Once more with feeling.

[Connubium]

So sorry you are feeling lousy. Hope you feel better !

Marc

Thanks

hope you feel better lovely.

Thank you!

Unsexualised nudes of you ! If ever there was a perfect oxymoron !

I just don't think nudity is inherently sexy, even when it's me that's nude

~ here's some homemade chicken soup~

Did you need me to massage that sore throat on the inside?

Ewww, and I hope you like the feeling of throat ulcers on your cock...yeah, that's right, make me think about BJ's while I'm sick and you get some butiful mental imagery like that.

Feel better soon, you yummy lady.

Thanks hon.

Sorry you're not feeling well. Maybe Dr. Artie should give you a (very through) look over.

Well it would tie in with my slight medical fetish.

Hope you feel better soon, sending lots of positive healing vibes!

Awww thank you

Sorry your not feeling well. I hope you feel better soon.

Thanks youngleo

Sorry to hear that. Hope you're back to full fitness soon.

Hey IA, cheers.

Oh no! Hope you feel better soon!

Thanks indi

I hope you'll get better soon.

Thank you!

Jesus, Mary and Joseph and the wee donkey (never forget the wee donkey)
Your boobs and nipples are gorgeous. The more I see of them and the rest of you) the happier I am

Gotta love a little Irish blasphemy, thanks and welcome to my thread.

 

[Connubium]

Feel better soon, Nube.

Thanks Adre

Aww. I would do more if it were possible but instead I will wish you a get well soon.

Thank you EN

There is nothing I hate worse then being sick. To many things to do in a day. I sure feel sorry for you. If I were there we'd put a heating pad on your back, some nice soup, some honey tea for your throat, and a good foot and back rub. But most important is... rest. Try and sleep as much as you can. I do hope you feel better very soon. Get better soon...

Sounds like what I've needed the past few days

never going to happen

I could probably prove you wrong

Not a big commenter most days, but I wanted to let you know that (in addition to having an incredible body and knowing EXACTLY how to use it in photography) you get the coolest/best/most rad personality on Lit. It's appreciated.

Thanks, I'm a sucker for compliments about my personality

Hope you feel better soon

Thanks!

Sorry to hear your not feeling well, get well soon. I always enjoy your lovely body and photos.

Cool, glad you enjoy my pics!

I wish I could bring you chicken soup. It would make you feel better if you are not vegan.

I'm vegetarian...surprise, surprise .

I doubt you ever look gross. Get well soon gorgeous.

Again I could probably prove you wrong there .

Not hard to believe you feel gross while ill but from where I sit it's impossible for you to look gross.

Hope you're feeling better soon.

Thanks and you have a cute name!

 

[Connubium]

That's me pretty much day.

How could I miss you out...you'd cry or something and you know you're beautiful everyday.

 

[Connubium]

Okay,so tonight instead of posting pictures or just replying I decided to write a little bit about myself and my experiences here on Lit.
I've posting here for what, like six months now? (Can't see when I signed up ).
When I first started my old thread I was pretty shocked with the responses I received, my inbox was flooded within an hour and there were so many replies on my thread, of them were nice, some lecherous, some barely coherent.
I didn't have self confidence issues, and I wasn't trying to boost my self esteem, I just wanted to explore my exhibitionism and embrace my sexuality.
Anyhoo time went on and I realised that not all of the reactions that I was going to get on here were going to be positive, I received threats, men sending pictures of their penises to me without me asking, men telling me that I was a sub/that I should be their slave/bitch/whatever, I had one man begging me to stop posting, I had guys who started out friendly but then became needy and manipulative, and a lot of guys who talked to me like I owed them something.
Anyway that thread ended and I took a short break and came back and made a new thread, still exploring myself but perhaps I was a little more insecure than when I started. I'd had a chance to look around and get to know this place I observed how women are spoken to and treated by a lot of men around here.It's always been a process of acting (posting pics or whatever) and then reflecting for me, reading others threads, other reactions etc.

