Small boobs

[loquere]

I'm finishing a burden filled piece right now. Outside of the idea forum I've pretty much stopped bluntly writing, he has an 3 feet cock, or she has double z breasts.

I've been describing length and girth, or bust instead. They all end up large, which is something I’ll improve on.


I've been ridiculed for using large bust sizes, by a female reader. I used b cups in one piece she read. I was then attacked, because in the story I justified her bust size to being proportionate. I doubt I’m going to put A cups in my stories.

Is there not some hypocrisy amongst women, they want men to accept small breast but are even more critical of the male penis.

 

[Stella_Omega]

My friend prefers a small penis.

When she's said so, on OKCupid or whatever, she gets totally flamed by men telling her that she's wrong, and big penises are the shit and she just needs to try theirs. Like-- she gets more responses from men because she doesn't want their big dick, than she gets at all if she doesn't say anything about dick size.

 

[jehoram]

Is there not some hypocrisy amongst women, they want men to accept small breast but are even more critical of the male penis.

Yes, they're more critical of the male penis, because it's a problem of interface rather than aesthetics. (And by "critical" I mean discerning, without reference to any sub-context of masculinity.)

Size matters, just as it matters in fitting shoes. I believe women (and men) who say they need a larger cock. I also believe women (and men) who say they prefer a smaller one. One size never fits all, in clothes or anything else.

Boobs, on the other hand, are perfectly functional regardless of their size, unless you're a fan of tit-fucking, in which case I guess it does matter. But a small-breasted lady can be (and usually is) as sexually alluring to me as a large-breasted one.

If we spent less time worrying about it than accepting and celebrating it as a matter of course (and human variability), we'd be a lot happier, I think.

 

[Cruel2BKind]

Is there not some hypocrisy amongst women, they want men to accept small breast but are even more critical of the male penis.

All women. They are a hive-mind, and quite dangerous at that.

 

[Handley_Page]

I think that there's a middle way with this.
Personally, I don't care too much about the size in a story: I reckon documenting the size is not usually relevant.

A 'nice handful' is quite sufficient, IMO.

 

[Euphony]

I'm finishing a burden filled piece right now. Outside of the idea forum I've pretty much stopped bluntly writing, he has an 3 feet cock, or she has double z breasts.

I've been describing length and girth, or bust instead. They all end up large, which is something I’ll improve on.


I've been ridiculed for using large bust sizes, by a female reader. I used b cups in one piece she read. I was then attacked, because in the story I justified her bust size to being proportionate. I doubt I’m going to put A cups in my stories.

Is there not some hypocrisy amongst women, they want men to accept small breast but are even more critical of the male penis.

One commenter lead you to a greater understanding of the wants and needs of both man and womankind?

Wow. Wish I could get a comment like that.

Seriously, it's your story, write it how it needs to be written. Trying to tailor it for every conceivable audience is silly.

If Missy needs size DDD breasts to be teased by girls at school or hassled by boys, then you write that.

If she needs A's to have self esteem issues (not saying a woman should have them, just youre writting one who DOES) then give her those.

If shes just an average girl, then say a word or two then move on. No need to focus on how "average" she is (it reeks of playing to the crowd/masses)

The characters tell you who they are, not the audience. (they come way later, and sometimes they don't know nothing about who your people are)

Also, if its coming up often then maybe you are focusing on breasts and penises too much. There's more to people. If you make them full of traits, then how busty or not or girthy or not is diluted by all the other stuff they are.

 

[Mercedesbends]

I know many men who enjoy smaller breasted women. In fact there are 2 pic threads here on lit dedicated to them(3 if you count "slender beauties" in which many of those women are smaller up top)

I'm not sure about upset, but I do roll my eyes at the type of guys who all but yell "look, boobies!" and many of them are the type to want doube d's in all the stories.

as for penis size there are women who are size freaks, but most women I know are truly more concerned with what's attached to the dick, than the dick itself.

That separates us from the many men who would suck on a big set of tits if they were attached to a a fence in the back yard.

For the men who tell us ladies that we don't know what we're missing?

A- you just guaranteed I'll never know, because if you feel your best feature is your dick, then see my point above; your big dick is attached to a bigger dick.

b-if you have to keep telling me how big it is, especially on line I am going to doubt it is anyway.

