Why do you hang around here?

[MellowTone]

For mentoring, so far. I'm in my third (?) week of membership and I don't think I've gone 24 consecutive hours without stopping in. It's the only active community I've found where I can get a sense of the characters behind each post, where I kinda know whose advice I trust and whose probably doesn't apply to me. It's safer here than anywhere else, right now. I hope to be around for a while.

 

[graceanne]

So...no harm, no foul?

Of course! I was just teasing you.

 

[Netzach]

Would you believe it offers me valuable fantasy insane monetized internet and social internet balance?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Would you believe it offers me valuable fantasy insane monetized internet and social internet balance?

I'm not quite sure what that means, but it sounds good...

 

[Shankara20]

I'm not quite sure what that means, but it sounds good...

and I thought I might be alone in not sorting it out but I blamed that on my lack of coffee so far this am...

 

[Netzach]

My job is internet based BDSM enriched perverted fantasy talk for HOURS.

Lit is perverted bdsm enriched social hour with people whose agendas I either don't need to worry about or don't have time to know about.

Work is kind of like teaching 4 year olds. Emotionally they're about that.

Lit's like being able to network with some adults before diving back in.

It's beyond "oh water cooler, neat people" it's more like human conversation for someone in an echo chamber of horny and crazy.

There's my phone. He will want his racial anxieties about black men stroked, his anxieties about his latent homoerotic interests stroked. I will create his la la land.

 

[Shankara20]

I will create his la la land.

well DUH! now that I'm caffeinated it is all clear..

 

[DVS]

Of course! I was just teasing you.

Just another example that shows words on a screen aren't enough. I'm sure I would have known what you meant, if I had seen your facial expressions.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

My job is ... I will create his la la land.

Ahhh. I understand now, and claim lack of consciousness for my previous response (since I don't do coffee and therefore mornings are often little more than an extended period of "Huh?").

 

[notalwaysweak]

I'm just here to see DVS's avvy smile at me.

Also, because if I get busy and don't drop in for a while, I know I can come back and someone will remember me, for my own avvy at least if not for anything in particular that I've posted

 

[DVS]

I'm just here to see DVS's avvy smile at me.

Also, because if I get busy and don't drop in for a while, I know I can come back and someone will remember me, for my own avvy at least if not for anything in particular that I've posted

I want you to know that Hitch doesn't smile at just anybody. He's selective.

 

[Rayona]

boredum

 

[graceanne]

Just another example that shows words on a screen aren't enough. I'm sure I would have known what you meant, if I had seen your facial expressions.

Very likely, cause I was laughing when I typed that.

 

[SirLeo]

All of the above, really.

 

[notalwaysweak]

I want you to know that Hitch doesn't smile at just anybody. He's selective.

It's funny you should say that because he smiled as I was reading your response...

 

[BiBunny]

Mostly that. ^^^^

 

[Etoile]

At this point? Habit.

I'm comfortable enough in my skin that I feel quite mundane and boring [sexually] compared to most Litizens... the only thing that reminds me I might have an "alternate" view of sexuality, is listening to people outside of Lit talk about their relationships/sex lives.

What the Mouse said. My sex life ranges from mundane and boring to non-existent, but you guys are my friends.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Comfort with old friends who have seen me around for many years.

 

[DVS]

Very likely, cause I was laughing when I typed that.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

This is the club I always wished they'd offered in high school.

Also, I can freely admit my dark secrets. Such as a deep affection for Taylor Swift.

 

[midwestyankee]

This is the club I always wished they'd offered in high school.

Also, I can freely admit my dark secrets. Such as a deep affection for Taylor Swift.

Ah, well, we all have our dross to bear.

 

[Shankara20]

Ah, well, we all have our dross to bear.

oh,


sorry...


I thought it said "dress to wear"

 

[r_mck]

Because I was told that the Emerald Monkey would be delivered ... oh, wait, I'm not supposed to say.

Because of the nice people ...?

 

[midwestyankee]

oh,


sorry...


I thought it said "dress to wear"

Now, Shank. You know your wardrobe is better than dross.

 

[WildWaterNymph]

Because....

It's nice to know my thoughts and desires are not so aberrant OR abhorrent!

It's nice to learn from others who learned that long ago,

It's nice to know there are others who found like-minded people who perfectly share their similar thoughts and desires, and

IT's nice to think maybe one day...I'll find my sex lobster...