The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

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My god... We are considering buying a house, and all of a sudden, I've got panicked thoughts about the future, and a worsened identity crisis. Is this the thing you always hear in stories, where people have been together for 15 years, but it all goes down the drain right after they signed for a mortgage?
 
My favorite class of personals ad, at least lately, are the ones from "MrsABC" that state, "I'm only here to warn all the rest of you sluts that "MrABC" is not really single and he's my fucking husband."

Apparently I have selective dyslexia because I totally read that as "...he's fucking my husband." Talk about making it even more complicated, LOL.
 
sick and off of work since tues. finally dragged my dumb ass to the er and they dont know whats wrong...gall bladder or ulcer...both choices suck anyway
 
this week's scorecard -

3 job rejections [on their part]
1 job rejection [on my part]
2 worried real estate people [because the new support payments may screw my income/debt ratio, which means no mortgage, which means higher monthly expenses]
1 miserable 13 year old [who misses me]
2 very concerned Men™
1 super concerned best friend
a handful of unhelpful co-workers
and
a boss utilizing the opportunity as an opening to my salvation

cheap pizza
red wine
brownies
:rolleyes:
 
My god... We are considering buying a house, and all of a sudden, I've got panicked thoughts about the future, and a worsened identity crisis. Is this the thing you always hear in stories, where people have been together for 15 years, but it all goes down the drain right after they signed for a mortgage?

Sir, I know a public forum's probably not the best place to be airing the more personal stuff, so I'll just reiterate that I'm pulling for you, and you know where to find me if you want to talk about it. :)

Also: hey, have you noticed that our avatars are kind of similar, compositionally? If we put 'em side by side, Hanekoma would be sort of sneering at Tank Girl while he's on the phone. :D

... I may have had too much coffee, if this is what I'm thinking of...
 
this week's scorecard -

3 job rejections [on their part]
1 job rejection [on my part]
2 worried real estate people [because the new support payments may screw my income/debt ratio, which means no mortgage, which means higher monthly expenses]
1 miserable 13 year old [who misses me]
2 very concerned Men™
1 super concerned best friend
a handful of unhelpful co-workers
and
a boss utilizing the opportunity as an opening to my salvation

cheap pizza
red wine
brownies
:rolleyes:
Add to your list:

A shoebox full of hugs, to be taken out and enjoyed whenever you wish, and
Antennae powered up so much they're slightly glowing in the dark.
 
Freaked the UPS guy out, but he left smiling.:D
Reminder to self..... when rushing to the door, make sure everything is put away.:eek:

<beating head against desk>:eek:
 
Freaked the UPS guy out, but he left smiling.:D
Reminder to self..... when rushing to the door, make sure everything is put away.:eek:

<beating head against desk>:eek:

OHHHHH ... I sooooo know and understand what you're talking about!!! lol

buttoned and covered helps too ... unless directed otherwise ;)
 
Seriously dude, make up your mind. We can have what ever kind of relationship you want, but "stop and go" is not an option.

:rolleyes: really, you'd think an orally fixated highly sex driven female who doesn't require anything more than a friendship to get in her pants would be a no-brainer. :rolleyes:
 
this week's scorecard -

3 job rejections [on their part]
1 job rejection [on my part]
2 worried real estate people [because the new support payments may screw my income/debt ratio, which means no mortgage, which means higher monthly expenses]
1 miserable 13 year old [who misses me]
2 very concerned Men™
1 super concerned best friend
a handful of unhelpful co-workers
and
a boss utilizing the opportunity as an opening to my salvation

cheap pizza
red wine
brownies
:rolleyes:

I hope the wine is good, that there are enough brownies and that next week brings good news.
 
Seriously dude, make up your mind. We can have what ever kind of relationship you want, but "stop and go" is not an option.

:rolleyes: really, you'd think an orally fixated highly sex driven female who doesn't require anything more than a friendship to get in her pants would be a no-brainer. :rolleyes:
Noooo shit!
 
You would think that me of all people would know exactly where my passport is at all times. Flying on Thursday and of course it has gone missing. I might blame this one on the passport fairy.
 
Apparently I have selective dyslexia because I totally read that as "...he's fucking my husband." Talk about making it even more complicated, LOL.

Apparently that's going around today.

I texted my husband:
"Well, talk about fucking the weekend" (someone made plans for him that totally booked Saturday)

And he read:
"We'll talk about fucking the weekend"
 
Lucky. This usually nocturnal kitten actually got sleep last night and had an awful sex dream. I don't like the message contained in said sex dream either *shudder*
It probably isn't the message your subconscious was trying to send. It's not the deep fountain of wisdom people make it out to be, IMO-- more like a barely coherent collection of reactions and motor functions.

In all of my life, I have only gotten a few really clear messages in dreams-- and they were always the kind of thing I could have thought of awake. :rolleyes:
 
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My heart hurts. I know this next 8 months is the beginning of the end...but it hurts so much sometimes.

Not to mention all the questions. What if my visa isn't approved? What if it isn't approved in time for me to get a JOB where I want. What if everything falls apart?

Panic. And my heart hurts.

I just want to sleep with him every night and have my rock and safe place to keep myself. Why does it have to hurt so much.
 
Lucky. This usually nocturnal kitten actually got sleep last night and had an awful sex dream. I don't like the message contained in said sex dream either *shudder*

Yikes. I hate dreams like that. Just remember that usually sex dreams just represent intercourse, not necessarily SEXUAL intercourse.
 
It probably isn't the message your subconscious was trying to send. It's not the deep fountain of wisdom people make it out to be, IMO-- more like a barely coherent collection of reactions and motor functions.

In all of my life, I have only gotten a few really clear messages in dreams-- and they were always the kind of thing I could have thought of awake. :rolleyes:
Okay, I'm taking this back. I just had a phone conversation that totally reminded me of a dream that I had twenty years ago... the dream said that things would happen for me when certain conditions were fulfilled, and at this moment they are fulfilled.

And something might be happening.

I'll be able to be more specific soon, but OMG wish me luck!
 
Two interviews and he didn't get the job. I had already found a great apartment for us, but no need for that now.
 
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