Speaking for this girl I never look at a guy and wonder "is he hung?" even when we're out having a good night and I'm pretty sure its going to lead to more I don't focus on that. I may wonder what he's like in bed, but size is not my concern.

and what most guys who think they have big dicks really are, are lousy lovers they think we should be thrilled to be with them.

Some men will never learn that if you use everything you have (tongue, fingers, lips etc...) and treat us very well, the sex is going to be good regardless of size.

and speaking of guys with big dicks (or think they have one) who act like said dicks...

You started a thread a short time ago about "is 9" too big?"

Now this thread, although it states its about boobs, is designed to go fishing about what women think of cock size.

You're obviously obsessed with it and want the ladies here to go

"Ohhh, Loquere!"

Instead I'm thinking "Ewww Loquere!"

Use the head above your shoulders my friend, it will get you further.

 

[steve44uk]

Ha! I like you...

I know many men who enjoy smaller breasted women. In fact there are 2 pic threads here on lit dedicated to them(3 if you count "slender beauties" in which many of those women are smaller up top)

I'm not sure about upset, but I do roll my eyes at the type of guys who all but yell "look, boobies!" and many of them are the type to want doube d's in all the stories.

as for penis size there are women who are size freaks, but most women I know are truly more concerned with what's attached to the dick, than the dick itself.

That separates us from the many men who would suck on a big set of tits if they were attached to a a fence in the back yard.

For the men who tell us ladies that we don't know what we're missing?

A- you just guaranteed I'll never know, because if you feel your best feature is your dick, then see my point above; your big dick is attached to a bigger dick.

b-if you have to keep telling me how big it is, especially on line I am going to doubt it is anyway.

Speaking for this girl I never look at a guy and wonder "is he hung?" even when we're out having a good night and I'm pretty sure its going to lead to more I don't focus on that. I may wonder what he's like in bed, but size is not my concern.

and what most guys who think they have big dicks really are, are lousy lovers they think we should be thrilled to be with them.

Some men will never learn that if you use everything you have (tongue, fingers, lips etc...) and treat us very well, the sex is going to be good regardless of size.

and speaking of guys with big dicks (or think they have one) who act like said dicks...

You started a thread a short time ago about "is 9" too big?"

Now this thread, although it states its about boobs, is designed to go fishing about what women think of cock size.

You're obviously obsessed with it and want the ladies here to go

"Ohhh, Loquere!"

Instead I'm thinking "Ewww Loquere!"

Use the head above your shoulders my friend, it will get you further.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

In grad school I seized an opportunity to study animal genitalia, and 95% of the time humans are conditioned to hanker for whats popular rather than what might be more enjoyable. Like high-heels! Why does any sane woman suffer such shoes!

In my stories I try to keep the physical assets within bounds. Like this, TRISH HAD SEEN BIGGER CUTS OF MEAT BEFORE BUT A 12 OUNCE OR EVEN 8 OUNCE SLAB OF PRIME RIB IS STILL PRETTY GOOD! AND DAMNED GOOD IF YOURE HUNGRY.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

When I did therapy with couples it always amazed me at the lids folks pick to cover their pots. There's something else going on besides simple beauty and fitness.

But when I go to writing about women I use a resource that sorts thru bazillions of photos to find what I want in terms of height, weight, etc. That is, police mug shots. And plenty of women post photos of themselves on fitness sites, to show BEFORE & AFTER pix.

 

[Mercedesbends]

In grad school I seized an opportunity to study animal genitalia, and 95% of the time humans are conditioned to hanker for whats popular rather than what might be more enjoyable. Like high-heels! Why does any sane woman suffer such shoes!

In my stories I try to keep the physical assets within bounds. Like this, TRISH HAD SEEN BIGGER CUTS OF MEAT BEFORE BUT A 12 OUNCE OR EVEN 8 OUNCE SLAB OF PRIME RIB IS STILL PRETTY GOOD! AND DAMNED GOOD IF YOURE HUNGRY.

Crudely put, but I get the point and agree.

I'm sure its been debated here before, but I was told by the person who has helped me along with my writing to stay away from "statistics"

a cock can be large, but you don't have to state inches.

Breasts can be ample but cup size should be avoided.

I use lines such as "Tracy's tits weren't the biggest, but not exactly small either and were currently being displayed quite well in the tight red top...."

 

[Mercedesbends]

When I did therapy with couples it always amazed me at the lids folks pick to cover their pots. There's something else going on besides simple beauty and fitness.