So last week a guy who has posted on my threads from the start (lets call N****ion) sent me a message saying that he wanted to send me a pic of himself jacking off over my pictures. I think, 'erm no thanks, I have ZERO interest in seeing that', so ignore him, not wanting to hurt his feelings by telling him so. He doesn't take the hint, and PM's me asking for my email, I tell him that I no longer have a email for Lit, I don't give my personal one out and that I don't pic share privately because I'm in a relationship and frankly don't want to.
He calls me a psycho. That's right I'm a psycho because I don't want to see his junk .
So then I was like (to myself) it's no big deal, it happens to all the women who post on AMpics.
Then I thought, 'wait, hold on a minute that is definitely a big deal'. The fact that the women that post here are expected to be able to just push aside the shit they have to deal with from men is ridiculous. Our sexual expression is not an invitation for sexual harassment and sexual harassment is fucking rife on Literotica. We are not objectifying ourselves, we are showing out sexuality, which is a human need.
We are human's and people. We're daughters, mothers, sisters, wives, we have interests, and listen to music, we have friends, and favourite Tv shows, and jobs, and hobbies and we have emotions as well as tits.
Some of you say that you find looking at women on here more erotic because we're 'real' and natural. I personally love AMpics because I think it's important for there to be representations of how 'normal' women look without photoshop or makeup artists. I think every single women who posts on here is brave and beautiful in their own way and we deserve to be treated in the very least like people, and normalization of sexual harassment on here needs to be stopped. I guess you could argue that that is the nature of the sex industry, but women deserve to be able to explore and experience their sexuality in an environment free of fear, threats and abuse.

Sure I know not everyone is like this, in fact I would say that I have been very lucky in befriending a lot of guys on here who are cool and awesome and who have never spoken inappropriately to me or made me uncomfortable. I know a lot of threads have stopped because 'one guys ruined it for the rest of them' by saying something hurtful or abusive to a woman, but the truth is a lot of men have ruined it for a lot of women.
We're sexy an great because we can express ourselves, like human being should, objects do not express themselves, so please don't treat us like objects. Although the objects may prefer looking at your cock pics.

 

[Connubium]

For _me_

http://i1062.photobucket.com/albums/t500/Connubium4lit/IMG_5312_zpsc8cfe5dc.jpg

 

[g0h0gs]

Someone should really get with the powers that be.. and have every man that signs up on this site read this and accept before being able to log on!! Your right there are some really great people on this site and just like in life there are some really big turds as well. They just have the ability to be mega turds by hiding behind the computer screen. I commend you for having the balls to say something about it!!

 

[Galv_2]

Tyvm

For _me_

http://i1062.photobucket.com/albums/t500/Connubium4lit/IMG_5312_zpsc8cfe5dc.jpg

Simply.......

Incredible......Awesome....Beautiful......Gorgeous !!!!!

 

[totaldominator]

Okay,so tonight instead of posting pictures or just replying I decided to write a little bit about myself and my experiences here on Lit.
I've posting here for what, like six months now? (Can't see when I signed up ).
When I first started my old thread I was pretty shocked with the responses I received, my inbox was flooded within an hour and there were so many replies on my thread, of them were nice, some lecherous, some barely coherent.
I didn't have self confidence issues, and I wasn't trying to boost my self esteem, I just wanted to explore my exhibitionism and embrace my sexuality.
Anyhoo time went on and I realised that not all of the reactions that I was going to get on here were going to be positive, I received threats, men sending pictures of their penises to me without me asking, men telling me that I was a sub/that I should be their slave/bitch/whatever, I had one man begging me to stop posting, I had guys who started out friendly but then became needy and manipulative, and a lot of guys who talked to me like I owed them something.
Anyway that thread ended and I took a short break and came back and made a new thread, still exploring myself but perhaps I was a little more insecure than when I started. I'd had a chance to look around and get to know this place I observed how women are spoken to and treated by a lot of men around here.It's always been a process of acting (posting pics or whatever) and then reflecting for me, reading others threads, other reactions etc.

