This all-consuming obsession is going to fade, RIGHT?

[MellowTone]

Hello everyone, I'm back. Thank you to those who responded to my posts yesterday - particularly those who fueled the discussion about expressin desires as a sub. I hope you'll allow me to avail myself of this this community's support/experience again today

So, if you read my intro, you know that I have always tended towards a submissive nature but only recently recognized/taken ownership of it. I feel wonderful; so free and honest and complete. The one slight problem is that I am completely OBSESSED right now! I'm wide-eyed, weak-kneed, and wet any time I'm near my Dom or he sends me a message. I'm in this forum or doing other Internet research when I'm supposed to be working. I'm fantasizing and touching myself when I should be sleeping. It is LOADS of fun but I can see the writing on the wall. . . This can't go on long term! I have a life to live!

Could any experienced members of the community tell me what to expect for the length of this "awakening" phase, and the transition afterward to some sort of balanced life? I appreciate anything you're willing to share!

 

[seela]

What you're experiencing is often called sub frenzy. Many have gone through it, it's completely normal. It'll pass, but I don't think anyone can say how fast it happens.

 

[MellowTone]

Thank you SO much for answering, it feels better knowing this is a thing that happens to people. "Sub frenzy" is the perfect description.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Welcome to BDSM. Beware of false domination! Have fun!

 

[MellowTone]

False domination?

 

[rosco rathbone]

False domination.

 

[MellowTone]

All right, will you tell me what that means?

 

[rosco rathbone]

I suck at the welcome wagon thing. Nevermind false domination, it's an ongoing concern of us in the lifestyle. Plenty of time to worry about it later. For now enjoy the sub frenzy.

 

[MellowTone]

thanks!

 

[MellowTone]

Holy fuck this is distracting. I'm sorry to keep posting and posting but there is no one in my life who wants to hear about this! Aaaaaaaah!

 

[FireKrystals]

Hi. So I feel you a lot. I have OCD and has such anything I get into I obsess over and eat,drink,live it, When I first get addicted it can take me anywhere from a few days to months to get over. The longest I've been obsessed was 2 1/2 years. I know this may not be comforting *grin* but I am just trying to point out that it is normal and varies. I am glad you have found what makes you happy and welcome. Being in the Army and moving alot, I know what it is like to not have anyone you can talk to about it, then I found literotica *grin* my new obsession. I spend all my free time reading all the threads, posts, stories I can on my BDSM obsession which I only discovered what it was a bit ago. I was so relieved to finally know what was wrong with me (not really wrong persay ^_^) just glad to know it's normal. I wish you great luck and enjoy the sub rush ^_^. Welcome and hope your overwhelming obsession goes away soon. If you ever want to talk shoot me an E-Mail

P.S-Yay for sub frenzy ^_^
P.P.S-be glad it's not dom frenzy ^_^ that was rough for me hahahaah, my poor husband *evil grin*

 

[intothewoods]

I suck at the welcome wagon thing. Nevermind false domination, it's an ongoing concern of us in the lifestyle. Plenty of time to worry about it later. For now enjoy the sub frenzy.

aw, you old softie.

 

[rosco rathbone]

aw, you old softie.

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