Happily Married, Sexually Unfulfilled

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Sometimes when I really like a song I listen to it over and over and over, until I'm sick of it. Then I avoid it for months, and then I can love it all over again. Do you think there's something wrong with me....?

 

[Porkwarrior]

Sometimes when I really like a song I listen to it over and over and over, until I'm sick of it. Then I avoid it for months, and then I can love it all over again. Do you think there's something wrong with me....?

Substitute "months" for "years" and I am right there.

Every now & then my wife will catch me vogueing to Vanilla Ice and shake her head.
Happens about every three years or so.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Substitute "months" for "years" and I am right there.

Every now & then my wife will catch me vogueing to Vanilla Ice and shake her head.
Happens about every three years or so.

Oh no, not Ice Ice Baby!?

*Dee shakes her head in disbelief*

 

[cryingalien]

hi sexy!

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

hi sexy!

Hey cheeky!

 

[Porkwarrior]

Oh no, not Ice Ice Baby!?

*Dee shakes her head in disbelief*

Haa haa worse, Ice Cold. His other...slightly less played single.
Ahhhh teenage memories.

I do have a three drink minimum, but I can still bust a move.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Haa haa worse, Ice Cold. His other...slightly less played single.
Ahhhh teenage memories.

I do have a three drink minimum, but I can still bust a move.

Put it on youtube and prove it

 

[Porkwarrior]

Put it on youtube and prove it

Bah haa haaa.
That is slightly more than a 3 drink minimum, sorry.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Bah haa haaa.
That is slightly more than a 3 drink minimum, sorry.

Well, the night is young.........

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

So Mr PW never shook his booty for us to watch...... Bummer, I would have stuck a dollar bill in his g-string.....

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Gosh, it's like I'm talking to myself here........

Which I actually do a lot in real life, too.....

Oh dear.....

 

[Porkwarrior]

Gosh, it's like I'm talking to myself here........

Which I actually do a lot in real life, too.....

Oh dear.....

It's only when the walls start answering back that you need to be scared.

And y'know I was setting up the camera...but my dogs gave me the oddest look when I was walking around in my thong, so I came to my senses and gave it a pass.

For now.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

It's only when the walls start answering back that you need to be scared.

And y'know I was setting up the camera...but my dogs gave me the oddest look when I was walking around in my thong, so I came to my senses and gave it a pass.

For now.

The first thing that came to mind now was some cheesy comment about the dogs and the sausage, but I'm not going there. It would be pathetic to do so.

Maybe the dogs would like to frolick in the backyard for a while?

 

[L8tnIt]

Gosh, it's like I'm talking to myself here........

Which I actually do a lot in real life, too.....

Oh dear.....

It happens more than realized.
I am in Nowhere... This is me talking

 

[Porkwarrior]

Posted in another th'd, and he always makes me smile......but probably for all the wrong reasons.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWn0lxRNqos&list=ELME28FkTdZHo&index=3

 

[jusgoodcleanfun]

hey imagine married to an old school irish catholic woman.... and I thought the nuns were fustrated....

 

[Shadowmist99]

Posted in another th'd, and he always makes me smile......but probably for all the wrong reasons.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWn0lxRNqos&list=ELME28FkTdZHo&index=3

That was very funny. Started my day with a smile.

 

[L8tnIt]

Here Ye, Here Ye...!

I have an honest question for all of us.
If you know me & have read my other posts on this thread, then I trust that it is understood that I won't ask say anything to others without accepting that I am as responsible as the next.
Now... With my disclaimer made, I make this inquiry:

We all describe being in marriages where the sex is lacking- what are ypu doing to improve this situation?

Only post in response if youwant to, but this is a serious consideration that has to be made aware of. After all, the 1st step in correcting a situation is to acknowledge it, but the next step is to want to change it.
If you are here, then you know what the problem is... No Sex in the Relationship!
This is me offering a little boost in the right direction.
The right way for me may not be the right way for you, but wanting to improve anything can only lead to good things... Right?

Just think about it...

 

[Porkwarrior]

We all describe being in marriages where the sex is lacking- what are ypu doing to improve this situation?