So last week a guy who has posted on my threads from the start (lets call N****ion) sent me a message saying that he wanted to send me a pic of himself jacking off over my pictures. I think, 'erm no thanks, I have ZERO interest in seeing that', so ignore him, not wanting to hurt his feelings by telling him so. He doesn't take the hint, and PM's me asking for my email, I tell him that I no longer have a email for Lit, I don't give my personal one out and that I don't pic share privately because I'm in a relationship and frankly don't want to.
He calls me a psycho. That's right I'm a psycho because I don't want to see his junk .
So then I was like (to myself) it's no big deal, it happens to all the women who post on AMpics.
Then I thought, 'wait, hold on a minute that is definitely a big deal'. The fact that the women that post here are expected to be able to just push aside the shit they have to deal with from men is ridiculous. Our sexual expression is not an invitation for sexual harassment and sexual harassment is fucking rife on Literotica. We are not objectifying ourselves, we are showing out sexuality, which is a human need.
We are human's and people. We're daughters, mothers, sisters, wives, we have interests, and listen to music, we have friends, and favourite Tv shows, and jobs, and hobbies and we have emotions as well as tits.
Some of you say that you find looking at women on here more erotic because we're 'real' and natural. I personally love AMpics because I think it's important for there to be representations of how 'normal' women look without photoshop or makeup artists. I think every single women who posts on here is brave and beautiful in their own way and we deserve to be treated in the very least like people, and normalization of sexual harassment on here needs to be stopped. I guess you could argue that that is the nature of the sex industry, but women deserve to be able to explore and experience their sexuality in an environment free of fear, threats and abuse.

Sure I know not everyone is like this, in fact I would say that I have been very lucky in befriending a lot of guys on here who are cool and awesome and who have never spoken inappropriately to me or made me uncomfortable. I know a lot of threads have stopped because 'one guys ruined it for the rest of them' by saying something hurtful or abusive to a woman, but the truth is a lot of men have ruined it for a lot of women.
We're sexy an great because we can express ourselves, like human being should, objects do not express themselves, so please don't treat us like objects. Although the objects may prefer looking at your cock pics.

Very well said, and I for one as a guy, do not appreciate when people are not treated with respect. I appreciate when someone shares with us, we are lucky. Thank you!

 

[_me_]

For _me_

http://i1062.photobucket.com/albums/t500/Connubium4lit/IMG_5312_zpsc8cfe5dc.jpg

Thank you!!!!

I love that pic so much!!

 

[ChiRoland]

For _me_

http://i1062.photobucket.com/albums/t500/Connubium4lit/IMG_5312_zpsc8cfe5dc.jpg

Lets call this picture "Natural Gracefulness" !

 

[Que]

For _me_

http://i1062.photobucket.com/albums/t500/Connubium4lit/IMG_5312_zpsc8cfe5dc.jpg

Always liked that shot a lot...


You in alabaster-ish...

Sadly head cut off- happily though not in a cereal-killa way but kind of in a Venus de Milo-ish way.


The coy magazine placement on the reflective lower shelf.

Lots to look at...all of it intriguing.

 

[teachinem]

.....

 

[Connubium]

Someone should really get with the powers that be.. and have every man that signs up on this site read this and accept before being able to log on!! Your right there are some really great people on this site and just like in life there are some really big turds as well. They just have the ability to be mega turds by hiding behind the computer screen. I commend you for having the balls to say something about it!!

Thanks for reading that, I didn't realize how long it was . I know that they're are going to be a lot of men who will agree with me I suppose it's just important for us to behave in a way that reflects that. In general men people tend to get called out if they're rude in threads, which is good obviously.

Simply.......

Incredible......Awesome....Beautiful......Gorgeous !!!!!

Glad ya liked it

Very well said, and I for one as a guy, do not appreciate when people are not treated with respect. I appreciate when someone shares with us, we are lucky. Thank you!

Thank you for reading it as well, glad you agree .

Thank you!!!!

I love that pic so much!!

No probs

Lets call this picture "Natural Gracefulness" !

My signature is a lyric

Always liked that shot a lot...


You in alabaster-ish...

Sadly head cut off- happily though not in a cereal-killa way but kind of in a Venus de Milo-ish way.


The coy magazine placement on the reflective lower shelf.

Lots to look at...all of it intriguing.

Yeah it's a good'un, genuinely arty or something

Thanks for putting it that way. There's a reason that I don't post a lot, and it's that I can't ever strike the right balance of respectfulness and perversion. If we're too respectful, we get ignored, and if we're too provocative, we become guilty of harassment. It's a tightrope, and I'd rather remain silent and be ignored than get attention by being a dick.