But when I go to writing about women I use a resource that sorts thru bazillions of photos to find what I want in terms of height, weight, etc. That is, police mug shots. And plenty of women post photos of themselves on fitness sites, to show BEFORE & AFTER pix.

Go to stock photo sites like 123rf or dreamstime. You can browse hundreds of thousands of images and don't have to buy anything.

Just type in what you're looking for "blue eyed blonde on a bed" for example and you'll get a ton of things to use for visuals.

 

[Mercedesbends]

Ha! I like you...

Thank you, Steve!

 

[oggbashan]

Two Sizes Larger?

Yesterday we went shopping in ASDA, the UK version of Walmart.

I know. I should hang my head in shame. I blame my eldest granddaughter. She wanted a particular duvet cover set that is only sold by ASDA.

While my wife was sorting out small size vests for the other grandchildren I was standing at the end of the aisle because there were so many women with overflowing shopping carts in the aisle.

A few aisles away, prominently displayed, was a rack of bras labelled "Two Sizes Larger". Each bra is padded to give the impression that the wearer has boobs two sizes larger than she actually has.

While I waited, about a dozen of those bras were added to passing shopping carts and my wife doesn't take that long to choose small vests...

 

[Mercedesbends]

Yesterday we went shopping in ASDA, the UK version of Walmart.

I know. I should hang my head in shame. I blame my eldest granddaughter. She wanted a particular duvet cover set that is only sold by ASDA.

While my wife was sorting out small size vests for the other grandchildren I was standing at the end of the aisle because there were so many women with overflowing shopping carts in the aisle.

A few aisles away, prominently displayed, was a rack of bras labelled "Two Sizes Larger". Each bra is padded to give the impression that the wearer has boobs two sizes larger than she actually has.

While I waited, about a dozen of those bras were added to passing shopping carts and my wife doesn't take that long to choose small vests...

I guess that's what they mean by a wonder bra; the woman takes it off and the guy wonders where they went.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Go to stock photo sites like 123rf or dreamstime. You can browse hundreds of thousands of images and don't have to buy anything.

Just type in what you're looking for "blue eyed blonde on a bed" for example and you'll get a ton of things to use for visuals.

Thanks. I'll check it out! I usually have an idea of what I want, Act 2 of my present tale features a 60 year old female of the Meryl Streep flavor.

 

[loquere]

Yes, they're more critical of the male penis, because it's a problem of interface rather than aesthetics. (And by "critical" I mean discerning, without reference to any sub-context of masculinity.)

Size matters, just as it matters in fitting shoes. I believe women (and men) who say they need a larger cock. I also believe women (and men) who say they prefer a smaller one. One size never fits all, in clothes or anything else.

Boobs, on the other hand, are perfectly functional regardless of their size, unless you're a fan of tit-fucking, in which case I guess it does matter. But a small-breasted lady can be (and usually is) as sexually alluring to me as a large-breasted one.

If we spent less time worrying about it than accepting and celebrating it as a matter of course (and human variability), we'd be a lot happier, I think.

I agree, b cups what ever it doesn't matter. But a cups there's nothing there to receive enjoyment.

 

[sr71plt]

I agree, b cups what ever it doesn't matter. But a cups there's nothing there to receive enjoyment.

You thought A cup sizes came without nipples?

 

[Mercedesbends]

You thought A cup sizes came without nipples?

That's a good one.

Just as funny is when many(I never say all) men discuss breasts in the form of cup sizes. Just because two women are "B's" does not mean they are the same size or shape.

That's the problem with trying to quantify things with "stats"

 

[loquere]

I know many men who enjoy smaller breasted women. In fact there are 2 pic threads here on lit dedicated to them(3 if you count "slender beauties" in which many of those women are smaller up top)

I'm not sure about upset, but I do roll my eyes at the type of guys who all but yell "look, boobies!" and many of them are the type to want doube d's in all the stories.

as for penis size there are women who are size freaks, but most women I know are truly more concerned with what's attached to the dick, than the dick itself.

That separates us from the many men who would suck on a big set of tits if they were attached to a a fence in the back yard.

For the men who tell us ladies that we don't know what we're missing?

A- you just guaranteed I'll never know, because if you feel your best feature is your dick, then see my point above; your big dick is attached to a bigger dick.

b-if you have to keep telling me how big it is, especially on line I am going to doubt it is anyway.