Forming intimate relationships with other people behind my spouse's back.
Some are "cheating", some are and will always be "harmless". But it is still "cheating".
And I finally found a headspace where I am fine with that.

This is me offering a little boost in the right direction.

Actually it sounds like you are bored at work and wanting to live vicariously through others all the bullshit that you don't have the balls to do yourself.

Just say'n.

 

[L8tnIt]

I appreciate the honesty.
You are on to something, and I am going to have fun thinking about it
Anyone on Lit who knows me enough knows that I have plenty of time to think

Keep up the good work, PorkWarrior

 

[lacandy]

I have an honest question for all of us.
If you know me & have read my other posts on this thread, then I trust that it is understood that I won't ask say anything to others without accepting that I am as responsible as the next.
Now... With my disclaimer made, I make this inquiry:

We all describe being in marriages where the sex is lacking- what are ypu doing to improve this situation?

Only post in response if youwant to, but this is a serious consideration that has to be made aware of. After all, the 1st step in correcting a situation is to acknowledge it, but the next step is to want to change it.
If you are here, then you know what the problem is... No Sex in the Relationship!
This is me offering a little boost in the right direction.
The right way for me may not be the right way for you, but wanting to improve anything can only lead to good things... Right?

Just think about it...

I have genuinely tried to change things in my marriage.

It started with writing an erotic story about a long married couple that the wife wanted so much more sexually. I was trying to be subtle... He read the story (nothing terribly kinky) and his response was, "That was good." We had a conversation about the story after and he never changed.

At one point he found my toy in the shower. I didn't leave it there on purpose, but after he found it I hoped that he would suggest we incorporate it our sex life...he never mentioned it again.

The final straw for me, the point when I knew that nothing would change, was our anniversary this past year. A great Litster (from this thread) gave a suggestion for a gift. So I made a nice little jar and cut up little slips of paper with suggestions on them: send a dirty text, tie someone up, oral only... nothing too out there. I gave him this for our anniversary (22 years). He thanked me, told me that he thought things were just fine the way they were and we have never used the jar.

So, I am doing things that make me feel happy, desired, and wanted. Whatever you want to call that...cheating or or not... I feel better about myself, and that makes me a better mom and wife. I have made efforts, he's happy with what we have - I'm not. Our lives are great in every other aspect, but I need more from our sex lives, and he's not willing to give it. That leaves me with a solution that I can live with, with very little guilt.

 

[jusgoodcleanfun]

why is it that we always seem to marry the exact opposite type of personality?

 

[jusgoodcleanfun]

I have genuinely tried to change things in my marriage.

It started with writing an erotic story about a long married couple that the wife wanted so much more sexually. I was trying to be subtle... He read the story (nothing terribly kinky) and his response was, "That was good." We had a conversation about the story after and he never changed.

At one point he found my toy in the shower. I didn't leave it there on purpose, but after he found it I hoped that he would suggest we incorporate it our sex life...he never mentioned it again.

The final straw for me, the point when I knew that nothing would change, was our anniversary this past year. A great Litster (from this thread) gave a suggestion for a gift. So I made a nice little jar and cut up little slips of paper with suggestions on them: send a dirty text, tie someone up, oral only... nothing too out there. I gave him this for our anniversary (22 years). He thanked me, told me that he thought things were just fine the way they were and we have never used the jar.

So, I am doing things that make me feel happy, desired, and wanted. Whatever you want to call that...cheating or or not... I feel better about myself, and that makes me a better mom and wife. I have made efforts, he's happy with what we have - I'm not. Our lives are great in every other aspect, but I need more from our sex lives, and he's not willing to give it. That leaves me with a solution that I can live with, with very little guilt.

I would die for this

 

[bbqribs68]

Posted in another th'd, and he always makes me smile......but probably for all the wrong reasons.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWn0lxRNqos&list=ELME28FkTdZHo&index=3

THANK YOU!!! That was hilarious!!!

 

[bbqribs68]

I would die for this

Welcome to the club! I think this may be the only club where everyone apologizes to, and feels sorry for, every new member who joins.

SOOO very frustrating!!!