Just know that there are plenty of people here who admire your pictures and think, "she's probably busy sifting through jackasses," then leave you alone. Hope you're having a good day, Connubium. Which, by the way, I looked up in Latin... and I wonder if it has any significance, or did you just think it sounded cool?

I don't think it's so much a case of having to be careful about being to pervy. I mean, I'm realistic I know this is a sex based site and people are going to say pervy stuff,men and women! But it's just like real life, there's a clear line between flirtation and harassment isn't there? It's not really a 'measurable' line, compliment me but don't repeatedly send me pm's about what you want to do to me when I ask you to leave me alone (this results in blocking but honestly that doesn't stop it from bothering me or making me not want to log on). Read enough of my posts to know that I never refer to myself as 'slut', 'whore', 'bitch' etc, I know some women like that, I'm not one of them. Don't belittle us, demand things from us or generally talk to us like crap. It's really not hard a lot of the guys on here have it down. And when in doubt be respectful, you won't always be ignored but at least you'll always know that you're being a nice guy and not a sexist douche.

Re the name a get a lot of people asking me why my name means some marriage law or something...I always say it was either this or Sexxiiihobitch69 but that was already taken. Connubium sounds cool and can also be used to mean sexual union in Latin, or so I heard, it was that or the Latin name for clitoris (quick everyone rush to google!).


ETA Some women ask to be spoken to like 'sluts' and that is totally fine, obviously.If both people are happy then what's the issue? I guess that's the point we should have the choice to decide what stuff we want to participate in not have it forced upon us.
I mean can you imagine if the majority of women starting speaking to every man they had any communications with like they were their Domme? Saying stuff like 'I want to tie you up and pound your tight hole'? Sending them pictures of men being fucked by giant strap-ons, maybe pictures of themselves donning strap-ons? Sure there would be some guys who'd be into it, but can you imagine how much it would piss you off if you weren't? Can you imagine how much it would turn you off and irritate you?
You could block them but remember there are a lot of women like it on here and you'll get to the stage where you wonder if there's a limit to your ignore list and whether it's really worth it anyway

 

[EndlessNameless]

As far as your post goes, I agree 100%. I'm not a woman so I can't speak from experience, but I wouldn't want to be treated like crap from anyone else either. I have spoken to several women on this site personally and I enjoy it. I don't try to be demanding or disrespectful about it and neither should anyone else. Call me weird, but I enjoy interacting with people more. Being this the site that it is, I expect there to be perviness abound and I expect someone to say something that may be unintentionally disrespectful. To someone understanding, that person should let them know that they didn't like it and the person in question should apologize. Too bad there's pervs with keyboard courage that ruin it for other people. I just try to be open, honest, and as respectful as I can. Seems to be working so far.

As for the pic, it should hang in a museum. Seriously. I'm not lying or exaggerating at all. It's really beautiful.

 

[Connubium]

As far as your post goes, I agree 100%. I'm not a woman so I can't speak from experience, but I wouldn't want to be treated like crap from anyone else either. I have spoken to several women on this site personally and I enjoy it. I don't try to be demanding or disrespectful about it and neither should anyone else. Call me weird, but I enjoy interacting with people more. Being this the site that it is, I expect there to be perviness abound and I expect someone to say something that may be unintentionally disrespectful. To someone understanding, that person should let them know that they didn't like it and the person in question should apologize. Too bad there's pervs with keyboard courage that ruin it for other people. I just try to be open, honest, and as respectful as I can. Seems to be working so far.

As for the pic, it should hang in a museum. Seriously. I'm not lying or exaggerating at all. It's really beautiful.

Firstly glad you liked the pic so much . Secondly, I guess to clarify I don't mean general sexual pervy comments...there's plenty of that from both genders. I mean like actual,obviously inappropriate behaviour, name calling,lots of uninvited PM's with pics I that I don't want to look at (this is something I've seen a lot of women complain about), horrible or objectifying things being said in threads (again unless the women asks for it, and by asks for it I don't mean she simply appears naked/scantily clad ) etc.

