hot )
I don't think intellingence is as important as desire or lust, which online must be combined with a vivid imagination or simply the confidence to pull the partner along with your erotic desires though your words in a way thats not necessary in real life, as online we miss all the subtle clues and hesitations that ocur in the build up to and during an encounter.

Another issue is that writing about sex is depersonalising in a way, its almost impossible to convey what actually happens during sex in writing, wether making love where two people synconise fully and become so much closer together or a dirty encounter where one person though their authority drives the other to fullfull their desires, the thrill of real dominance is very different to the erzats experience about writing about it as is the deeper commune of two people clinging together with one rythem.

That said, my 15 inch cock is totally hard right now because I'm like super fit and can do 300 pushups and your ass is so tight

 

[BadTeacher49m]

*smiles* Cybersex is something of a lost art these days, yes, esp. compared to the era of dial-up modems. Broadband and webcams are partly to blame, I think. People may have become slightly dumber as well... *laughs* But even here on a site that combines "literature/literate" and "erotica" it can be frighteningly difficult to find a literate, erotic partner.

That said, I don't know that the words "fuck" and "cock" are necessarily unintelligent. Sometimes they fit perfectly... so to speak.

 

[Aphro]

I would be less concerned with the other person being a Shakespeare as long as he is able to hold up his end of the conversation with some level of imagination. Words like fuck or cock are fine, if that is what the situation calls for. I'd rather that than something like "my rock hard shaft strokes into your love tunnel" or some such garbage. Sometimes sex is dirty and messy, and you need dirty, messy words to describe it.

 

[InsatiableDsire]

*smiles* Cybersex is something of a lost art these days, yes, esp. compared to the era of dial-up modems. Broadband and webcams are partly to blame, I think. People may have become slightly dumber as well... *laughs* But even here on a site that combines "literature/literate" and "erotica" it can be frighteningly difficult to find a literate, erotic partner.

That said, I don't know that the words "fuck" and "cock" are necessarily unintelligent. Sometimes they fit perfectly... so to speak.

"Frighteningly difficult" indeed. Somehow though I think a teacher gone bad might be quite good at it...