Speaking for this girl I never look at a guy and wonder "is he hung?" even when we're out having a good night and I'm pretty sure its going to lead to more I don't focus on that. I may wonder what he's like in bed, but size is not my concern.

and what most guys who think they have big dicks really are, are lousy lovers they think we should be thrilled to be with them.

Some men will never learn that if you use everything you have (tongue, fingers, lips etc...) and treat us very well, the sex is going to be good regardless of size.

and speaking of guys with big dicks (or think they have one) who act like said dicks...

You started a thread a short time ago about "is 9" too big?"

Now this thread, although it states its about boobs, is designed to go fishing about what women think of cock size.

You're obviously obsessed with it and want the ladies here to go

"Ohhh, Loquere!"

Instead I'm thinking "Ewww Loquere!"

Use the head above your shoulders my friend, it will get you further.

I'm obsessed with everything. I spend my time researching everything from house prices in a city to specific careers and yes average sex organ sizes. I can defend the other thread. I had a stupid story idea where a nerd wins a big dick contest. I started out writing stories awhile ago under a different name. I used smal breasts because it felt real. Then I got a response saying that smaller breasts are not average. I start threads asking many things. I'm hungry to know things. So that years from now I can write stories that are equal parts reality and imagination.

 

[loquere]

You thought A cup sizes came without nipples?

No I'm not talking about nipples. A cup really isn't a breast. Much respect life's hard but lets be real. Not even a finger full.

 

[Mercedesbends]

I'm obsessed with everything. I spend my time researching everything from house prices in a city to specific careers and yes average sex organ sizes. I can defend the other thread. I had a stupid story idea where a nerd wins a big dick contest. I started out writing stories awhile ago under a different name. I used smal breasts because it felt real. Then I got a response saying that smaller breasts are not average. I start threads asking many things. I'm hungry to know things. So that years from now I can write stories that are equal parts reality and imagination.

I understand what you're saying, seems like maybe you have a little OCD going on there.

A word of friendly advice; obsessing about anything will take the fun out of it and quickly.

If you're writing a story for fun, keep it fun. You start fretting every detail and picking a simple story to pieces you're no longer going to enjoy it.

Just chill and go with what you want. There are tons of stories here riddled with inaccuracies, but most people don;t care too much especially the "stroke" readers.

People come here to be entertained, not enlightened, just have fun.

 

[loquere]

That's a good one.

Just as funny is when many(I never say all) men discuss breasts in the form of cup sizes. Just because two women are "B's" does not mean they are the same size or shape.

That's the problem with trying to quantify things with "stats"

There is a unique human value to every person. A personality that can light up your world, end wars and bring people together. Yes everyone is special.

There is also a uniqueness that will make some smaller breasted women beyond visually appealing. Watching a performance a while ago with my best friend. He pointed out something I never thought of in my life. I married lucky I guess. He pointed at a female actress, "what is she a man there's nothing there." This made me think in actuality I'm a face man. If you love being with someone with your eyes closed. But there's a problem when your eyes are opened the problem is you.

For writing sake however the visual matters, Atleast until I get to the point of bing able to write immaculate detail.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I'm obsessed with everything. I spend my time researching everything from house prices in a city to specific careers and yes average sex organ sizes. I can defend the other thread. I had a stupid story idea where a nerd wins a big dick contest. I started out writing stories awhile ago under a different name. I used smal breasts because it felt real. Then I got a response saying that smaller breasts are not average. I start threads asking many things. I'm hungry to know things. So that years from now I can write stories that are equal parts reality and imagination.

I take Hemingways advice about details. Capture the moment when things change. Capture the moment the fish tugs your line. The reader will furnish the rest of it.

 

[loquere]

I understand what you're saying, seems like maybe you have a little OCD going on there.

A word of friendly advice; obsessing about anything will take the fun out of it and quickly.

If you're writing a story for fun, keep it fun. You start fretting every detail and picking a simple story to pieces you're no longer going to enjoy it.

Just chill and go with what you want. There are tons of stories here riddled with inaccuracies, but most people don;t care too much especially the "stroke" readers.

People come here to be entertained, not enlightened, just have fun.

Im a detail person. OCD describes it. It made me great at my position. Yesterday I spend %90 of my writing time researching nonsense. Then I went back and realized I haven't been applying my research to old stories during that process. I want this lat chapter to be my master piece. I'm getting tired of it though.