 

[wtexcat]

For _me_

http://i1062.photobucket.com/albums/t500/Connubium4lit/IMG_5312_zpsc8cfe5dc.jpg

That is a wonderful picture

 

[EndlessNameless]

Firstly glad you liked the pic so much . Secondly, I guess to clarify I don't mean general sexual pervy comments...there's plenty of that from both genders. I mean like actual,obviously inappropriate behaviour, name calling,lots of uninvited PM's with pics I that I don't want to look at (this is something I've seen a lot of women complain about), horrible or objectifying things being said in threads (again unless the women asks for it, and by asks for it I don't mean she simply appears naked/scantily clad ) etc.

Yeah. For me, that was blantantly obvious. Getting to know the poster obviously helps. Like I wouldn't just call you a slut for no reason unless I knew that maybe you liked that. Even then, given that you don't really know me and I'm fairly new to your thread, I'd probably shy away from it anyway. Being decent isn't hard. No pun intended.

 

[paulster2007]

For _me_

http://i1062.photobucket.com/albums/t500/Connubium4lit/IMG_5312_zpsc8cfe5dc.jpg

You're beautiful. That's my opinion . And I keep checking your thread on a daily basis because I know you have something to say and I enjoy reading your posts. You're lovely.

 

[Que]

I don't think it's so much a case of having to be careful about being to pervy. I mean, I'm realistic I know this is a sex based site and people are going to say pervy stuff,men and women! But it's just like real life, there's a clear line between flirtation and harassment isn't there? It's not really a 'measurable' line, compliment me but don't repeatedly send me pm's about what you want to do to me when I ask you to leave me alone (this results in blocking but honestly that doesn't stop it from bothering me or making me not want to log on). Read enough of my posts to know that I never refer to myself as 'slut', 'whore', 'bitch' etc, I know some women like that, I'm not one of them. Don't belittle us, demand things from us or generally talk to us like crap. It's really not hard a lot of the guys on here have it down. And when in doubt be respectful, you won't always be ignored but at least you'll always know that you're being a nice guy and not a sexist douche.

Re the name a get a lot of people asking me why my name means some marriage law or something...I always say it was either this or Sexxiiihobitch69 but that was already taken. Connubium sounds cool and can also be used to mean sexual union in Latin, or so I heard, it was that or the Latin name for clitoris (quick everyone rush to google!).


ETA Some women ask to be spoken to like 'sluts' and that is totally fine, obviously.If both people are happy then what's the issue? I guess that's the point we should have the choice to decide what stuff we want to participate in not have it forced upon us.
I mean can you imagine if the majority of women starting speaking to every man they had any communications with like they were their Domme? Saying stuff like 'I want to tie you up and pound your tight hole'? Sending them pictures of men being fucked by giant strap-ons, maybe pictures of themselves donning strap-ons? Sure there would be some guys who'd be into it, but can you imagine how much it would piss you off if you weren't? Can you imagine how much it would turn you off and irritate you?
You could block them but remember there are a lot of women like it on here and you'll get to the stage where you wonder if there's a limit to your ignore list and whether it's really worth it anyway

It's kind of a Mars Venus thing and this particular medium is a self-selecting population of those of us that are tend to lean towards the socially inept side of things.

It's really just like real life although perhaps some of us have less experience at that.

One should always feel a girl out for her interest before one feels her up.

Oh....and in regards to your kind offer...is that with or without a nice silicoln based lube?

 

[Aquarob]

yes YES YES....thats the pic of pics.....!

 

[indigolm]

Okay,so tonight instead of posting pictures or just replying I decided to write a little bit about myself and my experiences here on Lit.
I've posting here for what, like six months now? (Can't see when I signed up ).
When I first started my old thread I was pretty shocked with the responses I received, my inbox was flooded within an hour and there were so many replies on my thread, of them were nice, some lecherous, some barely coherent.
I didn't have self confidence issues, and I wasn't trying to boost my self esteem, I just wanted to explore my exhibitionism and embrace my sexuality.
Anyhoo time went on and I realised that not all of the reactions that I was going to get on here were going to be positive, I received threats, men sending pictures of their penises to me without me asking, men telling me that I was a sub/that I should be their slave/bitch/whatever, I had one man begging me to stop posting, I had guys who started out friendly but then became needy and manipulative, and a lot of guys who talked to me like I owed them something.
Anyway that thread ended and I took a short break and came back and made a new thread, still exploring myself but perhaps I was a little more insecure than when I started. I'd had a chance to look around and get to know this place I observed how women are spoken to and treated by a lot of men around here.It's always been a process of acting (posting pics or whatever) and then reflecting for me, reading others threads, other reactions etc.

So last week a guy who has posted on my threads from the start (lets call N****ion) sent me a message saying that he wanted to send me a pic of himself jacking off over my pictures. I think, 'erm no thanks, I have ZERO interest in seeing that', so ignore him, not wanting to hurt his feelings by telling him so. He doesn't take the hint, and PM's me asking for my email, I tell him that I no longer have a email for Lit, I don't give my personal one out and that I don't pic share privately because I'm in a relationship and frankly don't want to.
He calls me a psycho. That's right I'm a psycho because I don't want to see his junk .
So then I was like (to myself) it's no big deal, it happens to all the women who post on AMpics.
Then I thought, 'wait, hold on a minute that is definitely a big deal'. The fact that the women that post here are expected to be able to just push aside the shit they have to deal with from men is ridiculous. Our sexual expression is not an invitation for sexual harassment and sexual harassment is fucking rife on Literotica. We are not objectifying ourselves, we are showing out sexuality, which is a human need.
We are human's and people. We're daughters, mothers, sisters, wives, we have interests, and listen to music, we have friends, and favourite Tv shows, and jobs, and hobbies and we have emotions as well as tits.
Some of you say that you find looking at women on here more erotic because we're 'real' and natural. I personally love AMpics because I think it's important for there to be representations of how 'normal' women look without photoshop or makeup artists. I think every single women who posts on here is brave and beautiful in their own way and we deserve to be treated in the very least like people, and normalization of sexual harassment on here needs to be stopped. I guess you could argue that that is the nature of the sex industry, but women deserve to be able to explore and experience their sexuality in an environment free of fear, threats and abuse.

Sure I know not everyone is like this, in fact I would say that I have been very lucky in befriending a lot of guys on here who are cool and awesome and who have never spoken inappropriately to me or made me uncomfortable. I know a lot of threads have stopped because 'one guys ruined it for the rest of them' by saying something hurtful or abusive to a woman, but the truth is a lot of men have ruined it for a lot of women.
We're sexy an great because we can express ourselves, like human being should, objects do not express themselves, so please don't treat us like objects. Although the objects may prefer looking at your cock pics.

So very well said....some of the things I see posted on here blow my mind, I can only imagine what gets sent via PM. Women are not objects people...learn that.

 

[ADVR]

Very well written posts, I hope it gives everyone some food for thought before their next post. The anonymity of these boards unfortunately gives some people the courage to write things they wouldn't say face to face.

On another note. Your last photo is beautifully done, your pose, the lighting, with the reflection....

Just Beautiful!

 

[albertaboy]

For _me_

http://i1062.photobucket.com/albums/t500/Connubium4lit/IMG_5312_zpsc8cfe5dc.jpg

I'm sorry some asshat was a dick to you, when my wife had a thread she got creepy PM's from one guy, he wouldn't stop so I outed him in the thread and he went away.

I would like to comment your picture that is for "You" also does it for me!!

 

[RawHumor]

Unfortunately, there are true ass hats around here who are emboldened by the anonymity of being able to hide behind a username.

I've seen comments from women on almost every social site complaining about men sending uninvited dick pics. It's idiotic, but it's not unique to Lit.

Perhaps the culture of free streaming porn 24/7 has led some men to dissociate women from their human-ness. I don't know. I just feel sad that women have to endure it and that some men don't even see anything strange about it. With some, it may be a form of bullying, I suppose. With others, I have to wonder if they just think that's how to get a woman's interest...

 

[Tenenbaum]

I was wondering where you'd been, and thanks

I took a little break from here for about a month. But I decided it was time to get back. And I'm sure glad I made that decision.

And well said with your other post. I think it's all too easy for people to come here and expect someone to be a certain way just because of where we are posting. I'm glad you have stuck around.